Attempted break in
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Ruskie

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4,361 posts

222 months

Friday 13th October 2023
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3am, the dog growled waking me. I looked out of window to see a man standing guard near the road. Then I heard the front door being rattled. I opened the window and shouted. Two more appeared to make four people in total trying to get in. They ran off, but they have planted that seed of fear. Utter, utter bds. The violation of not feeling safe in your own home makes you feel powerless. I presume they came for the car. The car will be going and some bland replacement sort.

No real point. You have my sympathy if you have been through something similar, or worse. Going to bed with a weapon and trainers next to the bed in case they come back. Grim.

FMOB

1,994 posts

34 months

Friday 13th October 2023
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Ruskie said:
3am, the dog growled waking me. I looked out of window to see a man standing guard near the road. Then I heard the front door being rattled. I opened the window and shouted. Two more appeared to make four people in total trying to get in. They ran off, but they have planted that seed of fear. Utter, utter bds. The violation of not feeling safe in your own home makes you feel powerless. I presume they came for the car. The car will be going and some bland replacement sort.

No real point. You have my sympathy if you have been through something similar, or worse. Going to bed with a weapon and trainers next to the bed in case they come back. Grim.
Have you reported it to the Police so they know what happened?

Ruskie

Original Poster:

4,361 posts

222 months

Friday 13th October 2023
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Yeah I have, they have been helpful, but limited in what they can do, understandably.

Mars

9,856 posts

236 months

Friday 13th October 2023
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Take pictures - video if you can

119

16,627 posts

58 months

Friday 13th October 2023
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Mars said:
Take pictures - video if you can
Maybe you could advise the OP on time travel.

craig511

490 posts

132 months

Saturday 14th October 2023
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1/ install gates to act as a physical barrier. Hopefully the next ones see them and keep walking to find an easier target.
2/ PIR flood lights.
3/ if you get a ring door bell, you can set it to detect people and then your phone.
4/ House Alarm.

If you have a nice car and a garage, use the garage for the car.

Hope this helps.

Marc p

1,124 posts

164 months

Saturday 14th October 2023
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Just make sure you dominate the stairs and you’re all good!biggrin

On a serious note, it can have an unnerving effect, a few years ago, I’d fallen asleep on the couch and got woken up by would be burglars in balaclavas shining torches in though the patio doors, however, after seeing me, they just ran off.
Now I do tend to have a rather nonchalant attitude to things, so it didn’t effect me too much, but I did install an alarm system with Ring camera’s and security lights afterwards and also have my downstairs curtains set to close on a nighttime in an attempt to make sure it didn’t happen again(which 5 years later, it hasn’t).

LosingGrip

8,601 posts

181 months

Saturday 14th October 2023
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There are little things that you can do to make your house less of a target, but ultimately if they want to get in, they will.

Personally I'd be looking at other things before cameras. A hood or something stops it being worth anything. And CCTV at night is ste normally. If you do get it, Ring is surprising good for the price or Nest. But put them at head height for door bells so you may get a face shot. CCTV up high just gives you a few of any bald patch they may have.

Alarms on doors/windows.
Gravel around windows/driveway (makes noise which they don't like).
Lights on sensors outside.
If you are out lights/TV on timers. Gives am impression someone is in.
Doors locked always. Even if you are home. Windows shut if you aren't in the room.

Personally I'd leave keys for cars away from doors/windows but not hidden in draws etc. If someone is breaking in for the keys, I'd rather they just took thr car than ransacked the house and attacked someone inside to get them.

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If it happens again. 999 straight away. As much as police get a bashing for not attending burglaries. Offenders on we all love and will be blue lighting it from all over.

Jamescrs

5,809 posts

87 months

Saturday 14th October 2023
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Sorry to hear OP been through it myself nearly 5 years ago but they got into.my house and stole my Audi A4.

I'm still paranoid now and my house has had a lot of security added over the years in-between including replacing the whole doors and locks.

fourstardan

6,158 posts

166 months

Saturday 14th October 2023
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Sorry to hear this OP, I got burgled a few years ago, my grandfather had passed away in the morning and we went for a drive to clear the heads and came home to nothing, no car stolen as I was in it but given them the chance it would had been gone.

Nothing will be done by Police but I'd raise it with them non emergency to ensure they know its occurred as they may had done others.

Also, I'd be getting your best friend the biggest bone going today, he did a great job here.

Vasco

18,009 posts

127 months

Saturday 14th October 2023
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What part of the country are we talking about (albeit I realise it's a common problem in many places) ?

Evanivitch

25,668 posts

144 months

Saturday 14th October 2023
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I repeat the same advice on every thread like this because people often recommend deterrents and not actual security improvements.

Check your locks. Are they eurocylinders? Are they anti snap, anti-bump 3* rated? Are your handles 2 star rated?

Check your glass. French doors are made of toughened glass which means it crumbles. Replace with laminated glass along with any windows adjacent to doors.

Upgrade any UPVC doors to decent colid composite doors. Avoid letter boxes of you can. And don't leave keys in the back of doors that can be reached through letter and pet flaps!

Cameras and lights are often quick and easy but are also relatively easily avoided.

paradigital

1,070 posts

174 months

Saturday 14th October 2023
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LosingGrip said:
CCTV at night is ste normally.
If you installed it in the 90s, sure.

If you installed even middling to cheap stuff in the last 5-10 years it’ll be more than good enough at night.

My ReoLink cameras recording to Synology Surveillance Station was cheap (£300 for 3 cameras with enough storage for 2-months of recording retention), but the quality even at night is great. And as I’ve wired it directly through the walls of the garage, they are at a suitable height without being susceptible to attack.

