Are we in the right or wrong? Pay Pal issue
Are we in the right or wrong? Pay Pal issue
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robm3

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4,930 posts

251 months

Wednesday 25th February 2009
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We booked a holiday house recently on advice from friends, this is a house that's owned by a UK lady.
Any she listed on her website that she accepts Pay Pal so my wife duly paid (£1500 circa) but then got an email from her yesterday saying that Pay Pal had deducted £54 in fees and so we'd need to make up the difference.
We pointed out that the fees were payable by the Reciever not Sender and that she had advertised that she accepted Pay Pal as a payment method.

Return note recieved today from her says we need to pay the £54 difference as it was our choice to pay via Pay Pal.
That we are free to cancel but deposit (£250) would not be refundable!


We're a little annoyed to say the least but will cool off before calling her directly.
So just wanted to check to see if general consensus was if we were right or wrong...


rfn

4,601 posts

231 months

Wednesday 25th February 2009
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If she did not advise that additional fees would be payable, then I don't see what leg she has to stand on, but it is only £54, which is a fifth of the deposit she keeps if you cancel.

stuttgartmetal

8,140 posts

240 months

Wednesday 25th February 2009
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Pay the £54, then burn it to the ground the day you leave.
Is there nothing a gallon of petrol and a box of matches won't really solve ?

jesusbuiltmycar

5,071 posts

278 months

Wednesday 25th February 2009
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With ebay the paypal comission is payable by the seller.

Did she state on that a commision would be payable if paypal was used?

My brother once stated on a ebay auction for a Mercedes Satnav that 5% would be added to the final listing price if paypal was used and the fcensoredkers (ebay) pulled the auction an hour before it ended because it breached their rules.

Note:
you could complain to paypal - since they are mainly concerened with protecting the buyer they may award you a full refund and she will end up £54 out of pocket....

Edited by jesusbuiltmycar on Wednesday 25th February 14:50

AlexKP

16,484 posts

268 months

Wednesday 25th February 2009
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Unless she stated this in advance, she is completely in the wrong and any small claims court would rule in your favour.

These kind of people really p1ss me off.

You, however, have to decide just how much aggro you want to deal with.

You could always ask her to return the Paypal payment via Paypal Refund - and then pay her another way - send a cheque so she has to go to the bank and wait seven days... That way it also inconveniences her and doesn't cost you.

bramley

1,691 posts

232 months

Wednesday 25th February 2009
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jesusbuiltmycar said:
My brother once stated on a ebay auction for a Mercedes Satnav that 5% would be added to the final listing price if paypal was used and the fcensoredkers (ebay) pulled the auction an hour before it ended because it breached their rules.
LOL at them being fkers for enforcing their rules which as an ebay member you have agreed to!

Anyway, OP have a look round paypal and see if there are any terms and conditions for accepting business payments relating to the addition of a premium.

anonymous-user

78 months

Wednesday 25th February 2009
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anonymous said:
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Yep, a refund will cost her £0, do that then send a cheque. If she doesn't play ball a chargeback will always go in the buyes favour.(we accept Pay Pal).

Tony*T3

20,911 posts

271 months

Wednesday 25th February 2009
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FFS, why dont you just pay her the £54? She's not some big corporation, shes just a little old lady you mean spirited git. Being in the RIGHT doesnt mean your doing the RIGHT thing....

She probably was unaware of the amount of the fee.


Probably shivering to death as we speak, with just her cats for company. You can afford the fancy holiday. It costs you just £54 to come away from a deal with a clear consious (cant be bothered to work out if this is spelt right).

robm3

Original Poster:

4,930 posts

251 months

Wednesday 25th February 2009
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Tony*T3 said:
FFS, why dont you just pay her the £54? She's not some big corporation, shes just a little old lady you mean spirited git. Being in the RIGHT doesnt mean your doing the RIGHT thing....

She probably was unaware of the amount of the fee.


Probably shivering to death as we speak, with just her cats for company. You can afford the fancy holiday. It costs you just £54 to come away from a deal with a clear consious (cant be bothered to work out if this is spelt right).
Actually, she's middle aged and has several properties around the world, this is her business. Her husband is a stockbroker. I'd post her website up but don't want to advertise it.
Don't know of too many old ladies shivering to death while at the same time renting out multiple overseas homes either.
Anyhow, it's the principal of the matter.

