17 year old in a pub?
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98elise

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32,733 posts

191 months

Wednesday 23rd December 2015
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Quick question on UK drinking laws.

My 17yo son went to the pub last night with his mates (all 18). He did not intend to drink alcohol. He doesn't drink very often, not even if we go out for a meal.

They went to the bar and we're asked for ID as you would expect, but were asked to leave as my son was not with a parent.
I thought you just needed to be with an adult (over 18) not a parent?

Just to be clear this has nothing to do with buying or drinking alcohol. Its a question about being in the bar.


Edited by 98elise on Wednesday 23 December 10:34

bingybongy

4,150 posts

176 months

Wednesday 23rd December 2015
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It's up to the landlord. If he doesn't want under 18s in he doesn't have to.

SS2.

14,712 posts

268 months

Wednesday 23rd December 2015
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98elise said:
I thought you just needed to be with an adult (over 18) not a parent?
That's my understanding too.

Sounds like 'manager's rules' were applied. Either that, or a simple misinterpretation of the licensing regulations.

spitfire-ian

4,243 posts

258 months

Wednesday 23rd December 2015
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I would think a vast majority of 17 year olds going into a pub with a group of mates of legal drinking age would be also intending to drink alcohol too. Pub was just probably exercising it's right to serve who they want based on past experience.

Evanivitch

26,438 posts

152 months

Wednesday 23rd December 2015
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Landlord has the right to impose that policy on under 18s, especially if he suspects his friends will buy him alcohol.

paintman

7,860 posts

220 months

Wednesday 23rd December 2015
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"It is not illegal:
For someone over 18 to buy a child over 16 beer, wine or cider if they are eating a table meal together in licensed premises."
https://www.drinkaware.co.uk/check-the-facts/alcoh...

Likely the landlord doesn't trust the over 18s not to buy the under 18 alcohol. This could impact on his business so doesn't want to take any chances.

ging84

9,548 posts

176 months

Wednesday 23rd December 2015
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there are plenty of licensed premises where you must be over 18
It's been a long time since i was a barman, but i don't remember ever coming across and licensing rules which had anything to do with anyone specifically being accompanied by a parent.
But as people have said, it's thier right to refuse any customers.

Trax

1,601 posts

262 months

Wednesday 23rd December 2015
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paintman said:
"It is not illegal:
For someone over 18 to buy a child over 16 beer, wine or cider if they are eating a table meal together in licensed premises."
https://www.drinkaware.co.uk/check-the-facts/alcoh...

Likely the landlord doesn't trust the over 18s not to buy the under 18 alcohol. This could impact on his business so doesn't want to take any chances.
Many people, including serving people in restruarants dont seem to realise this. Try telling a yound waitress that the 17 year old can have a pint of larger with his meal......

I know its a good few years since I held a Liquor License, but I had it on memory that a 17 year old could actually purchase a wine/lager/cider with the meal, aswell as having it bought for them. Though the link suggests it can only be bought for them.


RobinOakapple

2,802 posts

142 months

Wednesday 23rd December 2015
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Evanivitch said:
Landlord has the right to impose that policy on under 18s, especially if he suspects his friends will buy him alcohol.
yes

And he is wise to exercise that right.

MoggieMinor

471 posts

175 months

Wednesday 23rd December 2015
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Its very common for police to send under age people into pubs and attempt to buy alcohol. The resulting fine for such a sale is heavy. This is why landlords can't take any chances now.

98elise

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32,733 posts

191 months

Wednesday 23rd December 2015
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Its fair enough if the landlord rule, its his pub so his rules.

I just wanted to know it was a licencing issue, or just the staff being a picky. They were happy for the rest to stay, it was just my son they said couldn't be there without a parent.

My only anoyance is the pub is in walking distance, and not known for trouble, so if he's out then we prefer him to go there. We use it regularly as a family (its a pub/resturant).


Jarcy

1,559 posts

305 months

Wednesday 23rd December 2015
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My son is just 18, but his friends are a mix of 17 and 18.
There's only one 'sympathetic' pub in our town where he can go with his under 17 mates. All of the others ban under 18s full-stop.

O.T. Your son will be 18 soon. It's the law, apparently, that you must visit the pub with him on his 18th birthday and let him buy you a drink! smile
Annoyingly, when I did this a couple of months ago, they didn't even check his i.d. I guess the bar staff saw that he was there with his Dad, so didn't feel the need to.

