Blue Badge Abuse
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ooid

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6,719 posts

129 months

Friday 28th June 2019
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WJNB

2,637 posts

190 months

Friday 28th June 2019
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ooid said:
Quick question to ph wisdom...

My neighbour has a blue badge. Her family owns 4 cars. (Not to mention they are council tenant, they do not own the house.) So the neighbour's main car has a blue badge, but she keeps this car parked on the usual bays during the day, to reserve for his son's car for evening. In the meantime, me and other residents in the street, suffering from lack of parking spaces.. (no-one in our street has 4 cars really, most of us have only one car each house)

Can we complain about this neighbour? is this called abuse, as using her/her blue badge to reserve usual bay for her family during the day?

By the way, she does not look like she needs a blue-badge at all? quite healthy lady...

Thanks in advance

beer
1. I assume you too are a 'council tenant' &/or irritated or jealous of your 4 car owning neighbour.
2. Do you mean she parks in a disabled bay then vacates it for her sons car? Should that be the case then ( I would assume) her son is guilty of misusing the bay therefore please please report it.
3. There's a fad for a new phrase that is fast becoming a cliché 'a disability is not always obvious', therefore while your suspicions are understandable you are not qualified to judge her level or form of disability.


Big Al.

69,336 posts

287 months

Friday 28th June 2019
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Just for info a blue badge is assigned to a person, NOT a vehicle.

JDiz

1,074 posts

273 months

Friday 28th June 2019
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ooid said:
By the way, she does not look like she needs a blue-badge at all? quite healthy lady...
and you don't look smart enough to be a doctor wink

ooid

Original Poster:

6,719 posts

129 months

Friday 28th June 2019
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WJNB said:
1. I assume you too are a 'council tenant' &/or irritated or jealous of your 4 car owning neighbour.
2. Do you mean she parks in a disabled bay then vacates it for her sons car? Should that be the case then ( I would assume) her son is guilty of misusing the bay therefore please please report it.
3. There's a fad for a new phrase that is fast becoming a cliché 'a disability is not always obvious', therefore while your suspicions are understandable you are not qualified to judge her level or form of disability.
1- Nope, I'm not. My point is a "council" or any other tenant, being temporary in wherever you live but somehow occupying more space than the actual freeholders, and reserving bays for their family members.
2- Nope, she does park in usual normal parking bays. (parking I mean, reserving the parking space for the son), than at night moves to blue badge, disabled bay.
3- Sure but when you see someone, doing loads of physical activities during the day/evening and not using disabled parking during the day, only using them in the evenings (as mentioned previously), than quite fair to raise questions...

Wooda80

1,743 posts

104 months

Friday 28th June 2019
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You didn't make it clear whether she had paid cash for her car or whether she was only renting it on PCP?

KungFuPanda

4,640 posts

199 months

Friday 28th June 2019
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She’s doing nothing wrong.

anonymous-user

83 months

Friday 28th June 2019
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I can't really pass comment on the blue badge 'abuse' just interested why you felt the need to point out they live in a council house 'none the less' smile

berlintaxi

8,535 posts

202 months

Friday 28th June 2019
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ooid said:
Quick question to ph wisdom...

My neighbour has a blue badge. Her family owns 4 cars. (Not to mention they are council tenant, they do not own the house.) So the neighbour's main car has a blue badge, but she keeps this car parked on the usual bays during the day, to reserve for his son's car for evening. In the meantime, me and other residents in the street, suffering from lack of parking spaces.. (no-one in our street has 4 cars really, most of us have only one car each house)

Can we complain about this neighbour? is this called abuse, as using her/her blue badge to reserve usual bay for her family during the day?

By the way, she does not look like she needs a blue-badge at all? quite healthy lady...

Pica-Pica

16,592 posts

113 months

Friday 28th June 2019
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FFS, OP if you have issues (and you do appear to!), raise them with the appropriate authorities. You are asking PHers to second guess your guessed interpretations.

Wacky Racer

41,336 posts

276 months

Friday 28th June 2019
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Whilst there may be many cases of abuse, they don't hand these badges out willy nilly, and for all you know, the badge holder could suffer from chronic asthma or heart problems.

av185

20,464 posts

156 months

Friday 28th June 2019
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If you think blue badge abuse is widespread now, wait until virtually every person and their dog manages to get hold of one for even the slightest of issues......

Wacky Racer

41,336 posts

276 months

Friday 28th June 2019
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av185 said:
If you think blue badge abuse is widespread now, wait until virtually every person and their dog manages to get hold of one for even the slightest of issues......
Have you ever tried applying for one? They are extremely difficult to get, and you have to meet very strict criteria.

bluezedd

1,287 posts

111 months

Friday 28th June 2019
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WJNB said:
3. There's a fad for a new phrase that is fast becoming a cliché 'a disability is not always obvious', therefore while your suspicions are understandable you are not qualified to judge her level or form of disability.
Definitely agree with being careful with this one. I saw a documentary called something like "one punch kill" which was all about people killing someone with 1 punch.

