Abuse for not selling a car?!
Abuse for not selling a car?!
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Blakeatron

Original Poster:

2,566 posts

202 months

Saturday 1st February 2020
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Had our T5 advertised on ebay, man offers just under asking and i accept - he agrees to collect and pay this morning.

He turns up and then proceeds to nit pick the whole van, trying to chip the price down. I stand firm, he gets shirty and leaves.

I ring the dealer we are buying our new car from (downsizing) and they agree to give us our new car and some additional money in exchange for the van, it works out i get what i originally wanted for the van before i accepted the blokes lower offer.

On the way to collect the new car i get a text asking for £100 compensation for wasting his time and diesel! I refuse and it threatens me saying ‘i know where you live’

Ignore him, the van is put directly up for sale by the garage and the bloke sees it, messages me again saying he will take things further and how dishonest i am.
Tell him to wind his neck in and to leave me alone.

He replies saying i will get whats coming and he will be back in my area soon.

Ignore, contact police or wind him up some more?

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Man agrees to buy van, tries to haggle, gets refused, gets angry and threatens violence

Nickp82

3,956 posts

122 months

Saturday 1st February 2020
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Ignore

2wheelsjimmy

620 posts

126 months

Saturday 1st February 2020
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I would call 101 and 'log' it. They won't do anything (I guess) but the harassment is then on record, for future.

FrenchCarFan

6,759 posts

234 months

Saturday 1st February 2020
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Log it with the police.

People are nutters.

Mexman

2,442 posts

113 months

Saturday 1st February 2020
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Just tell the weirdo to fk right off.
I quite often will refuse to sell cars to people and I do it for a living!
They are all mouth and no trousers.

PrancingHorses

2,723 posts

236 months

Saturday 1st February 2020
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Tell him you are waiting and can't wait to see him again. Say you are a professional bd and do this for a living.

Bet you he will never turn up.

egor110

17,675 posts

232 months

Saturday 1st February 2020
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Anyway the detectives of pistonheads can find where the buyer lives ?

Send him a nice pic of you sitting outside his house/work etc

Schermerhorn

4,353 posts

218 months

Saturday 1st February 2020
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egor110 said:
Anyway the detectives of pistonheads can find where the buyer lives ?

Send him a nice pic of you sitting outside his house/work etc
No point provoking the abusive "customer". Just gather the info required and report it to the police and inform the idiot that he's been reported. Chances are he'll get radio silence there onwards.

Blakeatron

Original Poster:

2,566 posts

202 months

Saturday 1st February 2020
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Ive got a picture of his driving licence so know his address! He is also on my cctv.

Reported to 101 online.

ZesPak

26,095 posts

225 months

Saturday 1st February 2020
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2wheelsjimmy said:
I would call 101 and 'log' it. They won't do anything (I guess) but the harassment is then on record, for future.
This.

anonymous-user

83 months

Saturday 1st February 2020
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FrenchCarFan said:
Log it with the police.

People are nutters.
Totally this. OP, do you have a missus and kids living there with you? When someone starts making those sort of threats, serious or not, it needs a response. The idea that you turn up at a strangers home, be a dick, not get your own way and then start threatening them, is bang out of order and beyond 'just ignore it', IMHO. Make a complaint and tell them you want it dealt with!

johnwilliams77

8,308 posts

132 months

Saturday 1st February 2020
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Block his number, do nothing. Not worth more energy on it than you have spent.

anonymous-user

83 months

Saturday 1st February 2020
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He's the one in breach of contract if he made the offer through Ebay. I would just respond back that you are taking his messages as harassment and will be reporting it to the police if they continue.

johnwilliams77

8,308 posts

132 months

Saturday 1st February 2020
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Thesprucegoose said:
He's the one in breach of contract if he made the offer through Ebay. I would just respond back that you are taking his messages as harassment and will be reporting it to the police if they continue.
This is a waste of effort. Cease interaction.

Agila b 6yr 6k

117 posts

124 months

Saturday 1st February 2020
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Slightly ironic that they want compensation for wasted time and diesel but then making threats to come visit you (again) which would take???? Oh yes, time and diesel.

If they were going to do something they would of done it there and then.

Report to 101 like you have done and block. "Buyer" was a proper weirdo and probably not the first time they have done it.

Don't provoke them just to be safer, report/block/forget.

anonymous-user

83 months

Saturday 1st February 2020
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johnwilliams77 said:
This is a waste of effort. Cease interaction.
Disagree. There are unstable people out there not used to no, you need to reaffirm you are not threatened by their unacceptable behavior.

A1VDY

3,575 posts

156 months

Saturday 1st February 2020
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He's threatened you. Take it seriously. The guy could be a complete loony just been released from some mental institution. It matters not his size, he could produce a machete.
Let the police know so they can give him a visit. You're not going to be at home all the time and some other family member may answer the door to the tt. Take preventative measures, be careful..

anonymous-user

83 months

Saturday 1st February 2020
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A1VDY said:
He's threatened you. Take it seriously. The guy could be a complete loony just been released from some mental institution. It matters not his size, he could produce a machete.
Let the police know so they can give him a visit. You're not going to be at home all the time and some other family member may answer the door to the tt. Take preventative measures, be careful..
Yup yes. Not every gobste is all talk and no trousers.

johnwilliams77

8,308 posts

132 months

Saturday 1st February 2020
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Thesprucegoose said:
Disagree. There are unstable people out there not used to no, you need to reaffirm you are not threatened by their unacceptable behavior.
Right then - what will that achieve? Don't think the OP actually wants the face to face to take place...

AJB88

15,775 posts

200 months

Saturday 1st February 2020
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Southerner said:
Yup yes. Not every gobste is all talk and no trousers.
Yep my dad got assaulted by somebody who wanted to return an item he had come and inspected and taken away with him.