Divorce curiosity
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HedgeyGedgey

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1,320 posts

124 months

Tuesday 16th January 2018
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Slightly odd and strange topic.
Right my Auntie and uncle have been separated for a few years now (there's a funny loop in our family tree, my dads sister married my mums brother laugh) they both moved on to new people living at opposite ends of the country. But not divorced, we're not entirely sure why they never got divorced. Now, due to family deaths, there was a large estate that my uncle got left a large portion of. Funnily enough, as soon as my Auntie heard that this estate exists, she's now thinking of filint for divorce as theres circ. £500k+ there. Now what would happen if she did that, is she entitled to that cash or a portion of it? Or is there a clause that separates his assests to his inheritance? Before anyone says, I'm on my uncles side because its pretty disgusting shes now filed for divorce now she knows theres money there
Thanks

cat with a hat

1,488 posts

148 months

Tuesday 16th January 2018
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Sounds like he's fked to be honest...

You not worried it runs in the family? hehe

Amateurish

8,280 posts

252 months

Tuesday 16th January 2018
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Your uncle should see a solicitor pronto.

HedgeyGedgey

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1,320 posts

124 months

Tuesday 16th January 2018
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Ahhhhhh, thats not what i wanted to hear. I dont know how anyone can be like that tbh, but we all know women are just the devil's work

MYOB

5,126 posts

168 months

Tuesday 16th January 2018
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Hopefully they can resolve matters between themselves first without the need of escalating through the courts.

I suspect the aunty will be allowed some of the estate but no-one here can give a definitive answer with regards to the amount.

PurpleMoonlight

22,362 posts

187 months

Tuesday 16th January 2018
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The bhes don't always get everything they want.

My father died during the course of my divorce (after Form E completed). Her solicitor even got a copy of the Will. The judge was having none of it.

Amateurish

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252 months

Tuesday 16th January 2018
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MYOB said:
Hopefully they can resolve matters between themselves first without the need of escalating through the courts.

I suspect the aunty will be allowed some of the estate but no-one here can give a definitive answer with regards to the amount.
Going to a solicitor doesn't mean going to the courts. It just means that the uncle needs proper legal advice on what his poisition is. Does he want to get divorced?

MYOB

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168 months

Tuesday 16th January 2018
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Amateurish said:
Going to a solicitor doesn't mean going to the courts. It just means that the uncle needs proper legal advice on what his poisition is. Does he want to get divorced?
I didn't say that did I. I can imagine in this scenario that this could end up going to Court if there's a dispute.

Solicitor are helpful if there's goodwill on both sides.

HedgeyGedgey

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124 months

Tuesday 16th January 2018
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We're not entirely sure what exactly happened between them tbh, whether one wanted the divorce or not. But theres definitely a lot of tension and disputes there, they'd never sit in the same room as each other put it that way. Not liking the idea of her going after the cash as you can tell haha

Amateurish

8,280 posts

252 months

Tuesday 16th January 2018
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If she has filed for divorce and will be claiming a portion of his assets, including a £500k inheritance, then I don't know why you wouldn't get proper legal advice.

Aretnap

1,969 posts

181 months

Tuesday 16th January 2018
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Some guidance here which seems to suggest that Auntie probably won't be entitled to much, if any, of the inheritance (unless there are circumstances which you haven't mentioned, eg she's living in poverty with their dependant children). But Uncle should get proper legal advice.

https://www.bbc-law.co.uk/legal-news/inheritance-a...

Alucidnation

16,810 posts

200 months

Tuesday 16th January 2018
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Ah, OP's main concern is his portion of the loot.

HedgeyGedgey

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Tuesday 16th January 2018
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Alucidnation said:
Ah, OP's main concern is his portion of the loot.
Naaaaah, that just my uncles share. Mines all safe and sound thumbup

cootuk

918 posts

153 months

Tuesday 16th January 2018
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A decent solicitor could argue that the wealth has been acquired long after separation and didn't depend on her support.
Did she get any previous payout?

HedgeyGedgey

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Tuesday 16th January 2018
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cootuk said:
A decent solicitor could argue that the wealth has been acquired long after separation and didn't depend on her support.
Did she get any previous payout?
Nope, no payments or anything. Father has custody of child, mainly due to childs choice wanting to stay put and keep his friends etc

Starfighter

5,348 posts

208 months

Tuesday 16th January 2018
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Sign the money over to a trust for the children?

Amateurish

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252 months

Tuesday 16th January 2018
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bodhi808

211 posts

209 months

Tuesday 16th January 2018
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Is your dad on good terms with his sister?
It might be worth him having a word and suggesting that she stop being a bit of a tt?

MYOB

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Tuesday 16th January 2018
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Amateurish said:
Yes, if you subscribe to the FT biggrin

Amateurish

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Tuesday 16th January 2018
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MYOB said:
Yes, if you subscribe to the FT biggrin
Wierd, it worked for me and I'm not a subscriber...