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Largechris

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2,019 posts

120 months

Wednesday 23rd February 2022
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Its not my first time being involved in civil court matters, never really had any problem with previous judges, they’ve always seemed very switched on and make reasonable accommodation as I always represent myself.

I’m taking a previous employer to tribunal for unfair dismissal. All to be done over phone and video conference. Just had a one hour preliminary phone conference with the judge and the Respondent to sort out the agenda, disclosure, witness list etc.

The Judge started off on the phone whingeing that he’d never been so busy since he retired two years earlier (presumably brought back in to help out because of Covid and the backlogs etc). Went downhill from there.

I’d made limited requests for disclosure from the Respondent about specific management conversations “can’t do that, No no no”. The phone line wasn’t brilliant (I always called him Sir of course), I had to ask him to repeat himself once, which he got upset about.

He made some odd snap rulings and just came across as, frankly, biased and grumpy. I don’t think my case is too badly hurt right now but if he carries on like this in the full hearing then my case is going to take a hit.

Is there anything I can do about this, I know I can’t make complaints about his rulings, but his conduct was pretty poor.

KAgantua

5,162 posts

160 months

Wednesday 23rd February 2022
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My partner was involved in something similar late last year.

The court system is inefficient, slow and lossy.

The hearings themselves are exactly as you describe.

Nice work if you can get it. Wish I could be grumpy with my customers!

mmm-five

12,325 posts

313 months

Wednesday 23rd February 2022
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KAgantua said:
Wish I could be grumpy with my customers!
You can, but you know you'll lose cusomers.

He can, and knows he won't lose any customers.

LordBretSinclair

4,306 posts

206 months

Wednesday 23rd February 2022
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Have you never had a bad day ??????????

AngryPartsBloke

1,439 posts

180 months

Wednesday 23rd February 2022
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LordBretSinclair said:
Have you never had a bad day ??????????
I work in an office and so the impact of my bad day on other people's lives is pretty small. I think it is fair to say others have a Job or role in society that comes with a level of responsibility and a potential impact on others meaning they surely have a duty to not let a 'bad day' impact it.



jondude

2,441 posts

246 months

Wednesday 23rd February 2022
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A judge does not by default give the right decision but he/she gives a decision. As they are human, it is up to you to win the judge to your side. Not saying you were so but did you perhaps come across as arrogant or rude? If so you risk losing even if your case is rock solid.

Judges give decisions, not necessarily justice.

As a kid I could never understand why in the US so, so much time and energy was given to choice of court and the jury set up. But over time you realise they do this as they want a sympathetic or even openly biased to their case judge and jury.

Anyhow my point is you must learn how to deal with this judge to your benefit. Think it all through and judge (sorry..) your own performance, manners and ways of talking.

(Maybe this time your opponent beat you to it)

Largechris

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2,019 posts

120 months

Wednesday 23rd February 2022
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jondude said:
A judge does not by default give the right decision but he/she gives a decision. As they are human, it is up to you to win the judge to your side. Not saying you were so but did you perhaps come across as arrogant or rude? If so you risk losing even if your case is rock solid.

Judges give decisions, not necessarily justice.

As a kid I could never understand why in the US so, so much time and energy was given to choice of court and the jury set up. But over time you realise they do this as they want a sympathetic or even openly biased to their case judge and jury.

Anyhow my point is you must learn how to deal with this judge to your benefit. Think it all through and judge (sorry..) your own performance, manners and ways of talking.

(Maybe this time your opponent beat you to it)
Yes, I realise that, but when the judge starts off grumpy before I’ve spoken a word… that’s my point. As I say, not had this problem with other judges so I’m inclined to believe it’s him rather than me.

Is there anything practical I can do about it, can I request a change of judge etc.

CostaBrava1972

155 posts

81 months

Wednesday 23rd February 2022
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There's a big difference between proper judges sitting in the courts, and those more varied folk who sit on tribunals - or an Employment Tribunal, as here. People who also - by definition - occupy the bottom rungs of our judicial hierarchy.

In my experience, that reality can quite often be reflected in the errant behaviour sometimes displayed by some tribunal chairpersons, something which I personally think is wrong. Why they can - for instance - fall victim to a serious occupational disease generally known in the trade as 'Judgeitis'.

It's symptoms/causation may derive from a combination of overwork; vanity and boredom; or else from working in a shabby 'bubble'; but they sometimes also involve an undue willingness to show maverick, offensive or partisan behaviour in court, unbefitting of a judge. (I cannot of course speak about/to the OP's original claimed-experience, of which I know nothing...)

