People that turn the TV on for no reason
People that turn the TV on for no reason
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Calamityspice

Original Poster:

16 posts

141 months

Saturday 23rd January 2021
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We have a TV in work.

Usually, if I have command of the remote I will turn it off. (I hate TV).

Recently an episode of Eastenders was occurring; I turned the TV off.

A Colleague stood up, grabbed the remote. Turned the TV back on then sat back down and resumed his crossword.

Why??





BadOrangePete

861 posts

67 months

Saturday 23rd January 2021
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Lots of people like the background chatter of the TV, I do similar in the morning before work TBH. Right now the news is on but I'm only keeping half an eye on it while browsing crap on the internet hehe

s p a c e m a n

11,630 posts

171 months

Saturday 23rd January 2021
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I do not want to have to listen to the voices in my head.

Louis Balfour

28,176 posts

245 months

Saturday 23rd January 2021
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Calamityspice said:
We have a TV in work.

Usually, if I have command of the remote I will turn it off. (I hate TV).

Recently an episode of Eastenders was occurring; I turned the TV off.

A Colleague stood up, grabbed the remote. Turned the TV back on then sat back down and resumed his crossword.

Why??
Maybe that exchange had nothing to do with the TV. Perhaps if you'd sought consensus before turning it off the outcome may have been different.


Calamityspice

Original Poster:

16 posts

141 months

Saturday 23rd January 2021
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Louis Balfour said:
Maybe that exchange had nothing to do with the TV. Perhaps if you'd sought consensus before turning it off the outcome may have been different.
In what way? I don't follow.

tight fart

3,467 posts

296 months

Saturday 23rd January 2021
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Why do they have the TV on in a pub, I can except big sporting events but not anything else.
I’ll often turn it off from the ir remote in my phone. p20 Pro.
It amazes me how long it takes before anyone notices.
(Back in the day when we had pubs of course)

megaphone

11,474 posts

274 months

Saturday 23rd January 2021
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My mate (lazy bd) has the TV on from the moment he gets up to the moment he goes to sleep. Even leaves it on when he goes out. Sky news is his preferred channel, unless there is sport on. Most of the time he is not really watching, he's on his laptop, on facebook.

My TV rarely goes on until 7pm ish, much prefer to listen to the radio.

Louis Balfour

28,176 posts

245 months

Saturday 23rd January 2021
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Calamityspice said:
Louis Balfour said:
Maybe that exchange had nothing to do with the TV. Perhaps if you'd sought consensus before turning it off the outcome may have been different.
In what way? I don't follow.
You changed the environment without asking whether others sharing that environment were happy with that change.

Your colleague's thought process may well have been "How did he know whether I was listening to that or not? Who does he think he is turning it off without asking?"

If you ordinarily appear a little confrontational, or inconsiderate of others, your colleague may well have been communicating a message to you. That being "Be more considerate of those around you".

Alternatively, your action may have been perceived as aggression and your colleague was signalling to you that he is prepared to stand up to you.

The fact that the situation occurred in the first place and that you have come onto Pistonheads seeking guidance suggests that you may not be very good with people. There may be reasons for that which are somewhat out of your control, for example where you sit on the autistic spectrum. On the other hand you may just be an arse.


ARHarh

4,892 posts

130 months

Saturday 23rd January 2021
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Calamityspice said:
Louis Balfour said:
Maybe that exchange had nothing to do with the TV. Perhaps if you'd sought consensus before turning it off the outcome may have been different.
In what way? I don't follow.
I guess that says it all really

LeadFarmer

7,411 posts

154 months

Saturday 23rd January 2021
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I have Sky News on in the background in my living room. Only glancing up at it when my favourite female presenters appear.







Edited by LeadFarmer on Saturday 23 January 08:56

Pit Pony

10,827 posts

144 months

Saturday 23rd January 2021
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s p a c e m a n said:
I do not want to have to listen to the voices in my head.
I have the radio on.for the same reason. Usually Radio 3 or 4

Wife will.come in and turn it off. Without asking. She hates any background noise.

Eric Mc

124,789 posts

288 months

Saturday 23rd January 2021
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Background radio, podcasts or You Tube (mostly audio) while I'm working is normal for me. I don't mind voices or music in the background except if I have to concentrate or am under pressure when I will turn everything off.

I don't physically turn any TV on until I've finished work - normally between 6 to 7pm.

DoubleD

22,154 posts

131 months

Saturday 23rd January 2021
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megaphone said:
My mate (lazy bd) has the TV on from the moment he gets up to the moment he goes to sleep. Even leaves it on when he goes out. Sky news is his preferred channel, unless there is sport on. Most of the time he is not really watching, he's on his laptop, on facebook.

My TV rarely goes on until 7pm ish, much prefer to listen to the radio.
That's not all that different then, you prefer to listen to the radio and he would rather listen to the TV.

Smollet

15,316 posts

213 months

Saturday 23rd January 2021
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ARHarh said:
Calamityspice said:
Louis Balfour said:
Maybe that exchange had nothing to do with the TV. Perhaps if you'd sought consensus before turning it off the outcome may have been different.
In what way? I don't follow.
I guess that says it all really
Agreed.

Sheets Tabuer

21,051 posts

238 months

Saturday 23rd January 2021
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I live alone, sometimes I get up and turn the tv on then go about my day, it's just a bit of background noise really I rarely watch it.

waynecyclist

13,683 posts

137 months

Saturday 23rd January 2021
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Sheets Tabuer said:
I live alone, sometimes I get up and turn the tv on then go about my day, it's just a bit of background noise really I rarely watch it.
I live on my own and do the same, not every day

RizzoTheRat

28,081 posts

215 months

Saturday 23rd January 2021
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We tend to have music on in the background most of the time so very similar, rarely watch TV though.

At a previous employer we had a TV in the kitchen, usually on BBC news 24, I can see the point of leaving it on a news channel as it's lots of short bits and a particular key word might attract your attention to a particular story. Leaving it on a soap opera you're not watching seems a bit odd though.

The one that bugs me is pubs/clubs with TV's showing music videos, but with the sound turned off and different music playing.

Smollet

15,316 posts

213 months

Saturday 23rd January 2021
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waynecyclist said:
Sheets Tabuer said:
I live alone, sometimes I get up and turn the tv on then go about my day, it's just a bit of background noise really I rarely watch it.
I live on my own and do the same, not every day
Same here.

HTP99

24,699 posts

163 months

Saturday 23rd January 2021
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LeadFarmer said:
I have Sky News on in the background in my living room. Only glancing up at it when my favourite female presenters appear.







Edited by LeadFarmer on Saturday 23 January 08:56
LOL, I have it on in the morning, in the background whilst having my breakfast and browsing on my tablet, I always look up when the weather is on:



She is heavenly.

Muzzer79

12,674 posts

210 months

Saturday 23rd January 2021
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HTP99 said:
LOL, I have it on in the morning, in the background whilst having my breakfast and browsing on my tablet, I always look up when the weather is on:



She is heavenly.
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