When you get old and die what happens to your watches?
When you get old and die what happens to your watches?
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RDMcG

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20,375 posts

229 months

Tuesday 29th September 2020
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Obviously a will etc.

However, I wonder who will have the slightest interest in a lot of the stuff I own, such as watches and worse, very expensive cufflinks.

I am very sure that my son will never wear a dress watch, a gold watch, or even a watch that has lost fashion. The same applies to cars and other stuff. I look at all the stuff I now and it all seems irrelevant to the future.

I suppose the thing to do is to sell as much as possible when it has no more personal satisfaction to me.

Assuming that you are not about the inherit the baronial pile that was in your family since 1100, what do your nearest and dearest do?.A lot of this stuff will be sort of quaint and a nuisance to own. There will be collectors I suppose and the executor will just dispose of it.


h0b0

8,848 posts

218 months

Tuesday 29th September 2020
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I don’t expect me family to have any sentimental value in the trinkets I have collected in life. I don’t want a shrine to h0b0 set up in my memory. I’m much more practical than that.

But, my family do know which things have financial value so they would know how to sell them intelligently and they are free to use the proceeds to buy what they want. I’d much rather my kid get a house or car than be stuck with a few watches in a cupboard.

Having said all that, you can adopt me and pass on your Legacy. (Just to make sure there’s no doubt, when I say Legacy I don’t mean Subaru, I mean gt3s) wink

Fittster

20,120 posts

235 months

Tuesday 29th September 2020
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The world was once full of pocket watches, only a few eccentrics use them today.

Some are probably in collections, a few gather dust in lofts as they hold sentimental value but I'd wager that most have been scrapped.

Don't see why things would be that much different for wrist watches.

Hoofy

79,199 posts

304 months

Wednesday 30th September 2020
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Most of my watches are cheap but some are more than £30 eg my SMP. I've therefore had to catalogue it all so my sister doesn't sell the SMP for £30.

Snubs

1,366 posts

161 months

Wednesday 30th September 2020
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My dad has the simple version of it as his watches will come to me and I love watches.

In my case, whilst my will currently leaves my watches to my dad, if he died first then i don't have any children of my own to leave them to. But i don't see that as an issue. Take my grandfather's watch as an example. He died around 30 years ago and only had one child, my mum. Unsurprisingly she wasn't too interested in wearing a 1970s men's gold Longines watch, but she liked the sentimental value of it anyway. Then I became interested in watches so she had someone to pass it onto that would appreciate it. So even if you don't know now who might appreciate it right now, someone likely will down the line.

I also think reports of the death of the mechanical watch are greatly exaggerated. We've had the quartz crises, mobile phones, smart watches, indeed the whole digital age and the mechanical watch industry looks to be in a good place to me. I wouldn't be surprised if, given the increasing digitisation of the world, mechanical watches aren't seen as increasingly interesting items to inherit by the next generation, rather than shunned.

L1OFF

3,634 posts

278 months

Thursday 1st October 2020
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My watches will go to my sons, as listed in my will.

I know this is really silly but when my late dad was installing a tv aerial in the loft he twisted the coax together and wrapped it with masking tape. (He died in 1982), I replaced the aerial and the cable a few years ago I cut out the joined piece and still have it.

RSTurboPaul

12,719 posts

280 months

Thursday 1st October 2020
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To (mis)quote someone else I once read, my biggest fear is my wife will sell my watches for what I told her I paid for them...

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Gazzab

21,533 posts

304 months

Thursday 1st October 2020
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I am gifting my watches to my sons on their 21st birthdays. No point waiting until I die - whilst I am certain I will die I don’t currently know when.

Caddyshack

13,607 posts

228 months

Thursday 1st October 2020
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If you list the Watches in the Will or on a list of Chattels they could form part of your estate for IHT purposes. I would see if there is a way to distribute before that even if anything of real value.

h0b0

8,848 posts

218 months

Thursday 1st October 2020
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RDMcG has been noticeably absent since posting a relatively morbid post. Hope everything is OK.........

Caddyshack

13,607 posts

228 months

Thursday 1st October 2020
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h0b0 said:
RDMcG has been noticeably absent since posting a relatively morbid post. Hope everything is OK.........
Hopefully all ok...I do find it odd when someone starts a thread and then you hardly hear from them on it.

Glosphil

4,752 posts

256 months

Thursday 1st October 2020
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The most expensive watch I have bought was £95. When my father died my mother gave me his early 1970s gold Omega De Ville. It's a very early quartz watch so probably not worth much. It's not mentioned in my will so my daughters can decide what to do with it.

rog007

5,811 posts

246 months

Thursday 1st October 2020
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RSTurboPaul said:
To (mis)quote someone else I once read, my biggest fear is my wife will sell my watches for what I told her I paid for them...

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tuffer

8,948 posts

289 months

Thursday 1st October 2020
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My Wife and I have allocated ours out to Nephews and Nieces in our will.

andy tims

5,598 posts

268 months

Thursday 1st October 2020
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Unless I die suddenly I’ll be selling my collection off when I get old, leaving just a couple.

Stunters

617 posts

216 months

Thursday 1st October 2020
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I'll probably do the same as Andy. Sell or give away most of them, keep maybe 3 or 4 and then either bequeath them to someone who I know would like them, or else they'll just form part of my estate.

I collect quite a few different things and I will take the same approach in those areas too.

RDMcG

Original Poster:

20,375 posts

229 months

Thursday 1st October 2020
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Caddyshack said:
Hopefully all ok...I do find it odd when someone starts a thread and then you hardly hear from them on it.
Sorry !...was a bit tied up with some immediate business issues I had to solve. No, I am (to my knowledge) in imminent danger of shedding off the mortal coil, but at 72 by definition the runway is shorter.

Of course I have a will for the important stuff but the other things are just not even listed..just as " all other personal items.

Only a few watches but reasonably nice, plus a bunch of cars, some reasonably nice also.
Was more curious as to how people got rid of or willed such items. I will at some stage not be driving performance cars, and watches are really jewellery. All really toys. I am thinking to simply offer some of the items to my son and if he wants them ,fine. Else just sell it off.


xx99xx

2,685 posts

95 months

Thursday 1st October 2020
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Mine (only 1 semi expensive but v sentimental) is going to my only son as detailed in my will. I show it to him sometimes and he loves it. Hopefully he's be old enough to appreciate it by the time he gets it.

Caddyshack

13,607 posts

228 months

Thursday 1st October 2020
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RDMcG said:
Caddyshack said:
Hopefully all ok...I do find it odd when someone starts a thread and then you hardly hear from them on it.
Sorry !...was a bit tied up with some immediate business issues I had to solve. No, I am (to my knowledge) in imminent danger of shedding off the mortal coil, but at 72 by definition the runway is shorter.

Of course I have a will for the important stuff but the other things are just not even listed..just as " all other personal items.

Only a few watches but reasonably nice, plus a bunch of cars, some reasonably nice also.
Was more curious as to how people got rid of or willed such items. I will at some stage not be driving performance cars, and watches are really jewellery. All really toys. I am thinking to simply offer some of the items to my son and if he wants them ,fine. Else just sell it off.
Glad to hear you are still around!

Sounds like your son will be very lucky to have the choice....much better to see someone enjoy it in my opinion.

RDMcG

Original Poster:

20,375 posts

229 months

Thursday 1st October 2020
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Caddyshack said:
Glad to hear you are still around!

Sounds like your son will be very lucky to have the choice....much better to see someone enjoy it in my opinion.
Not his thing, but fair enough..he drives a 25 year old Land Rover shed and does not get cars or watches or the likesmile We are all different.