Bad Manners - Women Drivers
Bad Manners - Women Drivers
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FATTOJAPPO

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59 posts

267 months

Thursday 5th August 2004
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On my way home tonight, I stopped 3 times to allow an oncoming car through a tight gap in the road and 3 times the driver just drove straight past without a thank-you knod/wave/smile. The common link between the 3? All women!!! I find that on average about 8-9/10 men generally wave their appreciation, where as 2-3/10 women do likewise. Is this a national trend or it is just the women drivers(not all I hasten to add!) of Stoke on Trent who have no manners? I'm not being sexist, it's just the way I find it.Do women say thank-you to other women drivers? Is it a shivelry thing..is it expected? It's not a one off incident, it happens all the time. My wife says that it's just a women thing, like the state of ladies toilets? Whatever that means??? Any thoughts on this phenomenon?

>>> Edited by FATTOJAPPO on Thursday 5th August 00:50

>>> Edited by FATTOJAPPO on Thursday 5th August 00:52

mrmaggit

10,146 posts

277 months

Thursday 5th August 2004
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I thought it was an unwritten rule that you gave way to vehicles coming uphill? Not if the other vehicle is driven by a female (generally).

egomeister

7,591 posts

292 months

Thursday 5th August 2004
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It's a national trend - I was about to post a thread about this myself!

w4dge

4,688 posts

268 months

Thursday 5th August 2004
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I always thank someone, however, I did notice that when I was blonde more men gave way, now I'm brunette again I just have to sit and wait my turn.

veg

516 posts

312 months

Thursday 5th August 2004
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Believe me I'd much rather let a brunette out than a self centred blonde!

bona8-2

117 posts

278 months

Thursday 5th August 2004
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Maybe if they take one of their hands off the steering wheel to wave, they will probably loose control of the car

PinkPanther

1,010 posts

293 months

Thursday 5th August 2004
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FATTOJAPPO said:
I find that on average about 8-9/10 men generally wave their appreciation, where as 2-3/10 women do likewise.


National trend I think - exactly the kind of figures I would have quoted. Only thing iother than bad manners is perhaps that most are so focused on driving (i.e not as relaxed as men), they're oblivious to other parties!

DustyC

12,822 posts

283 months

Thursday 5th August 2004
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Getting upset about people that don't wave;
don't worry, its England. We are supposed to get upset by this.
Just hold the damn wheel and drive!

h2dca

901 posts

269 months

Thursday 5th August 2004
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I am also finding that women are just becoming plain rude and not just on the road, I took my fiancée to a new bar a few Fridays ago to have a look/see and as I came to a door I saw a lady (Term used very loosely) so held the door open for her. Her response was to look at me with distaste and say 'yeah whatever' - f**kin Chav/Ned B*tch. Now at the time I was suited and booted as I had just been to the theatre, sober so it was not as if I was acting slimey like the rest of the Burberry clad idiots in the bar. But the attitude was just unbelievable; it is times like this one thinks euthanasia is a good thing to cleanse this world of trash like this.

Dan

1,068 posts

313 months

Thursday 5th August 2004
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They probably think you're a pervert or deviant or something...

... I mean, why else would a strange man be nice to them, you see it in the papers and on eastenders every day, so it must be true.

yellow peril

5,131 posts

301 months

Thursday 5th August 2004
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h2dca said:
Her response was to look at me with distaste and say 'yeah whatever' - f**kin Chav/Ned B*tch. But the attitude was just unbelievable; it is times like this one thinks euthanasia is a good thing to cleanse this world of trash like this.


And you think women are rude....

//P//

salty-nlv

438 posts

288 months

Thursday 5th August 2004
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I think it's just the fat stupid Stokey women who are to busy eating their kebabs.

P.S. I come from there so have good experience of these classy ladies

cosmoschick

7,977 posts

278 months

Thursday 5th August 2004
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Here we go!

For the record, I always thank other drivers who are courteous.

victormeldrew

8,293 posts

306 months

Thursday 5th August 2004
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To be fair women drivers are being poitively discouraged from making eye contact with other drivers (to avoid possible incidents), so this is maybe a knock on effect. I've noticed it too.

DustyC

12,822 posts

283 months

Thursday 5th August 2004
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I dont bloody believe it!

cosmoschick

7,977 posts

278 months

Thursday 5th August 2004
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Nor do I. I haven't heard that advice before. Personally, I'm not in the least bit intimidated by male drivers but unfortunately there are an increasing number of complete nutters out there for sure. You only have to look at the aggressive and reckless manner in which they behave when behind a steering wheel thereby endangering all other road users

>> Edited by cosmoschick on Thursday 5th August 10:28

shmern

347 posts

284 months

Thursday 5th August 2004
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DustyC said:
I dont bloody believe it!


Methinks that was a reference to the previous post name

D.

pdV6

16,442 posts

290 months

Thursday 5th August 2004
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In a similar vein, I often notice that when I stop to let an oncoming car through a narrow gap they may well acknowledge the fact with a nod or a wave, but any following cars won't. why is that?

morebeanz

3,283 posts

265 months

Thursday 5th August 2004
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Hmmm, concentrating on a narrow gap AND a car in front...definitely too much input for many drivers on the road these days!

>> Edited by morebeanz on Thursday 5th August 10:20

jonnyb

2,590 posts

281 months

Thursday 5th August 2004
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Los Angeles said:

Incidentally, I found the interior footwell light. Thanks for the tip.


Where? Ive been looking for mine for about a year! Or maybe I dont have one.