The only lighting there is whatever is in the surrounding area, plus the infrared of the two cameras.



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Edited by paradigital on Saturday 14th October 08:25

megaphone

11,443 posts

273 months

Saturday 14th October 2023
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CCTV is only really a deterrent though, or a nice record of unidentifiable scroats nicking you stuff.

I have a nice 20 mins of video from my CCTV showing my neighbour's car being nicked off his drive, lots of figures in balaclavas and dark clothes, only real help was with numbers of scum and timing. His car was never found. (BMW, so nothing special)

FMOB

1,994 posts

34 months

Saturday 14th October 2023
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Evanivitch said:
I repeat the same advice on every thread like this because people often recommend deterrents and not actual security improvements.

Check your glass. French doors are made of toughened glass which means it crumbles. Replace with laminated glass along with any windows adjacent to doors.
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I would be a little careful with things like laminated glass which is harder to break as it can also hinder your escape in an emergency, overall security is a balance between keeping the unwanted out but also keeping your ability to get out in an emergency.

I would have no hesitation throwing something through a window to get out in an emergency if necessary.

I had a lock fail to operate leaving me locked out of the house, when discussing the rating the new lock with the locksmith, his view was too much security looks like you have something to protect and therefore possibly worth a go. I take the view that making the property higher a risk of being seen, etc than next doors is the best approach because if the want in, they will get in.

Material possions can be replaced, people can't be.

LosingGrip

8,601 posts

181 months

Saturday 14th October 2023
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paradigital said:
If you installed it in the 90s, sure.

If you installed even middling to cheap stuff in the last 5-10 years it’ll be more than good enough at night.

My ReoLink cameras recording to Synology Surveillance Station was cheap (£300 for 3 cameras with enough storage for 2-months of recording retention), but the quality even at night is great. And as I’ve wired it directly through the walls of the garage, they are at a suitable height without being susceptible to attack.

The only lighting there is whatever is in the surrounding area, plus the infrared of the two cameras.



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Edited by paradigital on Saturday 14th October 08:25
That is a lot better than I've seen lately at work!

Evanivitch

25,668 posts

144 months

Saturday 14th October 2023
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FMOB said:
I would be a little careful with things like laminated glass which is harder to break as it can also hinder your escape in an emergency, overall security is a balance between keeping the unwanted out but also keeping your ability to get out in an emergency.
Whilst I agree, at no point should your escape route involve smashing glass to exit your home.

FMOB said:
I had a lock fail to operate leaving me locked out of the house, when discussing the rating the new lock with the locksmith, his view was too much security looks like you have something to protect and therefore possibly worth a go. I take the view that making the property higher a risk of being seen, etc than next doors is the best approach because if the want in, they will get in.
At a glance a composite door, good locks and laminate glass look the same as the poorer alternatives.

We don't have flash cars on the driveway, a 5-foot house number, grey uPVC or AstroTurf so I guess we look like beggars.

Actual

1,547 posts

128 months

Saturday 14th October 2023
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craig511 said:
3/ if you get a ring door bell, you can set it to detect people and then your phone.
We have PIR lights on our drive which illuminate for any movement on the drive but our most useful security deterrent is our Ring Doorbell and Ring Chime.

The Ring Doorbell is on the front door and the Chime is plugged into a mains socket in the hall. The camera on the Ring Doorbell detects movement on the drive day and night and this causes the Ring Chime to make a windchime sound which at maximum volume can heard all around the house and is easily audible from outside so anyone approaching knows that they have been recorded. The recording of the detected motion is uploaded to the Cloud for storage and retrieval. The motion detection also alerts me on my phone.


Evanivitch

25,668 posts

144 months

Saturday 14th October 2023
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paradigital said:
LosingGrip said:
CCTV at night is ste normally.
If you installed it in the 90s, sure.

If you installed even middling to cheap stuff in the last 5-10 years it’ll be more than good enough at night.

My ReoLink cameras recording to Synology Surveillance Station was cheap (£300 for 3 cameras with enough storage for 2-months of recording retention), but the quality even at night is great. And as I’ve wired it directly through the walls of the garage, they are at a suitable height without being susceptible to attack.

The only lighting there is whatever is in the surrounding area, plus the infrared of the two cameras.



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Edited by paradigital on Saturday 14th October 08:25
CCTV is much better at night these days, but also very easy to conceal yourself from as most can be duped with some simple IR saturation techniques that either mess with the white balance or cause the IR illumination to switch off.

Griffith4ever

6,237 posts

57 months

Saturday 14th October 2023
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Ruskie said:
3am, the dog growled waking me. I looked out of window to see a man standing guard near the road. Then I heard the front door being rattled. I opened the window and shouted. Two more appeared to make four people in total trying to get in. They ran off, but they have planted that seed of fear. Utter, utter bds. The violation of not feeling safe in your own home makes you feel powerless. I presume they came for the car. The car will be going and some bland replacement sort.

No real point. You have my sympathy if you have been through something similar, or worse. Going to bed with a weapon and trainers next to the bed in case they come back. Grim.
One thing I can tell you is those feelings will go away after a few weeks (not the resentment/hate - I never lost those feelings - I used to visualise taking out the little fkers with a scoped rifle for a long while after one particular run in with theives, but you will feel safe again after a while. I've had someone/s come through a downstairs window, and leave via the front door whilst asleep, and also caught 4 lads in the act of stealing a scooter (who challenged me to stop them and laughed at me). Moving out of SE London solved all crime issues for me, but, I lived there happily for 10 years and soon stopped worring about the burglaries after the events. Really struggled to sleep for a while and the slightest of noise would have me up with a kitchen knife in hand. It passes eventually.