Alfie's Army

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Vizsla

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923 posts

124 months

Friday 13th April 2018
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www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-merseyside-43746174

Hundreds gather outside Alder Hey Hospital where the terminally-ill toddler is being cared for.

Oh God, here we go again.

Biker 1

7,724 posts

119 months

Friday 13th April 2018
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I can't imagine what its like to lo lose a child, & under these circumstances it must be even more horrific.
However, it seems the parents are being very naively steered up a blind alley & nothing good will come of this. The protesting mob outside the hospital I wager have little knowledge of medicine.

amusingduck

9,396 posts

136 months

Friday 13th April 2018
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I'm sick of society supporting the suffering of these terminally ill children to spare the feelings of the parents.

Dixy

2,918 posts

205 months

Friday 13th April 2018
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So wrong and so misinformed.
If this father was in the states at the end of all this not only would he have no son he would also be bankrupt.
The Italians giving false hope are just fuelling this grief.
What the protesters are most wrong for though is lack of consideration for all the other sick people who are getting exceptional care and can well do without this imposition.

TurbosSuck

187 posts

82 months

Friday 13th April 2018
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Vizsla said:
Oh God, here we go again.
That was exactly my thought. I think society as a whole is going through some kind of reverse evolution, we have come through the days of amazing scientific and medical discoveries to a place where people now view such things with distain and distrust.

The quotes in the news article, if true, are frankly terrifying; talk of murder and such from the parent....



Joscal

2,074 posts

200 months

Friday 13th April 2018
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TurbosSuck said:
That was exactly my thought. I think society as a whole is going through some kind of reverse evolution, we have come through the days of amazing scientific and medical discoveries to a place where people now view such things with distain and distrust.

The quotes in the news article, if true, are frankly terrifying; talk of murder and such from the parent....
I worry about this too, there were protests outside the local education offices in my city yesterday because of rumoured school closures.
The boss of the education board was interviewed and said the rumours were just that, spread by social media. The thickos now have a voice and quite frankly its frightening. I'm all for for fairness etc etc but it really is going way too far in my opinion. Life is unfair but being entitled appears to be the norm.

I think the world has gone bloody mad...

Jonesy23

4,650 posts

136 months

Friday 13th April 2018
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Dixy said:
What the protesters are most wrong for though is lack of consideration for all the other sick people who are getting exceptional care and can well do without this imposition.
The police should have been out there removing them from the site. How can anyone think a protesting mob outside a children's hospital is a good idea?

Though I guess it's just an extension of the same selfish attitude that they have towards a suffering child.

anonymous-user

54 months

Friday 13th April 2018
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Army of morons and grief tourists.


HTP99

22,528 posts

140 months

Friday 13th April 2018
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The internet has alot to answer for with all these armchair experts who know far better than a trained medical professional; you wouldn't tell a pilot how best to fly the plane you are on, however when it comes to medical issues it appears that everyone knows better.

These people that stand outside the hospital waving placards and generally being a nuisance are no better than the idiots who stand outside a court throwing abuse at the prison van when driving away; have you nothing better to do!!

WatchfulEye

500 posts

128 months

Friday 13th April 2018
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Dixy said:
So wrong and so misinformed.
If this father was in the states at the end of all this not only would he have no son he would also be bankrupt.
The Italians giving false hope are just fuelling this grief.
What the protesters are most wrong for though is lack of consideration for all the other sick people who are getting exceptional care and can well do without this imposition.
This case is slightly different to the previous Gard case.

In the Charlie Gard case, there was a US doctor who appeared to be giving out inappropriate hope. In this case, all the doctors involved, including the Italians and Germans have said that they believe that the condition is progressive and terminal. Indeed the judge started his summing up of the parent's argument saying "F's [the father] case is not entirely easy to state."

Indeed, the Italians have said that while they would be prepared to have Alfie at their units, the trip would be difficult and could cause further deterioration, they do not have any new treatment to offer, but would repeat the tests which have already been done, in the slim chance that something had been missed.

The Germans have said something similar, which is that they would have Alfie for 2 weeks and repeat the tests already done (at a cost of €65k). They would then assist the family in finding a suitable hospice capable of managing Alfie's extremely delicate condition.

I'd suggest reading the judgement as this says things better than I can paraphrase them:
https://www.judiciary.gov.uk/wp-content/uploads/20...

Rovinghawk

13,300 posts

158 months

Friday 13th April 2018
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The kindest thing for the lad would be an injection of something to pleasantly drift him off to sleep, never to awaken.

Some people would say that makes me a monster but I'd do it for a dog & don't think a human deserves any less.

FN2TypeR

7,091 posts

93 months

Friday 13th April 2018
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Dromedary66 said:
Vandenberg said:
Army of morons and grief tourists.
Something scousers specialise in.
laugh

Gameface

16,565 posts

77 months

Friday 13th April 2018
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Dromedary66 said:
Vandenberg said:
Army of morons and grief tourists.
Something scousers specialise in.
FFS. There's always one.


Rude-boy

22,227 posts

233 months

Friday 13th April 2018
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Rovinghawk said:
The kindest thing for the lad would be an injection of something to pleasantly drift him off to sleep, never to awaken.

Some people would say that makes me a monster but I'd do it for a dog & don't think a human deserves any less.
I have to agree.

In fact i even have a legal document that goes as far as the law will currently allow me to go in making such decisions.

It is just a shame that some of those with responsibility for Alfie refuse to accept what is in his best interests.

Personally i find it hard to think of something more selfish and disgusting than unnecessarily prolonging the pain and/or suffering of someone whose awareness of life and future condition is less than that of your average 2 day old baby, and never, ever, will be.

anonymous-user

54 months

Friday 13th April 2018
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The parents are quite social media savvy
they come across as the trip and slip type looking for someone to blame etc
That's just an impression I get of them from interviews they have given
Sorry just saying how I feel

pidsy

7,979 posts

157 months

Friday 13th April 2018
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Spot on Dave.

Couldn’t agree more.

Willy Nilly

12,511 posts

167 months

Friday 13th April 2018
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Gameface said:
Dromedary66 said:
Vandenberg said:
Army of morons and grief tourists.
Something scousers specialise in.
FFS. There's always one.
There's thousands of them

Rovinghawk

13,300 posts

158 months

Friday 13th April 2018
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Willy Nilly said:
There's thousands of them
Zulus?

anonymous-user

54 months

Friday 13th April 2018
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Alder hey should be rubbing their hands in glee that the circus was willing to move to another hospital.

I was fortunate enough to have Alder hey care for my son in the teenage cancer ward and you just can’t fault the staff, care or treatment. They had every medical and other facility a teenager would want along with their own chef who didn’t put on a menu and just come down and asked the kids what they wanted. If they had it or could get it then it was made.

You can see where NHS cash is spent and it’s spent wisely in that area.

The family have gone about it the wrong way but it’s up to them if they want to remove him from the hospitals care and in to another I guess but the courts will probably disagree.

TwigtheWonderkid

43,317 posts

150 months

Friday 13th April 2018
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Faz50 said:
The family have gone about it the wrong way but it’s up to them if they want to remove him from the hospitals care and in to another I guess but the courts will probably disagree.
Forgetting about this particular case, if medical experts said such a move would cause pain and distress to the patient with no tangible benefit, would parents still have the right to move the patient?