The road to Hell (Stop to help?)
The road to Hell (Stop to help?)
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Sparkzz

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452 posts

166 months

Saturday 2nd April 2016
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The initial message was deleted from this topic on 29 April 2016 at 19:28

mondeoman

11,430 posts

296 months

Saturday 2nd April 2016
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You stop.
Or we find you and kill you.

You can call the company about the interview and explain.

Willy Nilly

12,511 posts

197 months

Saturday 2nd April 2016
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Stop to help, and ring the job up to explain why you are delayed to arrange a different interview.

Mothersruin

8,573 posts

129 months

Saturday 2nd April 2016
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You stop.

Can't believe you are asking this question.

poing

8,743 posts

230 months

Saturday 2nd April 2016
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Of course you stop, then if he isn't badly hurt you give him smack in the mouth for being an idiot then kick him in the nuts for costing you a job.

This situation is really simple, but if you want to complicate it then replace job interview with a pregnant wife in the passenger seat. Now you have a real dilemma.

ETA: Just to make it clear for the stupid/pedantic, you are rushing to the hospital with the wife because she is in labour.

Edited by poing on Saturday 2nd April 19:43

Jasandjules

72,624 posts

259 months

Saturday 2nd April 2016
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This is a rhetorical question.


stevemiller

583 posts

195 months

Saturday 2nd April 2016
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Did you see me drive by?

crofty1984

17,064 posts

234 months

Saturday 2nd April 2016
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Hang on, he IS dead? Not much you can do.

InitialDave

15,142 posts

149 months

Saturday 2nd April 2016
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Sparkzz said:
Please read that this is not my personal opinion, as I would stop. I'm soft.

Realistically though, what can you do? He's dead. You roll alongside and he's mush. Is it really worth losing that job for, or having that baby in the car?

He's the idiot, after all.
Unless he is literally mush, or his head is lying several feet away or something, that's not a call you can make from a distance. Plus maybe you didn't see a passenger, or a child seat in the back.

You always stop. The only exception would be if to do so would be definitely risking another life, in whatever convoluted scenario you fancy putting out there to suit that.

As for the theoretical job, any company worth working for will reschedule under those circumstances. Perhaps it'll give you a little extra glimpse of whether you want their job.

Edited by InitialDave on Saturday 2nd April 20:04

anonymous-user

84 months

Saturday 2nd April 2016
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If he was driving a leased Golf R I'd stop to remind him that 4wd doesn't offer any lateral grip advantage.

Sparkzz

Original Poster:

452 posts

166 months

Saturday 2nd April 2016
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wormus said:
If he was driving a leased Golf R I'd stop to remind him that 4wd doesn't offer any lateral grip advantage.
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Jasandjules

72,624 posts

259 months

Saturday 2nd April 2016
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In the OP you don't say you know he is dead.

But in any event the answer is you stop. You see if you can help and you do what you can. You then contact the company later and explain what happened and ask for another interview date..

Sparkzz

Original Poster:

452 posts

166 months

Saturday 2nd April 2016
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Jasandjules said:
In the OP you don't say you know he is dead.

But in any event the answer is you stop. You see if you can help and you do what you can. You then contact the company later and explain what happened and ask for another interview date..
100+ into a tree, he's dead as a Dodo.

OldGermanHeaps

5,169 posts

208 months

Saturday 2nd April 2016
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Did his car have a good stereo? Is it still intact?

DS197

992 posts

136 months

Saturday 2nd April 2016
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Carry on because he's dead. Not a difficult question at all.

OldGermanHeaps said:
Did his car have a good stereo? Is it still intact?
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Iva Barchetta

44,044 posts

193 months

Saturday 2nd April 2016
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Sparkzz said:
Let's have a hypothetical situation for tonight.

Imagine your driving a long a B road, an old Roman road, many straight sections, but the camber varies with dips and the very occasional sharp bend. Trees and fences line the road, there is a sharp drop on the left hand side. It's damp and drizzling, no traffic in either direction. Just you.

Your running at 60 - 70 (Which is arguably the maximum sensible speed for this type of road)

A typical, badly driven car with a single occupant (young male) overtakes you without indicating. You estimate his speed to be well over 100, your car shakes as he passes. You curse him for being an idiot, he nearly collided with you.

Just as he's on the horizon, you see the vehicle lose control, it hits a tree head on. It's stranded in the ditch at the side of the road, the road itself is not obscured by the vehicle.

Surely, you should stop to help the fellow. You should contact the authorities, he's probably dead.

Thing is, your on your way to a job interview, the opportunity of a lifetime, and your pretty sure you'll get it. Providing your on time.
It's £20,000 a year more than your on now, a 4 day week, the kind of work you like to do, in a good location. (Whatever you can imagine, it's your dream job in your chosen field)

If you stop to help, you WILL be late, you won't get the job.

Did you really see this crash? or do you roll on by? Any legal eagles know the specifics on what your supposed to do?
First rule of PH.

Always quote.

MarshPhantom

9,658 posts

167 months

Saturday 2nd April 2016
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Having stopped to help at a crash some years ago I'd think twice about it noŵ. The police arrived and assumed we knew the people in the other car (why stop if you didn't know them?) and thought we must have been racing. Drove off before anything bad happened.

V8RX7

28,982 posts

293 months

Saturday 2nd April 2016
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I always stop.

If he's dead then I'd call 999 and leave.

If he's alive, I'd do all I could.

EDIT - to answer the final question in the OP - I don't believe there is a legal requirement to stop - I believe there is in some European countries. I'd like to think that people would stop because they're decent human beings rather than because they are legally obligated.

Edited by V8RX7 on Saturday 2nd April 22:50

Levin

2,118 posts

154 months

Saturday 2nd April 2016
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I'd definitely stop.

Call the emergency services first and foremost. Call the employer afterwards and explain you're at the scene of an accident and will not be able to make it to the interview but would be happy to reschedule for another date.

Even if the other car's occupant(s) are mush, it's bound to reflect well on you as a possible employee. And you'd be doing the decent thing, too.

AndyDubbya

990 posts

314 months

Saturday 2nd April 2016
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Sparkzz said:
Let's have a hypothetical situation for tonight.

Imagine your driving a long a B road, an old Roman road, many straight sections, but the camber varies with dips and the very occasional sharp bend. Trees and fences line the road, there is a sharp drop on the left hand side. It's damp and drizzling, no traffic in either direction. Just you.

Your running at 60 - 70 (Which is arguably the maximum sensible speed for this type of road)

A typical, badly driven car with a single occupant (young male) overtakes you without indicating. You estimate his speed to be well over 100, your car shakes as he passes. You curse him for being an idiot, he nearly collided with you.

Just as he's on the horizon, you see the vehicle lose control, it hits a tree head on. It's stranded in the ditch at the side of the road, the road itself is not obscured by the vehicle.

Surely, you should stop to help the fellow. You should contact the authorities, he's probably dead.

Thing is, your on your way to a job interview, the opportunity of a lifetime, and your pretty sure you'll get it. Providing your on time.
It's £20,000 a year more than your on now, a 4 day week, the kind of work you like to do, in a good location. (Whatever you can imagine, it's your dream job in your chosen field)

If you stop to help, you WILL be late, you won't get the job.

Did you really see this crash? or do you roll on by? Any legal eagles know the specifics on what your supposed to do?
You might as well stop. You're not going to get the job anyway, because your interviewer will figure out you're the kind of person who can't tell the difference between your and you're.