Rude-boy

22,227 posts

263 months

Wednesday 23rd December 2015
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98elise said:
Its fair enough if the landlord rule, its his pub so his rules.

I just wanted to know it was a licencing issue, or just the staff being a picky. They were happy for the rest to stay, it was just my son they said couldn't be there without a parent.

My only anoyance is the pub is in walking distance, and not known for trouble, so if he's out then we prefer him to go there. We use it regularly as a family (its a pub/resturant).
Understand your issue totally, the LL though will more concerned with not doing anything remotely close to pushing his luck with his licence - especially given the time of year (more drinkers and more chances of an inspection) and the nature of group. If son had been with you or even with a group of mates of yours without you there i doubt that they would have batted an eyelid.

Round here they are really hot on it. I have seen a barman ID someone who was two years above them at school and whose 18th they had been to. And they were being serious!

Evanivitch

26,438 posts

152 months

Wednesday 23rd December 2015
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Trax said:
Many people, including serving people in restruarants dont seem to realise this. Try telling a yound waitress that the 17 year old can have a pint of larger with his meal......

I know its a good few years since I held a Liquor License, but I had it on memory that a 17 year old could actually purchase a wine/lager/cider with the meal, aswell as having it bought for them. Though the link suggests it can only be bought for them.
Clearly not enough people have watched the inbetweeners.

SS2.

14,712 posts

268 months

Wednesday 23rd December 2015
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98elise said:
They were happy for the rest to stay, it was just my son they said couldn't be there without a parent.
Landlord's rules, by the sound of it.

The licensing laws don't mention 'a parent', they state that a child requires to be accompanied by a person aged 18 or over.

And a 'child' is defined as an individual aged under 16.



btcc123

1,243 posts

177 months

Wednesday 23rd December 2015
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When my son was 17 he went to pubs with his mates and always got served.When I asked him if they asked to see ID he said yes and showed me his passport on his phone,used an app and said he was 19.

aka_kerrly

12,506 posts

240 months

Wednesday 23rd December 2015
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RobinOakapple said:
Evanivitch said:
Landlord has the right to impose that policy on under 18s, especially if he suspects his friends will buy him alcohol.
yes

And he is wise to exercise that right.
The assumption that mates will buy him alcohol is a fair one but I can understand the OP's son's view especially if he was designated driver and had brought his mates to the bar in the first place.

Being born in August meant that I was one of the youngest in my school year so when plenty of my friends were 18 I was still someway off which obviously had a huge impact when it came to some events. Notably a few of us being rejected from the 6th form leaving party that was organised by the school social group to be held at a local clubrolleyes

It is quite frustrating that the rules for being in a bar can be rigid in that respect as it's not the case that you turn 18 and magically become capable of being a responsible drinker.....

Evanivitch

26,438 posts

152 months

Wednesday 23rd December 2015
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It's a relatively new development though, less than 10 years ago underage drinking (sensibly) was quite happily allowed. After 2 years of drinking there they even hosted my 18th birthday (council, I know). ...

MoggieMinor

471 posts

175 months

Wednesday 23rd December 2015
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To be honest I think that was better. As long as you behaved you were ok. If you didn't you were out, decent landlords kept tidy pubs and took no crap. At 16 or 17 you could be having a pint with your dad in your local. It taught you how to behave in pubs.

Now getting served in pubs at 17 is impossible. The licencees just dare not risk it. So now we have teenagers drinking cheap supermarket booze in parks, throwing bottles around.


northwest monkey

6,370 posts

219 months

Thursday 24th December 2015
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MoggieMinor said:
So now we have teenagers drinking cheap supermarket booze in parks, throwing bottles around.
Let's be honest, that's always been the case. I used to head on out at the age of 15/16 with 10 B&H and a 2 litre bottle of Strongbow on Friday & Saturday nights. This would have been about 26/27 years ago. There was one lad in our group who looked old enough to get served in the local off-license - I can only assume they thought he was an alcoholic as he went in about 3 or 4 times a night buying the dirtiest, nastiest, cheapest booze imaginablelaugh

And no, I wasn't a scrote (although I did own several shell suits) & neither was anyone I hung around with. It's just what happened as it had to people just a bit older than me (who could now go to the pub).