Changing name - post wedding
Changing name - post wedding
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andburg

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8,732 posts

198 months

Tuesday 11th August 2020
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So this seems clear as mud based on searches I've done

Having just got married, we're wanting to double barrel our surnames.

Joe Bloggs and Joanne Smith become Joe and Joanne Bloggs-Smith

has anybody been through this before?

From what i can gather
1st - deed poll if required
2nd - passport should be done first
3rd - driving licenses (require passport to be updated first)

Bank accounts etc should be ok with taking in the marriage certificate so should be ok to just take the certificate in and do?

Hol

9,316 posts

229 months

Tuesday 11th August 2020
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The Deed Poll is the process to legally change your surname.


When you have it in your possession, take it a solicitor (acting as a commissioner of oaths) to certify some (photo)copies as true copies of the original. Ask for at least five.


Send those copies off by post to all the relevant organisations, Passport, DVLA, Insurance, Bank, investments, Council, Gym, etc.. as proof of the name change.

Although those organisation, should return the certified copy so you can send it on to some other organisation, don't relay on it, as there are idiots out there.







randlemarcus

13,646 posts

260 months

Tuesday 11th August 2020
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Does the question of timing render the entire thing pointless though? biggrin I suspect the objection to simply taking Joe Smith's surname is one of women as property, but to get the whole thing to go swimmingly, surely Joe would have to change his name to SMith-Bloggs first, so that the subsequent name changes for her will be using the marriage certificate, thus meaning she still took his name. I might be overthinking this wink

Hol

9,316 posts

229 months

Tuesday 11th August 2020
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randlemarcus said:
Does the question of timing render the entire thing pointless though? biggrin I suspect the objection to simply taking Joe Smith's surname is one of women as property, but to get the whole thing to go swimmingly, surely Joe would have to change his name to SMith-Bloggs first, so that the subsequent name changes for her will be using the marriage certificate, thus meaning she still took his name. I might be overthinking this wink
The marriage cert is looked upon as the legal document for a bride to change her name to her husbands.

As you say, that Bride could avoid her own deed poll, if the husband had already legally changed his name prior to the ceremony.


swampy442

1,954 posts

240 months

Tuesday 11th August 2020
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A question if I may, should the worst happen and Mr and Mrs Smith-Bloggs separate, do they both retain Smith-Bloggs, or return to Smith and Bloggs?

Lopey

262 posts

127 months

Tuesday 11th August 2020
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Hol said:
The marriage cert is looked upon as the legal document for a bride to change her name to her husbands.

As you say, that Bride could avoid her own deed poll, if the husband had already legally changed his name prior to the ceremony.
There's nothing stopping both the bride and groom changing their surnames at the ceremony.

Pit Pony

11,274 posts

150 months

Tuesday 11th August 2020
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Bloke I worked with changed his name BEFORE the wedding, thus incurring only one cost. In his case he took his future wife's surname and didn't double barrel it.

I thought about it, and would have, except my name would have then been MarkHunt



Hol

9,316 posts

229 months

Wednesday 12th August 2020
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Lopey said:
Hol said:
The marriage cert is looked upon as the legal document for a bride to change her name to her husbands.

As you say, that Bride could avoid her own deed poll, if the husband had already legally changed his name prior to the ceremony.
There's nothing stopping both the bride and groom changing their surnames at the ceremony.
Interesting?

How does it work, in practice, as there isn't currently, a section in the UK marriage certificate, to record 'and both their new surnames are now XYZ'.





Or, do you mean that if the service was in a Registry Office, they could process the change of name in the same building?






Edited by Hol on Wednesday 12th August 13:30

Jimmy Recard

17,550 posts

208 months

Wednesday 12th August 2020
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swampy442 said:
A question if I may, should the worst happen and Mr and Mrs Smith-Bloggs separate, do they both retain Smith-Bloggs, or return to Smith and Bloggs?
They'd still each be called Smith-Bloggs

swampy442

1,954 posts

240 months

Thursday 13th August 2020
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Jimmy Recard said:
swampy442 said:
A question if I may, should the worst happen and Mr and Mrs Smith-Bloggs separate, do they both retain Smith-Bloggs, or return to Smith and Bloggs?
They'd still each be called Smith-Bloggs
Thank you. I still find this double barreling a bit strange, but I suppose in this modern world traditions can be and are challenged.