Remember the 'escorts' thread? Confession time.

Remember the 'escorts' thread? Confession time.

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Superflow

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1,399 posts

132 months

Monday 24th July 2017
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I am not a regular poster on here and did not post on that thread at the time but now i can come clean about this albeit anonymously.I have been using escorts now for sometime now from a reputable agency(if such a thing exists)and over the course of time it has developed into a habit for me.Nobody in my life knows about this not even my closest friend of over thirty years.I am not a troll nor a fantasist just a forty two year old married man with nothing to prove.

I have been with five different escorts since this began,The first girl was 31 and very confident she was dipping in and out of agency work as she already had a wealthy client who would take her on trips abroad with him which she made thousands from,i didn't see her for long as she quit to start a business venture up.The next three girls were all nurses in their twenties,two nhs and the other in private nursing(doesn't say much for public sector wages does it)all polite and intelligent girls.One of them told me about a guy she was seeing who was over from Dubai who took her out almost every night over three weeks to bars and restaurants but never had any sexual contact with her at any time,which i found a little odd,but from memory she said she came out with around £5k from the chap.

The woman i'm seeing now is the best for me,great personality looks and body only been escorting for five months and is currently working through her accountancy exams,not young at 33 but is confident and very open minded which is obviously a big turn on.I see her once every three weeks for normally 3/4 hours a time.I will say that for me this is a purely physical thing and i have no intention of leaving my wife in the future.i have zero interest in relationships or god help me dating,in fact if we ever did split i would never entertain a relationship again as it is too much hassle for me.I appreciate this is not for many but i am just being honest here.

ellroy

7,029 posts

225 months

Monday 24th July 2017
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If true you may want to cover up your reg plate in your profile pic?

Hainey

4,381 posts

200 months

Monday 24th July 2017
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Pure class.

My sympathies to your wife.

n3il123

2,607 posts

213 months

Monday 24th July 2017
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ellroy said:
If true you may want to cover up your reg plate in your profile pic?
laugh

Jonmx

2,544 posts

213 months

Monday 24th July 2017
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A very good friend of mine had a mishap earlier this year. His wife's brother came over and managed to set fire to part of the house. My friend was away at the time, so his wife used his Ipad to try and find the household insurance details as he's the one who sorts those things out and she hoped the details would be in his inbox somewhere. Lo and behold, up popped his emails that showed a nice steady history of booking and visiting escorts over the last 2-3 years. They are currently working their way through their issues.

PurpleMoonlight

22,362 posts

157 months

Monday 24th July 2017
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Okay, as you are being honest.

What to you get from your escorts that you don't get from your wife?

TLandCruiser

2,788 posts

198 months

Monday 24th July 2017
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PurpleMoonlight said:
Okay, as you are being honest.

What to you get from your escorts that you don't get from your wife?
I'm going to take a long hard guess, and say sex

Alucidnation

16,810 posts

170 months

Monday 24th July 2017
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Jonmx said:
A very good friend of mine had a mishap earlier this year. His wife's brother came over and managed to set fire to part of the house. My friend was away at the time, so his wife used his Ipad to try and find the household insurance details as he's the one who sorts those things out and she hoped the details would be in his inbox somewhere. Lo and behold, up popped his emails that showed a nice steady history of booking and visiting escorts over the last 2-3 years. They are currently working their way through their issues.
Not too bright then.

ymwoods

2,178 posts

177 months

Monday 24th July 2017
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TLandCruiser said:
I'm going to take a long hard guess, and say sex
Lol, I would say this also!

Being serious, I suppose a lot is about feeling some intimacy that is missing from the marriage? The feeling of freshness maybe...also the fact that she won't expect you to do the dishes after dinner either...plus the fact that there is no need to go out and try to pull and you can end up with a 10/10 when your normal pulling skills mean you can only manage a 6.

I can get why men use them. Ease and less hassle for a start, but once it is a habit or costing you money you don't have then it becomes a major issue...that and if the girl is part of one of these slavery rings.

The biggest issue is obviously the hurt your partner would feel, or any children etc. That for me would be the thing that would put me off. Having a baby on the way, I wouldn't want the shame knowing my child knew I had cheated on their mum, so for me, it's not worth the risk.

If all the above is not something you're concerned about though and it's your release then as long as your practicing the safeties, so to speak, then I don't see the issue. Oldest trade in the world and all that.

Eric Mc

121,992 posts

265 months

Monday 24th July 2017
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I've always fancied giving an Escort a go - preferably a rally prepped Mk1 -



This is a car fan forum after all.

