Neighbour blaming me for damaging his car continuously
Neighbour blaming me for damaging his car continuously
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Nothappybunnyrabbit

Original Poster:

5 posts

24 months

Friday 20th September 2024
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Maxym

3,021 posts

265 months

Friday 20th September 2024
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You're right mate.

Time4another

517 posts

32 months

Friday 20th September 2024
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You are right.

You have agreed someone is hitting his car. Said you'd watch that it's not your kids. Now know it's not your kids. Told him it's not. Firmly his problem to either prove it is your kids or find whoever it is.

Don't waste time argueing with stupid people.

STe_rsv4

1,247 posts

127 months

Friday 20th September 2024
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I concur.

that is all

Nothappybunnyrabbit

Original Poster:

5 posts

24 months

Friday 20th September 2024
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Exactly the marks could have been there long before but they have noticed them since parking next to mine as it’s white and now they think it’s me , apparently I’ve done it to all the cars they have ever parked there and I said I must find out what paint my car is painted in as it lasts very well to still be in showroom condition

shirt

25,402 posts

230 months

Friday 20th September 2024
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the white marks aren't marks, they are chips on his paintwork caused by the door edge of the car being opened into it. there will likely not be any corresponding damage on the door being opened.

just going by what you have said, but if his car never moves and you always park next to it, who else could it be?

regardless of how irritating this is for either party [more for him that you], the onus is on him to prove liability, this is what cctv is for. he can also remedy the panel damage via his insurer.

Nothappybunnyrabbit

Original Poster:

5 posts

24 months

Friday 20th September 2024
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His car was full
Of marks before he parked there quite often they squeeze 3 cars into 2 spaces in other areas of the car park , the only proof is they are white marks and my car is white ?

Riley Blue

23,205 posts

255 months

Friday 20th September 2024
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You write that you always park in the same spot. Do you know of anyone else with a white car that parks there?

Could you park somewhere else?

budgie smuggler

6,054 posts

188 months

Friday 20th September 2024
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Nothappybunnyrabbit said:
His car was full
Of marks before he parked there quite often they squeeze 3 cars into 2 spaces in other areas of the car park , the only proof is they are white marks and my car is white ?
That's not proof of anything, white marks are what you normally get when clearcoat or paint gets scratched regardless of the colour of the other car.

It would have to be quite a heavy contact to transfer paint over.

Nothappybunnyrabbit

Original Poster:

5 posts

24 months

Friday 20th September 2024
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budgie smuggler said:
That's not proof of anything, white marks are what you normally get when clearcoat or paint gets scratched regardless of the colour of the other car.

It would have to be quite a heavy contact to transfer paint over.
Thanks for that info and very informative x

steveo3002

11,205 posts

203 months

Friday 20th September 2024
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does your door line up with the damage , different cars will contact at a different height

shirt

25,402 posts

230 months

Friday 20th September 2024
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Nothappybunnyrabbit said:
His car was full
Of marks before he parked there quite often they squeeze 3 cars into 2 spaces in other areas of the car park , the only proof is they are white marks and my car is white ?
this isn't facebook. read what i wrote, just repeating yourself doesn't change facts. the burden of proof is upon him and the route to rectify the damage is via his insurer. they aren't white paint marks, they're chips through the top coat.


brillomaster

1,865 posts

199 months

Friday 20th September 2024
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i mean, if his car never moves and you always park in the same place, then the damage to his car will either line up with where your door would hit it, or it doesnt.

Does it?

how big a gap is there between your two cars when parked? and how old are your kids? cause with the best will in the world, most kids be banging doors.

thetapeworm

13,810 posts

268 months

Friday 20th September 2024
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steveo3002 said:
does your door line up with the damage , different cars will contact at a different height
This.

anonymous-user

83 months

Friday 20th September 2024
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Tell him to go forth and multiply.....

Maybe worth investing £10 on something like this to save future hasle.




https://www.amazon.co.uk/SYOAUTO-Protector-Rubber-...

CoreyDog

886 posts

119 months

Friday 20th September 2024
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steveo3002 said:
does your door line up with the damage , different cars will contact at a different height
This x2.

Years ago neighbour swiped the rear corner of our grey V50 in her little bright yellow Kia. Lots of paint transfer from her front bumper. She denied all knowledge.

Went out with a tape measure and measured the yellow paint on our car with the missing paint from her front bumper. Lined up perfectly.

Plenty of photos sent to insurers who very quickly found her liable.