Dangerous Driving NIP
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Andy665

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4,153 posts

254 months

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paul_c123

2,180 posts

19 months

Saturday
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Firstly, is your wife insured to drive the car?

Anyway, son fills in NIP with mum's details and moves on with life. Wife defends DD claim successfully. I doubt it would get to court - it sounds like a fishing expedition at this stage.

_Rodders_

2,608 posts

45 months

Saturday
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Sounds like a pain but surely they're going to have to produce evidence at some point. Assuming there is none it'll go away at that point I would have thought.

Jamescrs

6,147 posts

91 months

Saturday
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Your son is going to have to return the NIP to fulfil his obligations and then a further NIP will be issued to your wife with her details on, she will have to complete the document and return it to confirm she was the driver at the time.

It is then a waiting game for further paperwork to come through though it may cause someone to review the details again when they get informed a 50 year old female was the driver of the car.

It may be as an aside that someone else present other than Police has been filming and has sent the recording to the Police through operation Snap.

I am guessing at this point but I suspect the chances are they have issued NIP's to all identifiable vehicles on whatever footage they have to fulfil their obligations of issuing NIP's within 14 days of the offence and any investigation is still ongoing

Ubiquitous2024

641 posts

22 months

Saturday
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Worrying about nothing, its a blanket trawl of NIPs to gather details before they even decide what to do. NPAS alone won't be sufficient for prosecution, they would need ground asset and corroborative evidence to prosecute, and to get a prosecution for dangerous the threshold is seriously high.

This is all a non problem, just explain the above, case closed.

reddiesel

3,051 posts

73 months

Saturday
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Ubiquitous2024 said:
Worrying about nothing, its a blanket trawl of NIPs to gather details before they even decide what to do. NPAS alone won't be sufficient for prosecution, they would need ground asset and corroborative evidence to prosecute, and to get a prosecution for dangerous the threshold is seriously high.

This is all a non problem, just explain the above, case closed.
It makes my day when a decent man makes an intelligent , reasoned and accurate comment on here without rushing to judge others .
Well done mate .

Stick Legs

8,779 posts

191 months

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I'm going to no doubt get some stick for this but...



Nice try getting some 'corroborating evidence' for your noble but misguided attempt to get your son off the hook for hooning about in his car.

Have you looked up the consequences of 'perverting the course of justice'?


dxg

10,445 posts

286 months

Saturday
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_Rodders_ said:
Sounds like a pain but surely they're going to have to produce evidence at some point. Assuming there is none it'll go away at that point I would have thought.
They'll just make it up. Like they did to this guy (who won on his day at court): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eHc_i9OSb4A

Ubiquitous2024

641 posts

22 months

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Stick Legs said:
I'm going to no doubt get some stick for this but...



Nice try getting some 'corroborating evidence' for your noble but misguided attempt to get your son off the hook for hooning about in his car.

Have you looked up the consequences of 'perverting the course of justice'?
Your nasty. The actions the OP took are totally in line with parents trying their best to support a son struggling with life.

Sheepshanks

40,054 posts

145 months

Saturday
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Must admit I was thinking they’re going to just laugh when someone claims his mum was driving.

Hopefully she’s been caught (seen) driving in video.

Jeremy-75qq8

1,708 posts

118 months

Saturday
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You are of course welcome to that point of view but it was going through my mind also.

As long as the is evidence in the video / images or whatever she was driving then of course all fine. However just bear in mind the police will think the same as many on here. 54 year old mums don't typically drive to car meets and then why would she take his car as opposed to her own ?


Oceanrower

1,311 posts

138 months

Saturday
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There isn t an option on here to give you a like . So I hope this will do instead.

Mental illness is a hidden, corrosive thing that affects many, many more of us that will be prepared to admit it.

If more people had the understanding and gave the support that it looks like you and your wife do, the world would be a considerably better place.

BertBert

21,086 posts

237 months

Saturday
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But still remember OP that as your wife wasn't driving dangerously, there can't be any evidence that she was.

For any suspicion plod have that your wife was not driving, there is no proof that your son was driving.

A very unhappy event to have to deal with especially with your son's current mental health, but stay calm and deal with any steps that come along with legal advice as needed.

Ping Agtlaw and see if it's the kind of thing he deals with.

Stick Legs

8,779 posts

191 months

Saturday
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Ubiquitous2024 said:
Stick Legs said:
I'm going to no doubt get some stick for this but...



Nice try getting some 'corroborating evidence' for your noble but misguided attempt to get your son off the hook for hooning about in his car.

Have you looked up the consequences of 'perverting the course of justice'?
Your nasty. The actions the OP took are totally in line with parents trying their best to support a son struggling with life.
Andy665 said:
Well, I expected at least one "knob" comment and you have delivered
You have elaborated further on the details, which you have my sympathy for, genuinely.

My comment is what my first impression was, and for that I won't apologise.

The Police have form for 'fishing expeditions' like this and it is a pity if that is the case on this occasion due to the stress caused, however if what you say is true then will be no corroborating evidence, and therefore no need for concern. They cannot prosecute on a whim, and you have a right to ignore a FPN and attend court.
If the Police have no evidence you will not end up before a magistrate.



Enut

996 posts

99 months

Saturday
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OP I'm really sorry to hear about your son's problems. It just goes to show that the risks of young people driving, and having accidents (in this case leading to your son's friend getting killed), doesn't just affect those individuals but can have a much wider impact. I hope your son is OK.

I'm a little concerned that in your first post the implication was that your wife did ALL the driving however in your last post it appears that your son also drove, or am I missing something? If the latter is true then you will need to ascertain exactly who was driving at the time of the NIP.

Edited by Enut on Saturday 20th June 18:17

davek_964

11,031 posts

201 months

Saturday
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Andy665 said:
....my wife decided to let him go with her in attendance purely to give me a break. He did some of the driving, she said that there were no concerns, since he lost his best friend in a car accident he tends to be pretty sensible behind the wheel, he has seen the consequences. She also did some of the driving.....
That seems to have changed slightly since your original post.
It may well be the case that it's a fishing expedition and they have no evidence, but it doesn't seem that you can claim it was only your wife driving

119

18,392 posts

62 months

Saturday
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I think some of the trouble with these car meets, is that if they are not properly organised etc, then i think they can be classed as illegal.

Not sure on the blanket NIPs but i guess the police were hiding nearby to get all the reg numbers.

paul_c123

2,180 posts

19 months

Saturday
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Andy665 said:
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He did some of the driving, she said that there were no concerns, since he lost his best friend in a car accident he tends to be pretty sensible behind the wheel, he has seen the consequences. She also did some of the driving and the moment she realised that the comings and goings of other people, especially whilst driving between the "stop" points was getting a little concerning she removed them from the environment.
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Needless to say, it will be important to determine who was driving at the time/place stated on the NIP.

InitialDave

14,759 posts

145 months

Saturday
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You have my sympathy, you made a good decision as his parents, and your wife appears to have continued making good decisions in the situation she was in.

Hope it all works out.

For the more knowledgeable: Is there a way for this to result in a section 59 notice against the son's car, even if the dangerous driving accusation is shown to be bunk?

As the situation has been presented, it doesn't make me think too highly of the police or their approach to these things.

paul_c123

2,180 posts

19 months

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Is the area subject to a Public Spaces Protection Order?