A guy got into an argument with a guy because he had parked in a disabled bay, didn't think he was disabled, and ended up punching him. The punch killed him.

Turns out the guy wasn't disabled, but was a passenger in a car and had been shopping with his heavily disabled wife.

Full documentary:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cBKcJ3J_fSQ

Tesco Tyson Scene:
https://youtu.be/cBKcJ3J_fSQ?t=1089

oakdale

1,999 posts

231 months

Friday 28th June 2019
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Wacky Racer said:
Have you ever tried applying for one? They are extremely difficult to get, and you have to meet very strict criteria.
I think this very much depends on where you live, some local authorities are quite lax but others are very strict on who gets one.

RipTrip1

2,013 posts

137 months

Friday 28th June 2019
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Recently had a bad stomach. Rushed into the mens toilets at Tesco, both toilets were in use.
Ran back out, sweat rolling down my face from the anxiety, when I saw the disabled toilet with a sign on the door, 'Not all disabilities can be seen' or something similar.
Damn right, internally I'm producing pure poo milkshake. Ran in and filled the toilet with diorea just in time. I consider myself disabled now and will always use the (more comfortable and usually cleaner) disabled toilet forever

Scrump

23,935 posts

187 months

Friday 28th June 2019
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oakdale said:
I think this very much depends on where you live, some local authorities are quite lax but others are very strict on who gets one.
The criteria are set nationally so will not vary between councils (not sure about Scotland though). I am led to believe there is some variation in the independent assessment against the criteria of blue badge applications across the country.

Roofless Toothless

7,568 posts

161 months

Saturday 29th June 2019
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Wacky Racer said:
av185 said:
If you think blue badge abuse is widespread now, wait until virtually every person and their dog manages to get hold of one for even the slightest of issues......
Have you ever tried applying for one? They are extremely difficult to get, and you have to meet very strict criteria.
I have tried twice and failed. (Chelmsford.) Surgeons used my left leg as a source for donor parts to rebuild my face during a cancer operation. Shinbone gone from knee to ankle, and a chunk of flesh and skin about the size of your fist which now forms my gum.

I walk with a stick, much slower than before, and while I can do a fair distance, I am susceptible to cramps in the muscles that have been disturbed and general weakness, especially in my ankle, which aches after a while. The main reason I want a badge is that I have to fully open the car door now to get in and out. I need to park my backside in first and then swing my legs round, and the opposite getting out. If anyone is parked too close, it is really hard to squeeze in through the gap. Being able to park in disabled bays would be very handy.

The only thing the blue badge procedure seems interested in is if I get out of breath or not. I explained my reasons, but there is literally nowhere on the form to even enter the information, and the examiner has to run through a scripted check list. Instead I was walked up and down the pavement outside the testing centre, while the examiner walked alongside me, observing me to see if I got out of breath. I explained that I would like to be able to walk fast enough to get out of breath.

Refused.

Pica-Pica

16,592 posts

113 months

Saturday 29th June 2019
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RipTrip1 said:
Recently had a bad stomach. Rushed into the mens toilets at Tesco, both toilets were in use.
Ran back out, sweat rolling down my face from the anxiety, when I saw the disabled toilet with a sign on the door, 'Not all disabilities can be seen' or something similar.
Damn right, internally I'm producing pure poo milkshake. Ran in and filled the toilet with diorea just in time. I consider myself disabled now and will always use the (more comfortable and usually cleaner) disabled toilet forever
A disabled toilet is a toilet suitably adapted to accommodate disabled people. In general, now, they are not exclusively for the use of people with (visible or not) disabilities. Modern buildings now have gender neutral, and ability neutral toilets, along with baby-changing facilities. In a park in Derbyshire the Gents toilet had a sign ‘Hello grandads, dad’s, and all nappy changers; we are sorry there are no baby-changing facilities in these seventies-designed toilets, if you wish to change a nappy, please go to....’.

One the issue of getting a blue-badge, my late mother, in her early nineties, had to jump though hoops (well, that would have been a sight, but..) to get a blue badge. In my/her experience the process was pretty arduous. The walking ability was demanded to be tested, even though she would slump back into her chair several times before she could get up, then a lengthy period of steadying herself before stumbling a few steps and being caught before she fell.

jondude

2,441 posts

246 months

Saturday 29th June 2019
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I guess the maths of probability can make it appear everyone is disabled and that you - and only you - are being played for a fool.

I think it is likely the disabled will drive to the easier shopping places like Tesco, Sainsburys etc.

When I do this I do indeed see a few of us parked in the main area and a whole nose to tail line of blue badge holders outside the entrance to the store.

It can therefore appear some are taking the pee as on any given day in Tesco they seem to be a solid and yes, surprisingly large group - also one which is very much in our focal point as we in the cheap seats have to walk past them to get into the store.

But then go to the smaller, harder to access stores and there are not a fraction as many disabled/blue badge holders.

I am sure some are playing the system yes but I doubt the numbers are anywhere near as they can - appear.