Worst road rage I've ever encountered...
Worst road rage I've ever encountered...
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PetrolDriver

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781 posts

167 months

Wednesday 20th June 2012
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This happened a few nights ago, I was never going to start a new thread about it as people always find a way of bringing the blame back to the OP by pointing out something he did in error which made it his fault that these nut cases blow a gasket - quite frankly it wasn't worth the effort.

I've since had time to sit, think and reflect - and would welcome your comments.

Around 8pm on Sunday, I was travelling from Liverpool through the Wallasey tunnel. As I approached the entrance to the tunnel this chap in a Vectra cut me up something rotten trying to get in front of me. I was near enough level with the car in the inside lane, just about to pass and he found a space to squeeze through. I needed to brake.

This is where my decision to react could potentially have been a fatal one! I gave him a quick flash to indicate my annoyance, he gave me 2 fingers out the window. I gave him the old wker shake and dropped back - I'm currently on an economy drive to see what MPG figure I can get out of my 330Ci.

Next minute, he's hard on the brakes, into reverse and reversing towards me. I genuinely think he intended to crash into me, so I stopped, put it in 1st gear and went around him - I had to cross a double white line to do this but felt the circumstances required it!

I dropped back to my normal speed and thought he'd end there but no, he's up behind me, couldn't have got any closer.

As we exit the tunnel he goes for the same toll booth as me at the last second, I had to swerve left hard to make sure I didn't hit him or the concrete in between the booths. I put my window down to put my money into the bucket and he has his down telling me he's going to kill me. I notice a baby seat complete with baby in one of the rear seats and a young girl, maybe 10 or so, in the front passenger seats. He had a fast tag so got through before me and swerved immediately left trying to block me in the booth.

I was literally stting myself at this point, shaking like a leaf, but I swerved around him and gunned it away wanting to take the exit and disappear pronto before he had a chance to get back into 1st, turn around, and do whatever he was going to do. I got away onto the M53 and saw him approaching very fast in the rear view mirror. With literally nowhere to go, I decided I'd slow a little, pull alongside the cars in the inside lanes so he couldn't get past. I decided there and then that I needed to drive to a police station as this guy was seriously unhinged.

His next work of genius was to swerve into the inside lane, then onto the hard shoulder, gun it past everyone, swerve back into the outside lane and slam his brakes on. The motorway came to a halt and this guy again started reversing towards me. I was literally terrified. I didn't get the registration as I was wondering what on earth this guy was going to do to me. He was absolutely massive. So very quick mirror check and I'm around him and hard on it through 1st, 2nd, 3rd and 4th gear. Left him behind and decided that I needed to continue at a speed where he would never catch me up. I did 3 junctions like this until I knew I could come off the motorway, get onto the roundabout and disappear down an exit without him knowing which way I'd gone.

I did this, came off, took a random exit, did a right, then a left and parked up in a road I knew I could exit at both ends if he found me. I sat there shaking. He didn't find me and I left it 30 mins before going home the long way.

I've been reflecting on this since then. I didn't go to the police because I was guilty of crossing a double white line and subsequently speeding to get away, yet he threatened me, tried to ram me, reversed in the tunnel, overtook on the inside using the hard shoulder, stopped in the outside lane of a motorway and reversed on the motorway.

I felt I couldn't go to my local police station at the time because if I'd have been caught in traffic or traffic lights then he'd have had me. I couldn't use my phone to call the police because I couldn't have a single lapse in concentration at any point.

What would you have done, and what could or would you do a few days later after the shock has worn off and the realisation of what actually happened has set in?

  • I fully appreciate I shouldn't have flashed, nor should I have reacted to his gestures, and trust me it'll never happen again. I don't need to be told what a stupid muppet I was but we can't all be 100% calm and collected at all times and I was coming back from the office after spending the weekend there finishing a report. No excuses or justifications from me. I shouldn't have done it.
Edit: I don't know my lefts from my rights!

Edited by PetrolDriver on Wednesday 20th June 17:18

TonyTony

1,882 posts

178 months

Wednesday 20th June 2012
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I would still ring the police and report it if he was intending to damage your car and potentially risk your life.

Won't there be any traffic cameras they could look at?

Stumps690

482 posts

162 months

Wednesday 20th June 2012
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Stopped at the toll booth, loads of CCTV probably highways people milling about. Use phone call the police, no need to gun it as it makes you equally as guilty.

Allaloneatron

3,123 posts

260 months

Wednesday 20th June 2012
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Jesus.. I would have pooped my pants. Lucky you had a quick motor. That guys needs to be kept away from his kids and everyone else.

PetrolDriver

Original Poster:

781 posts

167 months

Wednesday 20th June 2012
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Stumps690 said:
Stopped at the toll booth, loads of CCTV probably highways people milling about. Use phone call the police, no need to gun it as it makes you equally as guilty.
Sitting there on the phone doesn't stop a guy who has told you he is going to kill you from actually doing it though, that was my first thought as my mind was racing. Having your murder happen on CCTV doesn't make it any better.