As an update my wife told me she also made a mistake with the cost and tried to overcharge us by £77 pound although in fairness I'll give her the benefit of the doubt here.


anonymous-user

78 months

Wednesday 25th February 2009
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If it's a business then she has learnt the hard way that Pay Pal take a large cut. Do what has been suggested or contact bank to have payment reversed. Sellers can't charge the buyer the Pay Pal fee, we claw some of it back through the P&P charge(if only customers would realise that-one more moans and we'll make P&P FREE but bump the cost of the product up).

Tony*T3

20,911 posts

271 months

Wednesday 25th February 2009
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robm3 said:
Tony*T3 said:
FFS, why dont you just pay her the £54? She's not some big corporation, shes just a little old lady you mean spirited git. Being in the RIGHT doesnt mean your doing the RIGHT thing....

She probably was unaware of the amount of the fee.


Probably shivering to death as we speak, with just her cats for company. You can afford the fancy holiday. It costs you just £54 to come away from a deal with a clear consious (cant be bothered to work out if this is spelt right).
Actually, she's middle aged and has several properties around the world, this is her business. Her husband is a stockbroker. I'd post her website up but don't want to advertise it.
Don't know of too many old ladies shivering to death while at the same time renting out multiple overseas homes either.
Anyhow, it's the principal of the matter.

As an update my wife told me she also made a mistake with the cost and tried to overcharge us by £77 pound although in fairness I'll give her the benefit of the doubt here.
I was trying to show the other side of an arguement in a lighthearted way, but seriously, I'd suggest any 'tussle' over 54 quid would seriously ruin your holiday experience.

I know the paypal bill is picked up by the person recieving the money, but, seriously, should you make an issue over this or should you not just resolve the matter? Perhaps you should suggest that you go halves over it?

Wacky Racer

40,691 posts

271 months

Wednesday 25th February 2009
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An unfortunate situation.

Obviously this woman did not realise the paypal fee would be so large,(perhaps the first time she has used it)..equally obviously YOU should not pay a penny of it, it's not your fault.

I think you need to take a sharp breath and try to explain calmly to her the legal position, you COULD comprimise but why should you??....

If she took a credit card she would have a fee to pay.....albeit smaller....

Hope you sort it out and it doesn't spoil your holiday.....smile

stuttgartmetal

8,140 posts

240 months

Wednesday 25th February 2009
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89.9 p per litre.

Hyperion

16,677 posts

224 months

Wednesday 25th February 2009
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Get her to reverse the payment, then send her a cheque (unless PayPal keep the admin fee - check that first)

anonymous-user

78 months

Wednesday 25th February 2009
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Hyperion said:
Get her to reverse the payment, then send her a cheque (unless PayPal keep the admin fee - check that first)
Pay Pal keep nothing if you do a full refund.

Wacky Racer

40,691 posts

271 months

Wednesday 25th February 2009
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stuttgartmetal said:
89.9 p per litre.
yikes

nono

stuttgartmetal

8,140 posts

240 months

Wednesday 25th February 2009
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Wacky Racer said:
stuttgartmetal said:
89.9 p per litre.
yikes

nono
The shivering old lady post made me laugh.

The paypal refund and cheque scenario sounds the [ebenezer] best way.
I don't really want you to burn the house down as you leave, just sarcasm.

Wacky Racer

40,691 posts

271 months

Wednesday 25th February 2009
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stuttgartmetal said:
Wacky Racer said:
stuttgartmetal said:
89.9 p per litre.
yikes

nono
The shivering old lady post made me laugh.

The paypal refund and cheque scenario sounds the [ebenezer] best way.
I don't really want you to burn the house down as you leave, just sarcasm.
I was referring to the price of the petrol........laugh

robm3

Original Poster:

4,930 posts

251 months

Wednesday 25th February 2009
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Wacky Racer said:
stuttgartmetal said:
Wacky Racer said:
stuttgartmetal said:
89.9 p per litre.
yikes

nono
The shivering old lady post made me laugh.

The paypal refund and cheque scenario sounds the [ebenezer] best way.
I don't really want you to burn the house down as you leave, just sarcasm.
I was referring to the price of the petrol........laugh
Who needs petrol, I have two kids under 4yo. Just leave them in the house while we pop out to get lunch....

Oldandslow

2,405 posts

230 months

Wednesday 25th February 2009
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She sounds like a bit of an arse. I'd push for the full refund through paypal and then rent from someone else. You never know what she'd pull next to extort a bit more cash from you.