How to stop a drink driver at work?
How to stop a drink driver at work?
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Mr Miata

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1,220 posts

79 months

Sunday 6th February 2022
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I’ve overheard one woman I work with brag about her drink driving and how she didn’t seem too bothered about doing it.

I’ve now seen her drive into work “the morning after” in a state, she was not fit to stand up and walk nevermind drive a car. Again she didn’t hide the fact and was quite open about it. Bragging about how hungover she was.

I’m concerned for other peoples safety.

What action can I take to get the message across to her? Confronting her directly is problematic due to work reasons, I’d rather it was anonymous.

cossy400

3,463 posts

213 months

Sunday 6th February 2022
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simply report to the police. times etc hopefully she ll be stopped

donkmeister

12,841 posts

129 months

Sunday 6th February 2022
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Also, whilst the lesser of the evils, if she's showing up to work in a state that's an issue for both H&S and for those having to pick up the slack whilst she's insensible. Any reason not to tip off your employer? I know mine was quite sympathetic to the case of a colleague who had a perennial thirst and gave her time off for rehab and so on... Better that the problem is stopped from continuing rather than she be punished for her previous stupidity.

Gweeds

7,954 posts

81 months

Sunday 6th February 2022
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Police. Every time.

She deserves to lose her licence.

anonymous-user

83 months

Sunday 6th February 2022
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How big is her husband? snitches get stitches.

AlpineWhite

2,164 posts

224 months

Sunday 6th February 2022
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YorkshireWhisky said:
How big is her husband? snitches get stitches.
Grow up

austinsmirk

5,597 posts

152 months

Sunday 6th February 2022
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Someone did it to a bloke at work. Even more hilariously the police then stripped his car in the works car park looking for drugs

TRIUMPHBULLET

711 posts

142 months

Sunday 6th February 2022
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If you have concerns about what she is doing report her.
If she is involved in a serious accident you will feel considerably worse.

LosingGrip

8,844 posts

188 months

Sunday 6th February 2022
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Report it to the police. Can either do it via 101 or the website. Registration number, make and model, name and times are ideal.

donkmeister said:
Also, whilst the lesser of the evils, if she's showing up to work in a state that's an issue for both H&S and for those having to pick up the slack whilst she's insensible. Any reason not to tip off your employer? I know mine was quite sympathetic to the case of a colleague who had a perennial thirst and gave her time off for rehab and so on... Better that the problem is stopped from continuing rather than she be punished for her previous stupidity.
A friend is a manager at a supermarket and had a women turn up drunk. They went down the route of offering her support. But she wouldn’t admit that she had a drink problem.

Ended up getting sacked.

21TonyK

13,289 posts

238 months

Sunday 6th February 2022
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Had something similar, Police were called and they were breath test and someone drove them home. Not sure if they were actually prosecuted but they resigned a few months later after being driven to work by a colleague.

normalbloke

8,855 posts

248 months

Sunday 6th February 2022
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AlpineWhite said:
YorkshireWhisky said:
How big is her husband? snitches get stitches.
Grow up
Agreed. I’m sure he was impressive in the playground though….

tones61

94 posts

157 months

Sunday 6th February 2022
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Phone the 5.0 :-)

donkmeister

12,841 posts

129 months

Sunday 6th February 2022
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LosingGrip said:
A friend is a manager at a supermarket and had a women turn up drunk. They went down the route of offering her support. But she wouldn’t admit that she had a drink problem.

Ended up getting sacked.
Unfortunately that is so often the case. You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it erm...

It's always better when someone comes to the realisation on their own that they can't trust themselves with drink, but sometimes people just need a shove.

Much as I think DDs should get the book thrown at them (a very heavy, pointy book, thrown very hard) I'd rather the root of the problem is targeted as so many banned DDs just carry on driving, drunk.

donkmeister

12,841 posts

129 months

Sunday 6th February 2022
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tones61 said:
Phone the 5.0 :-)
With your ragtop down so your hair can blow?

Largechris

2,019 posts

120 months

Sunday 6th February 2022
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Not able to walk the morning after? And your employer puts up with that?

Please report to the police before she kills someone.

Bobtherallyfan

1,513 posts

107 months

Sunday 6th February 2022
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Simple answer…report them to the Police. Could you live with the guilt if they kill someone and you could have done something to prevent it?

Griffith4ever

6,866 posts

64 months

Tuesday 8th February 2022
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Why not try telling her you've overheard someone else (who you of course would never reveal) talking about dobbing her in to the police and as a friend you thought you'd warn her before she got into serious trouble. Even lay on the pressure with "they might have already made the call"...

Might stop her in her tracks without all the associated pain of the police doing the stopping.

Gweeds

7,954 posts

81 months

Tuesday 8th February 2022
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Seriously?

fk that. Drink drivers get zero tolerance. She needs to be off the roads.

ChrisC-Berks

93 posts

104 months

Tuesday 8th February 2022
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As others have said there is zero excuse for it so this needs to be reported to the police straight away. Maybe your office has CCTV of her driving in and the police could use that against her.

If she hasn't been caught and she is bragging about it she wont care that people are talking about her as she will think she's got away with it.

Jamescrs

6,370 posts

94 months

Tuesday 8th February 2022
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I'd have no ossie with reporting it to the police, make sure you give her name, car reg and time she gets to work.

Traffic officers love going after drink drivers and I'm glad they do.