If it's a socket you may find it's 1/4" drive square, not hex at all. So just use a short extension bar and/or ratchet. Certainly the diff fill plug is like that.
Diff plugs on mine are 1/2". I just use my 1/2" rachet with no socket on the end. Gearboxes on both 350i and 390 have hex bolts but in different locations?