Corner shop ban on malicious customer?
Corner shop ban on malicious customer?
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Riley Blue

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23,205 posts

256 months

Tuesday 20th December 2016
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We have a nearby corner shop run by a Sri Lankan family who we have helped out from time to time understanding officialdom - form filling, that sort of thing. They're a really lovely family who go out of their way to help and look after the community, especially local OAPs. However, there is one old dear who is a bit batty but is malicious with it. She claimed some food was out of date though it was pointed out that was a a 'sell by' date with a day to run and she bought it (my O/H happened to be in the shop at this time). A few days later she returned, claiming eating it had made her ill and was going to report them but wouldn't if they gave her half a bottle of brandy - which they did, afraid of the trouble she might start.

Today, they found a freezer unplugged after she had been in and are checking their CCTV; they are convinced she did it.

My questions are: can they ban her from the shop? Can they put up a notice naming her and stating that she is banned?

They really don't deserve st like this, they've already been subject to vandalism and racial slurs, it makes my bood boil that some of the most hard working, kindest, thoughtful people I know should be victimised.

bitchstewie

67,985 posts

240 months

Tuesday 20th December 2016
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In simply so I can keep up with comments but my understanding is you can refuse to serve anyone you like so long as it isn't discriminatory.

Putting up a sign saying "Doris Smith is barred" is, I'm guessing, unacceptable.

Vaud

59,688 posts

185 months

Tuesday 20th December 2016
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bhstewie said:
In simply so I can keep up with comments but my understanding is you can refuse to serve anyone you like so long as it isn't discriminatory.

Putting up a sign saying "Doris Smith is barred" is, I'm guessing, unacceptable.
I can't see it being any different from a pub

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/libertyc...

dacouch

1,172 posts

159 months

Tuesday 20th December 2016
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You or they may enjoy watching this program I watched on BBC4 the other night about corner shops.


http://www.bbc.co.uk/iplayer/episode/b0864zn9/time...

popeyewhite

23,087 posts

150 months

Tuesday 20th December 2016
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bhstewie said:
In simply so I can keep up with comments but my understanding is you can refuse to serve anyone you like so long as it isn't discriminatory.

Putting up a sign saying "Doris Smith is barred" is, I'm guessing, unacceptable.
A couple of decades ago my local (like a few others) had a chalkboard displaying the names of those currently banned up in the entrance as you approached the bar. At one time my girlfriend was on the list. Quite rightly.


Ray Luxury-Yacht

8,918 posts

246 months

Tuesday 20th December 2016
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I owned a retail / service shop in a city centre for a while, and I happily banned two people in that time for being rude to my staff. That said, I didn't have their names and mugshots publicly displayed - that would probably be against the rules!

A shop, despite having an implied right of public access for obvious reasons, is still a privately-owned entity and as such, you would be withing your rights to not allow anyone in, as long as it isn't on the grounds of discrimination such as racist etc.


sonnenschein3000

733 posts

120 months

Tuesday 20th December 2016
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popeyewhite said:
At one time my girlfriend was on the list. Quite rightly.
What did she do?

popeyewhite

23,087 posts

150 months

Tuesday 20th December 2016
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sonnenschein3000 said:
What did she do?
Got loud, flashed her tits, sold drugs, bottled someone and was an overall PIA. Her ban allowed me to further my burgeoning career as a county/international darts player. Well,... I played one game for the pub team.

BlueHave

4,727 posts

138 months

Tuesday 20th December 2016
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Yes they can ban her for as long as they like.

Customers always have this misconception they are always right, that is false.

A shop might be open, it might have stock on the shelf and it might be priced. However the shop can choose not to sell you that if they wish.

Unless it's discrimination of course, which in this case it is not.

There is no contract, there is no legal right to buy the stock.

Riley Blue

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23,205 posts

256 months

Thursday 22nd December 2016
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Update: the old dear was banned after she hooked over a display with her walking stick. Apparently she's also been in the shop shouting that it smells of blood in there and last night someone covered the shop front in tomato soup. It looks like a restraining order may be needed.

JonV8V

8,186 posts

154 months

Thursday 22nd December 2016
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Riley Blue said:
Update: the old dear was banned after she hooked over a display with her walking stick. Apparently she's also been in the shop shouting that it smells of blood in there and last night someone covered the shop front in tomato soup. It looks like a restraining order may be needed.
Looks like she need sectioning not restraining.

hornetrider

63,161 posts

235 months

Thursday 22nd December 2016
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Tomato soup hehe

She sounds like a right old dragon.

CharlesdeGaulle

26,882 posts

210 months

Thursday 22nd December 2016
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Sounds as though she has mental illness or other problems - that's beyond nastiness. Hope the shopkeepers are OK - nothong worse than bigotry, whatever the cause.

Riley Blue

Original Poster:

23,205 posts

256 months

Thursday 22nd December 2016
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CharlesdeGaulle said:
Sounds as though she has mental illness or other problems - that's beyond nastiness. Hope the shopkeepers are OK - nothong worse than bigotry, whatever the cause.
The police have been involved so hopefully a friendly word will be sufficient to stop her being a nuisance in the future. It's ironic that the shop owners go out of their way to cater for OAPs only to be repaid in this way by one of them.

xjay1337

15,966 posts

148 months

Thursday 22nd December 2016
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Haha I'm calling custard.

Fastpedeller

4,367 posts

176 months

Thursday 22nd December 2016
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idea Well the Police shouldn't have any trouble finding her, as we all know her name is Doris Smith

Riley Blue

Original Poster:

23,205 posts

256 months

Thursday 22nd December 2016
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xjay1337 said:
Haha I'm calling custard.
I'm not waiting outside a cornershop over Christmas, custard in hand, just for you so you can call until you're hoarse...

Nickyboy

6,825 posts

264 months

Thursday 22nd December 2016
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popeyewhite said:
Got loud, flashed her tits, sold drugs, bottled someone and was an overall PIA. Her ban allowed me to further my burgeoning career as a county/international darts player. Well,... I played one game for the pub team.
Sounds like most girls on a Saturday night in town

eldar

25,294 posts

226 months

Thursday 22nd December 2016
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xjay1337 said:
Haha I'm calling custard.
Interesting euphemism. Old lady fetish?

mebe

292 posts

173 months

Thursday 22nd December 2016
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eldar said:
Interesting euphemism. Old lady fetish?
Hats off to the Sir, disgusting and funny!