Is three children in a five-seater a PITA?
Is three children in a five-seater a PITA?
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LimaDelta

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8,464 posts

247 months

Monday 16th December 2024
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We currently have a five-seater (MINI Countryman) and a seven-seater (Toyota Land Cruiser). I'm getting itchy feet again and looking at maybe changing the LC. I had been waiting for the new one, but it looks like that is not really going to be an option in the UK, at least, there are still no updates from Toyota. Some of the options I'm considering are only five-seaters, albeit big ones.

Anyway, to those with three children - is it too much of a squeeze using a five-seater day to day?

Additional spanner, three may become four in the next few years, so the point may be moot.

Current ages are 13,10 and imminent.

Alex_225

7,771 posts

230 months

Monday 16th December 2024
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If it's a decent sized five seater then it's not too bad. My other half has a Merc ML and I have three kids, eldest sits in the middle if we go out.

Admittedly it'll be easier as they go into smaller booster seats or when they're out of them entirely as they are the bulky bit.

PomBstard

7,873 posts

271 months

Monday 16th December 2024
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From experience, a fiver seater will be fine, but…

How tall are you and MrsLD?
How tall are the 10 & 13 yo?
How often will all 5 of you be in the car together?

Anyway, rear seat bench width becomes the important factor, and you’ll need to test them with a volunteer or two from your clan. If the rear bench is comfy and has enough space, it’s easy. If not, every time the five of you go (to Dorset?) out together it becomes a pain.

Some big SUVs aren’t as big as you think either, and many supposed 5 seaters are really only 4.5 as the rear bench is shaped for 2 and has an uncomfortable middle bit.

TL;DR - can work but go look and test

SkodaIan

1,010 posts

114 months

Monday 16th December 2024
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You're only going to need 1 car seat with that age combination, so worst case the baby seat can go in the front and one adult and the two older kids in the back.

That would be fine for most journeys assuming it's a fairly decent sized 5 seater.

A lot of the third row seats in 7 seaters only really work for a fairly narrow age band of child - out of a car seat (as they never fit right), but not yet as tall as an adult (when the seats are too cramped). Depending on how the child grows that could only be about 4 years of their life!!

If 4 kids is likely and you're thinking of changing, I'd suggest using it as an excuse to get a VW Transporter or similar van derived 8/9 seater. There's then plenty of room for luggage as well.

philrs03

363 posts

125 months

Monday 16th December 2024
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My defender pretty easily absorbs that combination, that’s a 5 seater. The only “issue” for me personally is the Pram we’ve got which seems to take up half of the boot space!

edc

9,641 posts

280 months

Monday 16th December 2024
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If you're using the rear seats with 3 across daily then the key will be how comfortable and manageable that is. With 1 or more car seats in the row you probably want 3 equal/full sized seats. There are actually not that many cars that have this. Citroen C5 Aircross is one such 'car' but is the same sort of size as the smaller 7 seaters like the C4 Grand Picasso / Touran.

pits

6,704 posts

219 months

Monday 16th December 2024
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V90 here, 17,13, 6.
6 year old sits in the middle in his seat, the other two either side, plenty of room for all and comfortable, we have done trips through France and Spain in it and never get a single moan off them

croyde

26,348 posts

259 months

Monday 16th December 2024
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philrs03 said:
My defender pretty easily absorbs that combination, that’s a 5 seater. The only “issue” for me personally is the Pram we’ve got which seems to take up half of the boot space!
My old Disco 3 was perfect for my 3 when one was in a full on babyseat, plus two boosters. Flat rear bench seat.

Unfortunately it broke down, a lot, from new and one replacement was a RR Vogue with cream leather seats.

Fantastic I thought until I tried to get the kids in. The bolstering and shaping meant only two seats would fit properly.

So you want a flat bench, hence why all 3 did fit in the back of my tiny (compared to the latest models) e36 BMW.

LimaDelta

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8,464 posts

247 months

Tuesday 17th December 2024
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At least there will only be one car seat.

The point about SUV based seven-seaters is valid. It is seats or boot, not both, so even if your pax have more room, there is no space for strollers etc.

Simon_GH

999 posts

109 months

Tuesday 17th December 2024
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A friend uses an EV6 as their daily with three teenager admittedly slim) kids with no issues.

Ryan80

37 posts

198 months

Tuesday 17th December 2024
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I've 3 kids - 7,6 & 3 and they all fit fine in the back of a 2011 passat estate even with the big car seat and two boosters. So one baby seat and two teens will be fine.

If you do have a 4th, then I'd look at some sort of Multimac rear bench to fit in the car when the time comes, rather than buying a mpv now in the off chance you do have the 4th child!

MustangGT

13,832 posts

309 months

Tuesday 17th December 2024
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SkodaIan said:
You're only going to need 1 car seat with that age combination, so worst case the baby seat can go in the front and one adult and the two older kids in the back.
How does that statement compare to the legal requirements which state age 12, and needing to be at least 135cm.

LimaDelta

Original Poster:

8,464 posts

247 months

Tuesday 17th December 2024
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MustangGT said:
SkodaIan said:
You're only going to need 1 car seat with that age combination, so worst case the baby seat can go in the front and one adult and the two older kids in the back.
How does that statement compare to the legal requirements which state age 12, and needing to be at least 135cm.
Does anyone do that? At 12!

eltax91

10,756 posts

235 months

Tuesday 17th December 2024
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MustangGT said:
SkodaIan said:
You're only going to need 1 car seat with that age combination, so worst case the baby seat can go in the front and one adult and the two older kids in the back.
How does that statement compare to the legal requirements which state age 12, and needing to be at least 135cm.
Aged 12 OR 135cm

My 8yr old is nearly 135cm. My 12 year old is waaaaay past that and has been seat-less for a couple of years at least

anonymous-user

83 months

Tuesday 17th December 2024
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To impart some humility on my three children all trips to see other family across the country are done in a Mk5 Polo

LimaDelta

Original Poster:

8,464 posts

247 months

Tuesday 17th December 2024
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I guess the longest regular trip five of us would take would be the 2hr round trip to my parents every few weeks. The rest of the time it is short journeys or fewer than five.

AnhBanhBao

304 posts

76 months

Wednesday 18th December 2024
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ilikepeas said:
To impart some humility on my three children all trips to see other family across the country are done in a Mk5 Polo
biglaugh

BoRED S2upid

21,047 posts

269 months

Wednesday 18th December 2024
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2 plus car seat will be tight. 2 plus booster fine 3 teenagers no chance. Were you looking for a yes or no answer? lol

mike9009

10,846 posts

272 months

Wednesday 18th December 2024
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ilikepeas said:
To impart some humility on my three children all trips to see other family across the country are done in a Mk5 Polo
Too true.

We managed with an R55 Mini Clubman with two young kids and a dog for numerous trips around the country and to France.

Admittedly we had a roof box for longer trips.....