PetrolDriver

Original Poster:

781 posts

167 months

Wednesday 20th June 2012
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TonyTony said:
Won't there be any traffic cameras they could look at?
They'll see me speeding. Quite horrendously paperbag

Snowman23

254 posts

225 months

Wednesday 20th June 2012
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Jesus, that sounds awful....

Never had anything to that extent, just shows there are people just waiting to snap. I doubt his reaction was purely a reaction to you.

He's lucky you weren't similarily mental!

TheTurbonator

2,792 posts

171 months

Wednesday 20th June 2012
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I'd definitely report it. A lot of tunnels have cameras and a operator may have spotted it and made a note of it.

Byard

539 posts

194 months

Wednesday 20th June 2012
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Snowman23 said:
Jesus, that sounds awful....

Never had anything to that extent, just shows there are people just waiting to snap. I doubt his reaction was purely a reaction to you.

He's lucky you weren't similarily mental!
+1 sounds like road roid rage.

Disco You

3,717 posts

200 months

Wednesday 20th June 2012
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PetrolDriver said:
people always find a way of bringing the blame back to the OP by pointing out something he did in error which made it his fault that these nut cases blow a gasket
I've since had time to sit, think and reflect - and would welcome your comments.

I gave him a quick flash to indicate my annoyance,
I gave him the old wker shake
Do you really need us to tell you?

Flashing isn't a great idea. But shaking the salt at him was asking for it.

PetrolDriver

Original Poster:

781 posts

167 months

Wednesday 20th June 2012
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Disco You said:
Do you really need us to tell you?

Flashing isn't a great idea. But shaking the salt at him was asking for it.
See final bullet point. So to answer your question, no, I don't.

Shaking the salt, as far as I'm aware, has never meant "will you please attempt to kill me?"

Byard

539 posts

194 months

Wednesday 20th June 2012
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Disco You said:
Do you really need us to tell you?

Flashing isn't a great idea. But shaking the salt at him was asking for it.
You make it sounds like the OPs fault!

mrmr96

13,736 posts

224 months

Wednesday 20th June 2012
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Stumps690 said:
no need to gun it as it makes you equally as guilty.
No, mate, it REALLY doesn't.

TTwiggy

11,796 posts

224 months

Wednesday 20th June 2012
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PetrolDriver said:
TonyTony said:
Won't there be any traffic cameras they could look at?
They'll see me speeding. Quite horrendously paperbag
IANAL, but he's threatened to kill you and seemed dtermined to do so. I believe your speed would be justified in those circumstances (SP&L could confirm or deny).

twink

392 posts

169 months

Wednesday 20th June 2012
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I know that tunnel well and there's periodic cameras all the way along it, including a CCTV camera facing into the flow of traffic from the tunnel exit by the fly over as you go past B&Q. I'm guessing from what you said, you came off at the Clatterbridge exit? Get it reported.

Six Fiend

6,067 posts

235 months

Wednesday 20th June 2012
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If all has occurred as OP describes then why not visit Plod and explain it. There's bound to be cctv footage somewhere and this oik sounds like he needs to be away from the public and big piles of steroids.

PetrolDriver

Original Poster:

781 posts

167 months

Wednesday 20th June 2012
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Also, one of my major, major worries is that he spots me again, but at a time when I don't spot him.

His car was fairly distinctive but then mine is no shrinking violet. The only slight relief I have from this worry is that any day now I will have my retention certificate from the DVLA through and I can effectively give my car a new ID. I also have longer than my usual hair at the moment, so I'm going for a short chop.

(I'm that scared of him)

TonyTony

1,882 posts

178 months

Wednesday 20th June 2012
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PetrolDriver said:
They'll see me speeding. Quite horrendously paperbag
How would the law work if you where in the process of getting away from a mental person who is trying to hurt you or damage your property though?

Kind of the same way you can use reasonable force defending yourself outside of a car I suppose, but surely they can't just say well don't break any laws and just see if he actually wants to kill you or not. scratchchin

Disco You

3,717 posts

200 months

Wednesday 20th June 2012
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Byard said:
You make it sounds like the OPs fault!
Is it his fault that the other person was a nutjob? No.

Would this have happened had he made an offensive gesture at a stranger? No.





edit: OP you edited in your final bullet point after I'd opened the thread.

MrBrightSi

2,918 posts

190 months

Wednesday 20th June 2012
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Funny how these scum always think that having kids in the car justifies their retarded actions. Had someone threaten me before "If my kid was in the car i would of killed you" All for an overtake.

I think when some people get kids and realise that they have to live for someone else other than themselves they can't hack it.