Paid for something I don't want.
Paid for something I don't want.
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anonymous-user

Original Poster:

84 months

Wednesday 2nd March 2016
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I made a mistake on eBay bought a fridge freezer for £40 by mistake though it was a fridge and freezer combo.

Explained to seller, he says its not his issue, but I advised would give him £5 for losses, which there would be none anyway. He is being stubborn, still won't relist and says I have to collect.

Paypal and ebay won't help, but my understanding is he can't keep my money for no reason.

Jonno02

2,262 posts

139 months

Wednesday 2nd March 2016
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You enter into a contract when purchasing. Need to be more careful.

surveyor_101

5,069 posts

209 months

Wednesday 2nd March 2016
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You enter into a contract when you bid. Unless the seller didn't describe it accurately?

Don't pay or collect and you will get an unpaid marker.

anonymous-user

Original Poster:

84 months

Wednesday 2nd March 2016
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Jonno02 said:
You enter into a contract when purchasing. Need to be more careful.
not sure if you understand contract law, but contracts can be broken, which I have done. The précis is, what can the seller claim for damages, my understanding is can relist and 'keep' the any difference if sold for less, but can't just keep money?

deckster

9,631 posts

285 months

Wednesday 2nd March 2016
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The Spruce goose said:
not sure if you understand contract law, but contracts can be broken, which I have done. The précis is, what can the seller claim for damages, my understanding is can relist and 'keep' the any difference if sold for less, but can't just keep money?
Not sure you understand contract law either. In what way have you broken the contract?

Contract was formed, you have paid, item is available for you to collect. It's entirely your prerogative if you choose not to collect it but the seller is under no obligation to give you anything back and frankly in his position I'd tell you to either collect or shut up as well.

Jonno02

2,262 posts

139 months

Wednesday 2nd March 2016
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The Spruce goose said:
not sure if you understand contract law, but contracts can be broken, which I have done. The précis is, what can the seller claim for damages, my understanding is can relist and 'keep' the any difference if sold for less, but can't just keep money?
Given your attitude on this, it's no wonder the seller is saying you collect or shut up. You probably blamed him saying he didn't understand eBay?

anonymous-user

Original Poster:

84 months

Wednesday 2nd March 2016
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Jonno02 said:
Given your attitude on this, it's no wonder the seller is saying you collect or shut up. You probably blamed him saying he didn't understand eBay?
what is the point of being so antagonistic, unless you are retarded I don't understand how you can put 2 and 2 together to make 6.

I haven't blamed anyone and said it was a mistake. Worst case he keeps my money but I am asking the question on here to see if there are other options. As I stated the seller has lost nothing....

(Just to keep the internet warriors at bay it wasn't actually for me which is why the mistake was made.)


Edited by The Spruce goose on Wednesday 2nd March 21:23

Huff

3,434 posts

221 months

Wednesday 2nd March 2016
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+1. You agreed to the offer, and so bought the item. It's yours and you owe the seller the agreed value - regardless of whether you choose to collect on your half of the contract (the item you've bought)

Whether you actually want the thing or not is entirely your problem. You own it. IT doesn tmatter it was on behalf of someone else, you 'made the contract'. You own it.

InitialDave

15,142 posts

149 months

Wednesday 2nd March 2016
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The Spruce goose said:
my understanding is he can't keep my money for no reason.
He's not. He's keeping your money because you bought a fridge freezer off him.

Boosted LS1

21,200 posts

290 months

Wednesday 2nd March 2016
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It's £40 FFS, you bought it. Donate it to a charity.

oldcynic

2,166 posts

191 months

Wednesday 2nd March 2016
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Have you paid him by PayPal?

If so then regardless of the moral high ground, you can file a dispute for non-delivery and reclaim your money. In fact you can even collect it and then file the non-delivery dispute as the seller will be unable to provide proof of a recognised courier delivery your item.

I'm surprised he's being so arsey - much simpler just to refund you and relist.

Huff

3,434 posts

221 months

Wednesday 2nd March 2016
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No - its bullst like this that made ebay+paypal such a pit of vipers and misery.

miniman

30,131 posts

292 months

Wednesday 2nd March 2016
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oldcynic said:
Have you paid him by PayPal?

If so then regardless of the moral high ground, you can file a dispute for non-delivery and reclaim your money. In fact you can even collect it and then file the non-delivery dispute as the seller will be unable to provide proof of a recognised courier delivery your item.

I'm surprised he's being so arsey - much simpler just to refund you and relist.
You're suggesting that the seller should be defrauded because his buyer didn't realise what he was buying? Good grief. As above, either collect it and give it to charity, or suck it up and walk away. If this story had been told the other way round, the consensus would have been to go to the buyer's house and hammer sausages into his lawn before bumming his dog.

anonymous-user

Original Poster:

84 months

Wednesday 2nd March 2016
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It was a mothers day present. (what a great person I am).

I will just let him keep it and do whatever he wants.

lbc

3,338 posts

247 months

Wednesday 2nd March 2016
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Pay for the item, then ask the seller for a refund as you can't collect it.

If the seller refuses refund then open a dispute with ebay and you get your money back.

littleredrooster

6,412 posts

226 months

Wednesday 2nd March 2016
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Huff said:
+1. You agreed to the offer, and so bought the item. It's yours and you owe the seller the agreed value - regardless of whether you choose to collect on your half of the contract (the item you've bought)

Whether you actually want the thing or not is entirely your problem. You own it. IT doesn tmatter it was on behalf of someone else, you 'made the contract'. You own it.
+another 1

I get sick to death of stupid tts who bid and buy for things that they haven't fully understood, or even fully read the the descriptions for. eBay is full of utterly gormless s.

OP - pay for the bd thing as per your legal duty and please don't bid for anything that I advertise!

anonymous-user

Original Poster:

84 months

Wednesday 2nd March 2016
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littleredrooster said:
+another 1

OP - pay for the bd thing as per your legal duty and please don't bid for anything that I advertise!
erm, as per what I have written, I have paid. o.k

No more needed on the thread, next time won't bother posting, too many people seem highly frustrated by little things.

Huff

3,434 posts

221 months

Wednesday 2nd March 2016
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lbc said:
Pay for the item, then ask the seller for a refund as you can't collect it.

If the seller refuses refund then open a dispute with ebay and you get your money back.
Thats another typical abuse that's made ebay and similar online sales a source of misery.

ziggy328

1,425 posts

244 months

Wednesday 2nd March 2016
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fk me what a great community spirit for an op who by his post count has contributed so much here and at the outset admitted he had made a mistake. Some people on here are just aholes for the sake of being aholes

essayer

10,410 posts

224 months

Wednesday 2nd March 2016
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There is very little comeback against you.
Just don't go and pick it up! What can he do?