Symptoms only exacerbated by government cuts and that (relatively-new) Alice-In-Wonderland entity specifically created by government to preside over their creation of this whole sorry mess: namely HMCTS ('Her Majesty's Courts & Tribunals Service'). An organisation which, in meek pursuit of such dirty work for government, has cravenly closed some 250-300 local court centres over the last decade.See, for instance:

https://questions-statements.parliament.uk/written...

We might not all be court-users, nor have experienced our access to justice denied; but as the taxpayers who pay so much for such a large-scale retreat from local justice, we should all still be feeling very upset indeed about this total mess they've created. Which, if nothing else, must also add to whatever daily stress is already being experienced by those few surviving mainstays of the local justice system (like the unfortunate chairperson described) whose errant behaviour (as alleged above) may be just another consequence of this country's decade-long flight from justice.

"Which is also why - personally - I always tried to avoid appearing in any cases which involved an employment tribunal..." (added the White Rabbit, to close it).

donkmeister

12,837 posts

129 months

Wednesday 23rd February 2022
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Largechris said:
Yes, I realise that, but when the judge starts off grumpy before I’ve spoken a word… that’s my point. As I say, not had this problem with other judges so I’m inclined to believe it’s him rather than me.

Is there anything practical I can do about it, can I request a change of judge etc.
I've not met every judge. Far from it. However the few judges I have met have three things in common:
1) an interest in a fair outcome
2) a massive disdain for arrogance
3) a superhuman ability to spot BS.

So... Have a really self-critical think about if you did anything that to a third party could come under 2 or 3, either in any paperwork you submitted or anything you said.

You know what your employers did because you were there, but he wasn't. The important thing is to be factual and if in doubt, explain why things are a big deal. If he thinks you're taking something minor but construing it as something major then that's going to rub him up the wrong way before you even see him.

CraigyMc

18,369 posts

265 months

Wednesday 23rd February 2022
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donkmeister said:
Largechris said:
Yes, I realise that, but when the judge starts off grumpy before I’ve spoken a word… that’s my point. As I say, not had this problem with other judges so I’m inclined to believe it’s him rather than me.

Is there anything practical I can do about it, can I request a change of judge etc.
I've not met every judge. Far from it. However the few judges I have met have three things in common:
1) an interest in a fair outcome
2) a massive disdain for arrogance
3) a superhuman ability to spot BS.

So... Have a really self-critical think about if you did anything that to a third party could come under 2 or 3, either in any paperwork you submitted or anything you said.

You know what your employers did because you were there, but he wasn't. The important thing is to be factual and if in doubt, explain why things are a big deal. If he thinks you're taking something minor but construing it as something major then that's going to rub him up the wrong way before you even see him.
Nothing to add other than this is one of the best advice posts I've seen on PH in a while.

hyphen

26,262 posts

119 months

Wednesday 23rd February 2022
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Largechris said:
Yes, I realise that, but when the judge starts off grumpy before I’ve spoken a word… that’s my point. As I say, not had this problem with other judges so I’m inclined to believe it’s him rather than me.

Is there anything practical I can do about it, can I request a change of judge etc.
There is a time limit about making a complaint about a judges case conduct.

Are you going to appeal the decision to deny you the disclosure you requested?

Largechris

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2,019 posts

120 months

Wednesday 23rd February 2022
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hyphen said:
Largechris said:
Yes, I realise that, but when the judge starts off grumpy before I’ve spoken a word… that’s my point. As I say, not had this problem with other judges so I’m inclined to believe it’s him rather than me.

Is there anything practical I can do about it, can I request a change of judge etc.
There is a time limit about making a complaint about a judges case conduct.

Are you going to appeal the decision to deny you the disclosure you requested?
That’s the sort of thing I’m asking really. Can I appeal his decision on the disclosure?

Largechris

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2,019 posts

120 months

Wednesday 23rd February 2022
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donkmeister said:
Largechris said:
Yes, I realise that, but when the judge starts off grumpy before I’ve spoken a word… that’s my point. As I say, not had this problem with other judges so I’m inclined to believe it’s him rather than me.

Is there anything practical I can do about it, can I request a change of judge etc.
I've not met every judge. Far from it. However the few judges I have met have three things in common:
1) an interest in a fair outcome
2) a massive disdain for arrogance
3) a superhuman ability to spot BS.

So... Have a really self-critical think about if you did anything that to a third party could come under 2 or 3, either in any paperwork you submitted or anything you said.

You know what your employers did because you were there, but he wasn't. The important thing is to be factual and if in doubt, explain why things are a big deal. If he thinks you're taking something minor but construing it as something major then that's going to rub him up the wrong way before you even see him.
I’ve tried to describe the meeting fairly, as I say I’ve dealt with other judges and found them much as you described. Losing your temper because you’ve been asked politely to repeat yourself over a poor phone line, come on, that’s not on me.

