Parking problem in residential street ADVICE
Parking problem in residential street ADVICE
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scrambler95

Original Poster:

36 posts

135 months

Saturday 8th September 2018
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We live in a 3 bed council property (I still live at home its my dad house) and none of the road has off road parking. Ive got 2 cars (one company) my dads got a car and so has my brother, all taxed, mot'd and insured.
My dads been away with his car all this week so ive parked my second car (of which i normally park out of the road with it) in his normal space. Just had a knock from a new next door neighbour (who doesnt own a car and hasnt spoken to us at all bit if a hot head by all accounts) asking if I could move one from outside his house as his missus and son got wet getting out of a taxi ? I did oblige after he stopped balling at me but surely we arent breaking the law parking like we do never had any problem regarding parking with my neighbours as I try and park outside peoples houses who havent got a car.
Where do I stand with this ? i feel as though I shouldn't be parking anywhere but outside my house now. Any suggestions ?

Edited by scrambler95 on Saturday 8th September 15:15

S100HP

13,794 posts

197 months

Saturday 8th September 2018
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Why should the council move you? How about ditching a car and getting yourself your own place.

Fermit and Sarah

13,240 posts

130 months

Saturday 8th September 2018
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No one owns the space of road outside their house, as long as there are no restrictions anyone is allowed to park there. If they get arsey then tell them to bog off.

Pica-Pica

16,606 posts

114 months

Saturday 8th September 2018
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a) we get summer tourists parking outside our house (there are spaces for our two cars) which is near an ancient church.
b) we recognise we do not own the spaces, so we swallow our irritation.
c) it comes down to good neighbourliness. This needs to be established before issues arise, in that way it forestalls the issues.

steve2

1,864 posts

248 months

Saturday 8th September 2018
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So is he going to ask everyone who legally parks outside his house to not park there ?
You should stand your ground and tell him to buy his missus an umbrella

essayer

10,410 posts

224 months

Saturday 8th September 2018
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He’s a bully and a prick, don’t give in again.

scrambler95

Original Poster:

36 posts

135 months

Saturday 8th September 2018
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S100HP said:
Why should the council move you? How about ditching a car and getting yourself your own place.
Why should I theyre all legal, I work 60 hours a week to fund my car hobby ? Im 22 saving for a mortgage I cant just 'move out' stupid comment that

Pica-Pica

16,606 posts

114 months

Saturday 8th September 2018
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scrambler95 said:
S100HP said:
Why should the council move you? How about ditching a car and getting yourself your own place.
Why should I theyre all legal, I work 60 hours a week to fund my car hobby ? Im 22 saving for a mortgage I cant just 'move out' stupid comment that
I think ‘funding a car hobby’ and ‘saving for a mortgage’ may be mutually exclusive.

S100HP

13,794 posts

197 months

Saturday 8th September 2018
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scrambler95 said:
Why should I theyre all legal, I work 60 hours a week to fund my car hobby ? Im 22 saving for a mortgage I cant just 'move out' stupid comment that
No more stupid than "the council won't move us"

steve2

1,864 posts

248 months

Saturday 8th September 2018
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So is he going to ask everyone who legally parks outside his house to not park there ?
You should stand your ground and tell him to buy his missus an umbrella

scrambler95

Original Poster:

36 posts

135 months

Saturday 8th September 2018
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I think ‘funding a car hobby’ and ‘saving for a mortgage’ may be mutually exclusive.

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The car cost me £900 2 years ago I can still enjoy my car and save towards a mortgage ?

Jag_NE

3,339 posts

130 months

Saturday 8th September 2018
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his excuse for asking you to move is hilarious!

nonsequitur

20,083 posts

146 months

Saturday 8th September 2018
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Fermit and Sarah said:
No one owns the space of road outside their house, as long as there are no restrictions anyone is allowed to park there. If they get arsey then tell them to bog off.
But doesn't it bottom line as consideration for others? It may be legal but is it morally correct?


anonymous-user

84 months

Saturday 8th September 2018
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nonsequitur said:
Fermit and Sarah said:
No one owns the space of road outside their house, as long as there are no restrictions anyone is allowed to park there. If they get arsey then tell them to bog off.
But doesn't it bottom line as consideration for others? It may be legal but is it morally correct?
What do morals have to do with parking on a road outside a house that doesn't own a car?

LudaMusser

159 posts

143 months

Saturday 8th September 2018
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Ppl park in my street who live in the next street. Do I go outside and order them to move their car? No because it's parked legally

Tell him to fk off

Fermit and Sarah

13,240 posts

130 months

Saturday 8th September 2018
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nonsequitur said:
Fermit and Sarah said:
No one owns the space of road outside their house, as long as there are no restrictions anyone is allowed to park there. If they get arsey then tell them to bog off.
But doesn't it bottom line as consideration for others? It may be legal but is it morally correct?
Yes, of course. We're in an end terrace, we strive to park out side our house, the neighbours try to park outside theirs. Occasionally we'll come home and a visitors of theirs is parked in 'our' space, no biggy.

In the instance of the OP his neighbour doesn't drive. If I didn't drive I wouldn't care if he parked there. And if I needed a taxi an extra few metres to walk would be of no consequence.

In fact, when I bought my first house at 19 I didn't drive. it was a terrace with a space limited to one car in front of each house. When she had visitors she knew I didn't mind them parking on my space.

Edited by Fermit and Sarah on Saturday 8th September 19:20


Edited by Fermit and Sarah on Saturday 8th September 21:55

0ddball

916 posts

169 months

Saturday 8th September 2018
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Its legal so it must be right. Common decency is over-rated anyway.


98elise

32,625 posts

191 months

Sunday 9th September 2018
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JimSuperSix said:
nonsequitur said:
Fermit and Sarah said:
No one owns the space of road outside their house, as long as there are no restrictions anyone is allowed to park there. If they get arsey then tell them to bog off.
But doesn't it bottom line as consideration for others? It may be legal but is it morally correct?
What do morals have to do with parking on a road outside a house that doesn't own a car?
Agreed. Nobody has the moral right to the road outside their house (unless it's a private road).

Countdown

49,452 posts

226 months

Sunday 9th September 2018
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0ddball said:
Its legal so it must be right. Common decency is over-rated anyway.

Countdown

49,452 posts

226 months

Sunday 9th September 2018
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98elise said:
JimSuperSix said:
nonsequitur said:
Fermit and Sarah said:
No one owns the space of road outside their house, as long as there are no restrictions anyone is allowed to park there. If they get arsey then tell them to bog off.
But doesn't it bottom line as consideration for others? It may be legal but is it morally correct?
What do morals have to do with parking on a road outside a house that doesn't own a car?
Agreed. Nobody has the moral right to the road outside their house (unless it's a private road).
Where there is something at short supply, that everybody pays towards, wouldn't the best outcome be a bit of give and take/mutual understanding?

When I lived at home with my siblings we each needed a car for work - it was a 6 car household with space for 2 (plus one on the road). So we'd park 3 of them in garages which were about a quarter of a mile away. If we'd insisted on parking on the road it would have meant less space for our neighbours. Now people can insist on their "rights" until they are blue in the face but personally my dad's approach was that we do our best to get on with the neighbours and that selfish behaviour generates selfish responses.