Animal

5,247 posts

268 months

Monday 24th July 2017
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Amusing that your profile occupation is listed as 'online rental', no?

Serious advice is to quit whilst you're ahead and work on your marriage. This current situation won't end well for you and you stand to lose a lot more than a bit of bodily fluid and a few quid.

LaurasOtherHalf

21,429 posts

196 months

Monday 24th July 2017
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Superflow said:
I am not a regular poster on here and did not post on that thread at the time but now i can come clean about this albeit anonymously.I have been using escorts now for sometime now from a reputable agency(if such a thing exists)and over the course of time it has developed into a habit for me.Nobody in my life knows about this not even my closest friend of over thirty years.I am not a troll nor a fantasist just a forty two year old married man with nothing to prove.

I have been with five different escorts since this began,The first girl was 31 and very confident she was dipping in and out of agency work as she already had a wealthy client who would take her on trips abroad with him which she made thousands from,i didn't see her for long as she quit to start a business venture up.The next three girls were all nurses in their twenties,two nhs and the other in private nursing(doesn't say much for public sector wages does it)all polite and intelligent girls.One of them told me about a guy she was seeing who was over from Dubai who took her out almost every night over three weeks to bars and restaurants but never had any sexual contact with her at any time,which i found a little odd,but from memory she said she came out with around £5k from the chap.

The woman i'm seeing now is the best for me,great personality looks and body only been escorting for five months and is currently working through her accountancy exams,not young at 33 but is confident and very open minded which is obviously a big turn on.I see her once every three weeks for normally 3/4 hours a time.I will say that for me this is a purely physical thing and i have no intention of leaving my wife in the future.i have zero interest in relationships or god help me dating,in fact if we ever did split i would never entertain a relationship again as it is too much hassle for me.I appreciate this is not for many but i am just being honest here.
Well they're hardly going to tell you they're getting knocked in by a dozen creeps a day whilst feeding their drug habit are they?


wolfracesonic

6,991 posts

127 months

Monday 24th July 2017
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Jonmx said:
A very good friend of mine had a mishap earlier this year. His wife's brother came over and managed to set fire to part of the house. My friend was away at the time, so his wife used his Ipad to try and find the household insurance details as he's the one who sorts those things out and she hoped the details would be in his inbox somewhere. Lo and behold, up popped his emails that showed a nice steady history of booking and visiting escorts over the last 2-3 years. They are currently working their way through their issues.
She's got his balls locked away in a cupboard?

GT03ROB

13,262 posts

221 months

Monday 24th July 2017
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Superflow said:
.....,not young at 33..... .
However clearly a fair bit younger than you......

Superflow said:
...... i have no intention of leaving my wife in the future..............in fact if we ever did split i would never entertain a relationship again as it is too much hassle for me.
.... when your wife finds out (& there is a fair probability she will), your intentions would be irrelevant. Your wife will control the situation. There is a saying that goes something like "you are free to choose what you want to do, however the consequences are not your choice". To be honest you sound like you a are in a relationship with your wife you neither value or get any happiness/satisfaction from. Show your wife some respect & end the marriage.


Edited by GT03ROB on Monday 24th July 12:01

eliot

11,423 posts

254 months

Monday 24th July 2017
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^agreed.
Blokes are the first to come on here winging about how their wife is playing away and/or taking them to the cleaners.

Bluesgirl

769 posts

91 months

Monday 24th July 2017
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I'd say any respect he had for his wife is long gone.

OP, do you have kids? How do you think your relationship with them will fare when the sh*t hits the fan?

can't remember

1,078 posts

128 months

Monday 24th July 2017
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ellroy said:
If true you may want to cover up your reg plate in your profile pic?
Either world class stupid or second rate bullstter. Either way, I'm surprised it's still up.

rsbmw

3,464 posts

105 months

Monday 24th July 2017
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censored - just for future reference

ETA

nono

Edited by Big Al. on Monday 24th July 08:55

alorotom

11,939 posts

187 months

Monday 24th July 2017
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So either ...

1) This post is rubbish

2) The car in the pic isn't his

3) He doesn't actually care anymore and the visibility of this and it being "discovered" will finally let the car out of the bag without having to take control of the situation at hand

4) Any combo of the above

...

If it is a true thread I'm not sure what the reason, intention or expected outcome may have been??

Taita

7,603 posts

203 months

Monday 24th July 2017
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rsbmw said:
- just for future reference
Good bloke...... rolleyes