Panamax

9,630 posts

63 months

Wednesday 23rd February 2022
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Largechris said:
Just had a one hour preliminary phone conference with the judge and the Respondent to sort out the agenda, disclosure, witness list etc.
That's a l-o-n-g phone call.

Largechris said:
I’d made limited requests for disclosure from the Respondent about specific management conversations...
What sort of things were to trying to have disclosed? Tribunal hearings generally focus on proper procedure, what was actually said/communicated to you and anything significant from other witnesses. Sounds as though you may have been attempting a "fishing expedition", which wouldn't be permitted.

Largechris

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2,019 posts

120 months

Wednesday 23rd February 2022
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Panamax said:
Largechris said:
Just had a one hour preliminary phone conference with the judge and the Respondent to sort out the agenda, disclosure, witness list etc.
That's a l-o-n-g phone call.

Largechris said:
I’d made limited requests for disclosure from the Respondent about specific management conversations...
What sort of things were to trying to have disclosed? Tribunal hearings generally focus on proper procedure, what was actually said/communicated to you and anything significant from other witnesses. Sounds as though you may have been attempting a "fishing expedition", which wouldn't be permitted.
There was a specific very short email message about making me redundant disclosed between two managers which ended with “let’s discuss tomorrow”. I asked for disclosure of what they discussed “tomorrow”. Can’t see how that’s fishing?

LimaDelta

8,431 posts

247 months

Wednesday 23rd February 2022
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Maybe he read your contributions to the F-35 thread?

The Mad Monk

11,452 posts

146 months

Wednesday 23rd February 2022
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Largechris said:
Its not my first time being involved in civil court matters, never really had any problem with previous judges, they’ve always seemed very switched on and make reasonable accommodation as I always represent myself.

I’m taking a previous employer to tribunal for unfair dismissal. All to be done over phone and video conference. Just had a one hour preliminary phone conference with the judge and the Respondent to sort out the agenda, disclosure, witness list etc.

The Judge started off on the phone whingeing that he’d never been so busy since he retired two years earlier (presumably brought back in to help out because of Covid and the backlogs etc). Went downhill from there.

I’d made limited requests for disclosure from the Respondent about specific management conversations “can’t do that, No no no”. The phone line wasn’t brilliant (I always called him Sir of course), I had to ask him to repeat himself once, which he got upset about.

He made some odd snap rulings and just came across as, frankly, biased and grumpy. I don’t think my case is too badly hurt right now but if he carries on like this in the full hearing then my case is going to take a hit.

Is there anything I can do about this, I know I can’t make complaints about his rulings, but his conduct was pretty poor.
How did the allegation of rudeness actually manifest itself?

Did he say e.g. "you are stupid"?

Largechris

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2,019 posts

120 months

Wednesday 23rd February 2022
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The Mad Monk said:
Largechris said:
Its not my first time being involved in civil court matters, never really had any problem with previous judges, they’ve always seemed very switched on and make reasonable accommodation as I always represent myself.

I’m taking a previous employer to tribunal for unfair dismissal. All to be done over phone and video conference. Just had a one hour preliminary phone conference with the judge and the Respondent to sort out the agenda, disclosure, witness list etc.

The Judge started off on the phone whingeing that he’d never been so busy since he retired two years earlier (presumably brought back in to help out because of Covid and the backlogs etc). Went downhill from there.

I’d made limited requests for disclosure from the Respondent about specific management conversations “can’t do that, No no no”. The phone line wasn’t brilliant (I always called him Sir of course), I had to ask him to repeat himself once, which he got upset about.

He made some odd snap rulings and just came across as, frankly, biased and grumpy. I don’t think my case is too badly hurt right now but if he carries on like this in the full hearing then my case is going to take a hit.

Is there anything I can do about this, I know I can’t make complaints about his rulings, but his conduct was pretty poor.
How did the allegation of rudeness actually manifest itself?

Did he say e.g. "you are stupid"?
As in… when I asked him to repeat himself “I’ve just said that, harrumph”

As in….”no no no” when one “no” would have sufficed

As in….refusing to clarify the title of a document he was referring to


Mojooo

13,291 posts

209 months

Wednesday 23rd February 2022
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I had a civil dispute over building work - the whole process took forever and we must have had hearings with 6 or 7 different Judges - the trial judge even overruled some of the decisions made by the previous Judges

A couple of them were grumpy fks who I thought made silly decisions - luckily some were overruled.


TonyF1

236 posts

81 months

Tuesday 1st March 2022
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He’s probably still aggrieved at losing his golf kit grumpy. Bufferfly effect and all that.