Time for a breather methinks..................
Time for a breather methinks..................
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ca092003

Original Poster:

797 posts

267 months

Wednesday 2nd March 2005
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I've watched a few threads head in a direction I really don't like. I'm not going to get into specifics but I think it is not good that some people refuse to listen to other people's viewpoint.

I wonder what the point is of trying to have reasonable adult discussions when it is plain that some people will never change their mind no matter what the cirumstances.

So I have decided that I'm going to lurk only for a while.....When it is no longer fun, then it is time for a change.

My profile will remain active as will my linked email address.

JoolzB

3,549 posts

279 months

Wednesday 2nd March 2005
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Are you lurking at this current time?

Streetcop

5,907 posts

268 months

Wednesday 2nd March 2005
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ok..ca...I know where you're coming from..

chat soon..

Gareth

Don

28,378 posts

314 months

Wednesday 2nd March 2005
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ca092003 said:

I wonder what the point is of trying to have reasonable adult discussions when it is plain that some people will never change their mind no matter what the cirumstances.


Been reading fox-hunting threads again?

birdbrain

1,564 posts

269 months

Wednesday 2nd March 2005
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I can understand where you're coming from. Some of the stuff I've seen on here frustrates the hell out of me and makes me pace the floor and snarl "Some prat on PistonHeads said..." to my other half but then I think that it would be a boring world if everyone had the same opinion and if some people are unable to hold an adult debate then tough luck on them. It's those people that are so much the poorer for it, not you.

gh0st

4,693 posts

288 months

Wednesday 2nd March 2005
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Ah another "right thats it im off" poster... was wondering when we were due another one of those

Streetcop

5,907 posts

268 months

Thursday 3rd March 2005
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gh0st said:
Ah another "right thats it im off" poster... was wondering when we were due another one of those


How does it go?

"If you have nothing nice to say...."

autismuk

1,529 posts

270 months

Thursday 3rd March 2005
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Streetcop said:

gh0st said:
Ah another "right thats it im off" poster... was wondering when we were due another one of those



How does it go?

"If you have nothing nice to say...."


Join the Police Force ?

leosayer

7,829 posts

274 months

Thursday 3rd March 2005
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Well ca, it's a shame that you let 'some' people put you off posting. I enjoying reading your posts and even if I don't agree with them, they are food for thought.

If everyone agreed, what a boring place PH would be.

Streetcop

5,907 posts

268 months

Thursday 3rd March 2005
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autismuk said:

Streetcop said:


gh0st said:
Ah another "right thats it im off" poster... was wondering when we were due another one of those




How does it go?

"If you have nothing nice to say...."



Join the Police Force ?


Absolutely....

When do the police deliver good news?????

minimax

11,985 posts

286 months

Thursday 3rd March 2005
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Streetcop said:


autismuk said:



Streetcop said:




gh0st said:
Ah another "right thats it im off" poster... was wondering when we were due another one of those






How does it go?

"If you have nothing nice to say...."





Join the Police Force ?




Absolutely....

When do the police deliver good news?????



yesterday: "morning mr minimax, just wanted to say that the chav who ran in to your fists a few times after running a screwdriver down your car on monday evening has decided not to press charges"



=

edit: well it wasn't quite like that but you get the idea

>> Edited by minimax on Thursday 3rd March 10:31

gh0st

4,693 posts

288 months

Thursday 3rd March 2005
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autismuk said:

Streetcop said:


gh0st said:
Ah another "right thats it im off" poster... was wondering when we were due another one of those




How does it go?

"If you have nothing nice to say...."



Join the Police Force ?


Dibble

13,276 posts

270 months

Thursday 3rd March 2005
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It pains me to say it, but I'm feeling a bit like ca90210 as well - I certainly don't post as much as I used to.

Many of the threads on here seem to descend into the same old agruments, with the same old patricpants stating the same old points of view - from both "sides" of the divide.

Fat Audi 80

2,403 posts

281 months

Thursday 3rd March 2005
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Dibble said:
It pains me to say it, but I'm feeling a bit like ca90210 as well - I certainly don't post as much as I used to.

Many of the threads on here seem to descend into the same old agruments, with the same old patricpants stating the same old points of view - from both "sides" of the divide.




Lets keep to the lighthearted banter between BiB and MOP's...

Where's Gone with one of his Quiz's??

That'll cheer things up?



Cheers,

Steve.

gh0st

4,693 posts

288 months

Thursday 3rd March 2005
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Dibble said:
It pains me to say it, but I'm feeling a bit like ca90210 as well - I certainly don't post as much as I used to.

Many of the threads on here seem to descend into the same old agruments, with the same old patricpants stating the same old points of view - from both "sides" of the divide.


And it always will until one of the "sides" does something about it. This site is great for understanding what ails the public and what annoys the BiB.

New people come on and old people go etc. This adds to new viewpoints of debate. There is never a place for personal abuse on these forums and its sad when it goes that way, that is why you should never take it personally. They dont know you so how can it be personal?

If I took offense at every time someone said "IT support are crap" then I would probably not be in the job very long... I have a list of happy private and public clints which is getting longer by the day. They are having a go at the system NOT me personally.

Same goes for you guys - if you believe and know that you are better than the people and the system whom the threads are relating to, there is no problem no?




Gh0st

havoc

33,390 posts

265 months

Thursday 3rd March 2005
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I'm still fairly new here, and may not appreciate some of the dynamics, but compared to some other forums I can name (Single make, even single model), this place is a hotbed of variety, openness, and considerate posting...well, mostly.

I now very rarely visit my "first" forum due to the clique that has developed at the heart of it and who spend their time sniping at anyone with a different point of view.

GregE240

10,857 posts

297 months

Thursday 3rd March 2005
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I think unfortunately its too easy on here for some protagonists to point the finger at individuals, who aren't directly to blame. After all, being in the Force means you only uphold the law. Making it is nothing to do with the police, and you guys have my sympathy. Its not a job I could do, I simply do not have either the tolerance or the patience.

Its always a shame when the BiB on here get tarred with the same old brush. The recent thread about bad experiences with the police being such an example. Its the same as anything in life, people only remember the bad experiences, never the good.

You chaps have my deepest respect.

Greg

Streetcop

5,907 posts

268 months

Thursday 3rd March 2005
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GregE240 said:
I think unfortunately its too easy on here for some protagonists to point the finger at individuals, who aren't directly to blame. After all, being in the Force means you only uphold the law. Making it is nothing to do with the police, and you guys have my sympathy. Its not a job I could do, I simply do not have either the tolerance or the patience.

Its always a shame when the BiB on here get tarred with the same old brush. The recent thread about bad experiences with the police being such an example. Its the same as anything in life, people only remember the bad experiences, never the good.

You chaps have my deepest respect.

Greg




Nice post Greg...

I've just posted on another thread how the BiB bashing is ruining the forum....perhaps to everyone detriment....perhaps not...

Wacky Racer

41,352 posts

277 months

Thursday 3rd March 2005
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minimax said:

yesterday: "morning mr minimax, just wanted to say that the chav who ran in to your fists a few times after running a screwdriver down your car on monday evening has decided not to press charges"



So someone's keyed your Ginnetta then Tom??.....

Davel

8,982 posts

288 months

Thursday 3rd March 2005
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Everyone should be able to post their points of view, respect others' differing views, without the need to resort to insults and taunts!

Anyway don't lurk too long!