Girls! Valentine Card Suggestion - shoot me down guys!
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I wish to give a valentine's card to a lady who is a tuff nutt to crack (so to speak). Think she just needs softening up.
Ordered and received card off t'internet. Front looks like a photo. It's of a pile of rose petals and the person's name is spelt out in said petals too. . .very realistic, all done by 'puter you know. Her name is very unique and I doubt many guys will know how to spell it so she'll probably (hopefully) figure out its me.
The thing is I dont want any mention of "love" in the card's text so was thinking of leaving it blank save for maybe a "X".
I also had the daft idea of sticking a single freeze-dried rose petal inside as well stuck with a piece of dbl-sided tape.
Now will this leave her with the impression that my feelings are too strong, and therefore should I forget that idea.
The impression I want to leave is that I am there for her should she ever want to start something more serious over and above a friendship!?
I'll allow a half dozen typical PH responses before wanting genuine answers
Ordered and received card off t'internet. Front looks like a photo. It's of a pile of rose petals and the person's name is spelt out in said petals too. . .very realistic, all done by 'puter you know. Her name is very unique and I doubt many guys will know how to spell it so she'll probably (hopefully) figure out its me.
The thing is I dont want any mention of "love" in the card's text so was thinking of leaving it blank save for maybe a "X".
I also had the daft idea of sticking a single freeze-dried rose petal inside as well stuck with a piece of dbl-sided tape.
Now will this leave her with the impression that my feelings are too strong, and therefore should I forget that idea.
The impression I want to leave is that I am there for her should she ever want to start something more serious over and above a friendship!?
I'll allow a half dozen typical PH responses before wanting genuine answers

How about a poem?
I wish you were my Valentine
Though I may not be yours,
And I may, in my ignorance,
Be speaking to closed doors.
I have no inkling of your heart,
No hint what you might say;
But when I think of you the sun
Will just not go away.
There is in you a loveliness
That makes my darkness shine,
And so I'll wait, if wait I must,
To be your Valentine.
I wish you were my Valentine
Though I may not be yours,
And I may, in my ignorance,
Be speaking to closed doors.
I have no inkling of your heart,
No hint what you might say;
But when I think of you the sun
Will just not go away.
There is in you a loveliness
That makes my darkness shine,
And so I'll wait, if wait I must,
To be your Valentine.
Zen. said:
How about a poem?
I wish you were my Valentine
Though I may not be yours,
And I may, in my ignorance,
Be speaking to closed doors.
I have no inkling of your heart,
No hint what you might say;
But when I think of you the sun
Will just not go away.
There is in you a loveliness
That makes my darkness shine,
And so I'll wait, if wait I must,
To be your Valentine.
I quite like that, I ordered a blank card too so its an option.I wish you were my Valentine
Though I may not be yours,
And I may, in my ignorance,
Be speaking to closed doors.
I have no inkling of your heart,
No hint what you might say;
But when I think of you the sun
Will just not go away.
There is in you a loveliness
That makes my darkness shine,
And so I'll wait, if wait I must,
To be your Valentine.
Zen. said:
How about a poem?
I wish you were my Valentine
Though I may not be yours,
And I may, in my ignorance,
Be speaking to closed doors.
I have no inkling of your heart,
No hint what you might say;
But when I think of you the sun
Will just not go away.
There is in you a loveliness
That makes my darkness shine,
And so I'll wait, if wait I must,
To be your Valentine.
I wonder how many women will get this poem on Saturday....I wish you were my Valentine
Though I may not be yours,
And I may, in my ignorance,
Be speaking to closed doors.
I have no inkling of your heart,
No hint what you might say;
But when I think of you the sun
Will just not go away.
There is in you a loveliness
That makes my darkness shine,
And so I'll wait, if wait I must,
To be your Valentine.
Zen. said:
How about a poem?
I wish you were my Valentine
Though I may not be yours,
And I may, in my ignorance,
Be speaking to closed doors.
I have no inkling of your heart,
No hint what you might say;
But when I think of you the sun
Will just not go away.
There is in you a loveliness
That makes my darkness shine,
And so I'll wait, if wait I must,
To be your Valentine.
Or this oneI wish you were my Valentine
Though I may not be yours,
And I may, in my ignorance,
Be speaking to closed doors.
I have no inkling of your heart,
No hint what you might say;
But when I think of you the sun
Will just not go away.
There is in you a loveliness
That makes my darkness shine,
And so I'll wait, if wait I must,
To be your Valentine.
I thought of sending you a card,
And then maybe a flower.
But instead I asked PH for their views.
Have you been up the Oxo Tower?
HTH
Digger. said:
isee said:
IMHO (and I am a guy so girls may correct me)
Thoughtful, romantic gestures like that would actually send a stronger "I want you" signal than say a pair of Tiffany's earrings...
So ditch the petal then?Thoughtful, romantic gestures like that would actually send a stronger "I want you" signal than say a pair of Tiffany's earrings...
Basically, if she is really special and you feel that you two, do connect - she should, in theory, reciprocate.
If she is already attracted to you on some level, your card will not ruin your chances.

Wish you luck!
Edited by isee on Tuesday 10th February 14:07
james_tigerwoods said:
Zen. said:
How about a poem?
I wish you were my Valentine
Though I may not be yours,
And I may, in my ignorance,
Be speaking to closed doors.
I have no inkling of your heart,
No hint what you might say;
But when I think of you the sun
Will just not go away.
There is in you a loveliness
That makes my darkness shine,
And so I'll wait, if wait I must,
To be your Valentine.
I wonder how many women will get this poem on Saturday....I wish you were my Valentine
Though I may not be yours,
And I may, in my ignorance,
Be speaking to closed doors.
I have no inkling of your heart,
No hint what you might say;
But when I think of you the sun
Will just not go away.
There is in you a loveliness
That makes my darkness shine,
And so I'll wait, if wait I must,
To be your Valentine.
Cara Van Man said:
Thanks, saves me using last years card.Digger. said:
james_tigerwoods said:
Zen. said:
How about a poem?
I wish you were my Valentine
Though I may not be yours,
And I may, in my ignorance,
Be speaking to closed doors.
I have no inkling of your heart,
No hint what you might say;
But when I think of you the sun
Will just not go away.
There is in you a loveliness
That makes my darkness shine,
And so I'll wait, if wait I must,
To be your Valentine.
I wonder how many women will get this poem on Saturday....I wish you were my Valentine
Though I may not be yours,
And I may, in my ignorance,
Be speaking to closed doors.
I have no inkling of your heart,
No hint what you might say;
But when I think of you the sun
Will just not go away.
There is in you a loveliness
That makes my darkness shine,
And so I'll wait, if wait I must,
To be your Valentine.
[Pisses on romantic bonfie] BTW: As she is a "tuff nut to crack" have you thought your feelings towards her may not be mutual, and a card with her name spelled out in blood (or whatever it is)may be unwlecome. [/pisses on romantic bonfire}
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