Is this a 14cux connector ?

[FFMan]

http://www.polevolt.co.uk/acatalog/info_ECU35.html

looks right, and 35 + 5 = 40 in my book

thanks

[davep]

14CUX connector is 3 row (13, 14, 13 pin rows) the one shown in the link looks to be 2 row (17, 18 pin rows). So no.

[blitzracing]

I dont know where you will get a new one- Ive never managed to find them.