At it again

[carob]

See he has been up to his old tricks again on the car club forum. Never fails to amaze me.... I suppose his spy will report this back to him, as he drops in here a few times a day to report back to him.... What a role that is eh..

Rob

[mrzigazaga]

Totally sad mate..I think i will terminate my membership!

[carob]

Yes I to am considering terminating mine too.

It is very sad indeed.

Rob

[JVaughan]

Dropped my membership

[Jack Valiant]

After 14 years I have dropped my membership and written to the editor about this issue he cannot help himself

Chris

[Adrian@]

At what, who, where, when...lol
Adrian@

[V8 GRF]

It has been dealt with. Someone else did however add fuel to the fire.

[carob]

It will never be dealt with.... Most people are sick to the back teeth of this individuals attitude. He steamrolled this forum until people stood up to him and his ways, and he has done the same on the club forum, I for one also resist posting there because of this person.

Rob

[GV]

Let me guess who...perhaps he needs therapy and does not realize it!

[KKson]

One annoying individual is not going to put me off the TVR CC. The Sprint magazine is always an interesting read and now that I've found the local group I'm intending to have some regular meet ups. Each to his or her own.

[V8 GRF]

carob said:

It will never be dealt with.... Most people are sick to the back teeth of this individuals attitude. He steamrolled this forum until people stood up to him and his ways, and he has done the same on the club forum, I for one also resist posting there because of this person. Rob

KKson said:

One annoying individual is not going to put me off the TVR CC. The Sprint magazine is always an interesting read and now that I've found the local group I'm intending to have some regular meet ups. Each to his or her own.

I think the above post is the way to deal with it.

No one's 'steamroling' anyone in the TVRCC forum, mostly because few people post in the Wedge forums there (a shame but that's how it is these days) and that was the case before the individual in question started posting there regularly.

If you don't like someone's attitude them either call them out on it in a civil manner and don't be drawn into slanging matches as no one wins. That's the way to deal with bullies in all walks of life, then they either back down or are shown up for what they are.

We're all entitled to our opinions and they frequently differ, if we all thought the same then the world would be a pretty dull place that said if you back down or allow them to 'scare' you off then they've won.

Stand your ground in reasonable language and then it makes interesting reading for all.

[carob]

Called out many times in the past, and this individual just move son to his next victim.

Also ask yourself why no-one NOW posts on there.... I am going to withdraw my membership as a result of this constant bullst. Part of the reason I sold my last wedge partly was because of this person antics.


Rob

[V8 GRF]

carob said:

Called out many times in the past, and this individual just move son to his next victim.

Also ask yourself why no-one NOW posts on there.... I am going to withdraw my membership as a result of this constant bullst. Part of the reason I sold my last wedge partly was because of this person antics.


Rob

As I said very few people posted on there before it's nothing to do with any one individual.

Shame that you'll let one person drive you away though, that's your decision obviously but letting one individual get under your skin to the point of selling your car seems extreme to me. It's easy enough to avoid someone, there are plenty of events where the atmosphere isn't dominated by one person.

[carob]

Mail sent to TVRCC to the effects of Membership not being renewed.

Rob

[mrzigazaga]

Hi Guys...I feel like i should apologise as this behaviour reflects on us all and if its tearing us apart then it shouldn't..If anything it should bring us closer together..99.9% of Wedge owners that i have met are good honest decent folk who are generous, Kind and always made me feel welcome.

Im just being myself and it pains me to be accused of being manipulative..The centre of attention..Which to be frank is a bit hard when i have just nearly got over a twenty year bout of agoraphobia! ...Also being accused of bodging my Wedges on a shoestring..Passing out bad information that is responsible for the decline in Wedge numbers and only receiving the wedge personality award because no-one else was put forward...This doesn't help me and i sometimes feel that maybe it would be better if i called it a day.

They say one bad apple don't spoil the whole bunch..Well I'm afraid it does if you bite into it first!...All i have ever done is try to bring a bit of sunshine to a cloudy day...Not sure what I'm going to do now....Thanks for all your support...Ziga

[carob]

Not your fault one bit Mark...

Rob

[hallsie]

V8 GRF said:

KKson said:

No one's 'steamroling' anyone in the TVRCC forum, mostly because few people post in the Wedge forums there (a shame but that's how it is these days) and that was the case before the individual in question started posting there regularly.

.

I would happily post in the forum with help and knowledge if it was an open forum.

Stu

[V8 GRF]

hallsie said:

I would happily post in the forum with help and knowledge if it was an open forum.

Stu

It's no different to here apart from the fact you have to be a member of the TVRCC, everyone can have their say and opinion as long as it stays civil.

Simples.

[Jack Valiant]

This person is a bitter and twisted little individual who bullies his way about picking on people.

He is not wanted!

Chris

[V8 Fettler]

TVRCC forum was always very controlling, surprised that someone has caused ructions.

Irrespective of where the fault lies, it's bizarre that the owner of a substantial collection of interesting Wedges has very little involvement with this forum. You'd think that someone would pour oil on troubled waters (20w50 of course!)