Looking for views on a idea children s services / court
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Hi all,
I’m looking for some honest feedback on an idea I’m in the early stages of developing, particularly from anyone who’s had dealings with children’s services or family court.
My background, I’m a qualified social worker (since 2012) and have worked across safeguarding, court work, children in care and management roles. I’ve spent a lot of time completing assessments and reports that ultimately inform court decisions.
I’m now exploring setting up independently, offering services along the lines of:
Reviewing assessments/reports and identifying gaps or concerns
Supporting people to structure responses or complaints
Helping pull together clear, evidence-based documents for court
Reunification-focused work and demonstrating change
My initial thinking is to approach solicitors and barristers’ chambers as a primary route, as they’re often the ones instructing or supporting parents.
One thing I’ve been reflecting on is how confusing and overwhelming the process can be for parents. From the inside, systems and expectations can feel quite structured, but from the outside it’s often a very different experience—tight timescales, a lot of written information, and not always a clear understanding of what is actually being asked of you.
There are some resources available, but in my experience they’re not always well understood or fully used, and people can end up reacting to things rather than being able to present their situation clearly and confidently.
I’ve actually helped a couple of people on here previously on an informal basis, which is partly what got me thinking more seriously about whether this kind of support is needed more widely.
Before I go too far with this, I wanted to sense-check a few things:
Are there other routes or professionals I should be thinking about approaching?
From your experience, where do people struggle most when dealing with children’s services or court processes?
If you’ve been through it yourself, what kind of support would actually have made a difference?
Do services like this feel useful, or is trust a big barrier?
I’m not advertising anything at this stage—just trying to understand whether this fills a genuine gap and how best it might sit alongside the existing system.
Appreciate any thoughts or experiences people are willing to share.
I’m looking for some honest feedback on an idea I’m in the early stages of developing, particularly from anyone who’s had dealings with children’s services or family court.
My background, I’m a qualified social worker (since 2012) and have worked across safeguarding, court work, children in care and management roles. I’ve spent a lot of time completing assessments and reports that ultimately inform court decisions.
I’m now exploring setting up independently, offering services along the lines of:
Reviewing assessments/reports and identifying gaps or concerns
Supporting people to structure responses or complaints
Helping pull together clear, evidence-based documents for court
Reunification-focused work and demonstrating change
My initial thinking is to approach solicitors and barristers’ chambers as a primary route, as they’re often the ones instructing or supporting parents.
One thing I’ve been reflecting on is how confusing and overwhelming the process can be for parents. From the inside, systems and expectations can feel quite structured, but from the outside it’s often a very different experience—tight timescales, a lot of written information, and not always a clear understanding of what is actually being asked of you.
There are some resources available, but in my experience they’re not always well understood or fully used, and people can end up reacting to things rather than being able to present their situation clearly and confidently.
I’ve actually helped a couple of people on here previously on an informal basis, which is partly what got me thinking more seriously about whether this kind of support is needed more widely.
Before I go too far with this, I wanted to sense-check a few things:
Are there other routes or professionals I should be thinking about approaching?
From your experience, where do people struggle most when dealing with children’s services or court processes?
If you’ve been through it yourself, what kind of support would actually have made a difference?
Do services like this feel useful, or is trust a big barrier?
I’m not advertising anything at this stage—just trying to understand whether this fills a genuine gap and how best it might sit alongside the existing system.
Appreciate any thoughts or experiences people are willing to share.
If you're asking view on a website which I would guess is predominantly male users, with regards to family courts, from my experience at least (and that of several people I know) the family courts are the most biased courts in the world.
If you are male you've a 99% chance of losing.
You can have allegations of anything from physical abuse to the ex or sexual abuse to the children and the court will believe the mother regardless of the facts.
These courts will effectively ruin you financially, mentally and often physically, with one father a day dying from suicide because of family courts.
The best idea would be to bring 50/50 parenting and then for the mother to argue against it, if the father is so bad.
But that won't happen because Tony 'war crimes' Blair said that fathers who separate from the mother of their children are '"feckless fathers".
Well Tony, we all know you're a massive liar, but you're also a c**t!
But, on the back of what he said, the courts who are so far removed from reality, went along with what he said.
As for your idea, get courts to not take what the mothers say as the 100% truth, you might not make a lot of money from it, but you'll certainly save some lives.
If you are male you've a 99% chance of losing.
You can have allegations of anything from physical abuse to the ex or sexual abuse to the children and the court will believe the mother regardless of the facts.
These courts will effectively ruin you financially, mentally and often physically, with one father a day dying from suicide because of family courts.
The best idea would be to bring 50/50 parenting and then for the mother to argue against it, if the father is so bad.
But that won't happen because Tony 'war crimes' Blair said that fathers who separate from the mother of their children are '"feckless fathers".
Well Tony, we all know you're a massive liar, but you're also a c**t!
But, on the back of what he said, the courts who are so far removed from reality, went along with what he said.
As for your idea, get courts to not take what the mothers say as the 100% truth, you might not make a lot of money from it, but you'll certainly save some lives.
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