New Mrs Ocean
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ocean1

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Thursday 8th January 2004
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She has not yet had the pleasure of a ride in Fluffy. Will she like her? If not I will have to choose, and I guess I will go for.....Fluffy!, no...no Mrs Ocean!, oh I dont know, I guess real people are more important than cars...arnt they?
ps she has 2 springer spaniels, if she thinks they are going in Fluffy she is very wrong! She may become a TVR convert, I hope so.

Ocean1 in a turmoil

>>> Edited by ocean1 on Thursday 8th January 19:40

>>> Edited by ocean1 on Thursday 8th January 19:47

rude girl

6,937 posts

287 months

Thursday 8th January 2004
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Ocean

Repeat after me..

Mrs Ocean is going out with me, not my car.
It doesn't matter if she doesn't like my car, any more than if she doesn't like the colour of my crockery. It's not her car, it's not her crockery.
If she doesn't like my car/crockery, she can happily use whatever her normal mode of transport/food containment is.


Everyone's happy.

And breathe.....

Mrs Fish

30,018 posts

286 months

Thursday 8th January 2004
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Well Said

ocean1

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Thursday 8th January 2004
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Girls, your so sensible!, she has a Honda Jazz. It would be nice if she could be educated to appreciate TVR though wouldnt it? She could persuade me that I really shouldnt let go of Fluffy for some poxwaggon.

rude girl

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287 months

Thursday 8th January 2004
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ocean1 said:
Girls, your so sensible!, she has a Honda Jazz. It would be nice if she could be educated to appreciate TVR though wouldnt it? She could persuade me that I really shouldnt let go of Fluffy for some poxwaggon.


Er, how long have you known her?

Mrs Fish

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286 months

Thursday 8th January 2004
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Not long going by his posts a few weeks back

ocean1

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Thursday 8th January 2004
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mungo said:
Fill yer boots Ocean!

Forget the riding in cars for a bit and riding in beds instead

>> Edited by mungo on Thursday 8th January 20:14


Message received Mungo. Shes no supermodel, but then Im no George Cloony. Anyone who has been reading my posts of late, and between the lines of my posts will appreciate how important she is to me.

ocean1

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Thursday 8th January 2004
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rude girl said:

ocean1 said:
Girls, your so sensible!, she has a Honda Jazz. It would be nice if she could be educated to appreciate TVR though wouldnt it? She could persuade me that I really shouldnt let go of Fluffy for some poxwaggon.



Er, how long have you known her?


Ive known her for about 6 months, but only just got around to asking her out (just before Christmas). She gave me signals that even I could not miss!

ocean1

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Thursday 8th January 2004
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A serious question, and I know its not much car related, but how important is physical appearance to a relationship?

Mrs Fish

30,018 posts

286 months

Thursday 8th January 2004
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Not important

Lutz

236 posts

273 months

Thursday 8th January 2004
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Oh, just leave him alone!!!!
Beauty lies in the eye of the beholder.
For other people, the S is a ridiculously over-engined, under engineered car that constantly breaks down, for us its THE sportscar.
Same with girls....
But rude girl is right: she goes out with you, not with your car. So, as long as she does not force you to buy a poxwagon....

rude girl

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287 months

Thursday 8th January 2004
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Ocean

Not really for anyone else to tell you how to live your life, but please don't pin too much (particularly lifestyle changes) on someone who is essentially still a stranger.

Enjoy your time together but if she comes to love you it'll be for yourself.

I wouldn't allow a b/f to convince me to sell my car (or crockery lol). Not because of the car, but because of him telling me what shape he wants my life to be - that implies that he doesn't accept me for myself. Once you become a proper couple, you have to make decisions together but don't jump in to that too early. As a rule of thumb, if anyone ever says 'if you thought anything of me you'd (x, y, z)', they don't love you they are just trying to control you.

ocean1

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Thursday 8th January 2004
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Your right people, she is the first girl that has turned up when she said she would, not strung me along, and has gone on to a third date now. She is funny, and seems to appreciate my own slightly strange sense of humour, she deserves my appreciation. We are spending the day on the coast on Saturday, maybe Bournmouth, if we see any other TVRs I will get her to wave!

Trefor

14,772 posts

311 months

Thursday 8th January 2004
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So you've got through 3 dates and not told her about the other love in your life?

rude girl

6,937 posts

287 months

Thursday 8th January 2004
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More advice...

FFS don't tell Mungo where you're taking her!

ocean1

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Thursday 8th January 2004
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Oh she knows about her, shes just not bothered one way or another, but then she has not had the "Fluffy Experience" yet. Something that many people would pay good money for.

ocean1

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Thursday 8th January 2004
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mungo said:

rude girl said:
More advice...

FFS don't tell Mungo where you're taking her!



Up the a...? Hahahahaha!!

Thanks Corrine, can you really see me driving round B'mouth on Saturday looking out for speed 6 Cerbie's just to see what kind of person Ocean really is?


Oh go on Mungo, tell me a time and place, I wont eat you, well maybe just a couple of limbs! Mrs Ocean will make me into a normal person....perhaps.

rude girl

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287 months

Thursday 8th January 2004
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mungo said:

Thanks Corrine, can you really see me driving round B'mouth on Saturday looking out for speed 6 Cerbie's just to see what kind of person Ocean really is?


No, but I had a fear that your genetic makeup would not fail you and the machine would kick in - you'd have to chat her up!

AllTorque

2,646 posts

297 months

Thursday 8th January 2004
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mungo said:

rude girl said:
More advice...

FFS don't tell Mungo where you're taking her!



Up the a...? Hahahahaha!!

Thanks Corrine, can you really see me driving round B'mouth on Saturday looking out for speed 6 Cerbie's just to see what kind of person Ocean really is?


I've met Ocean, and he is an extremely nice, generous chap. He even let me drive his old Chimaera which I couldn't believe. Thanks again mate, and best of luck on your fourth date!

ocean1

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Thursday 8th January 2004
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rude girl said:

mungo said:

Thanks Corrine, can you really see me driving round B'mouth on Saturday looking out for speed 6 Cerbie's just to see what kind of person Ocean really is?



No, but I had a fear that your genetic makeup would not fail you and the machine would kick in - you'd have to chat her up!


Get lost Mungo shes mine, if it comes to fisticuffs, them Im ready. On second thoughts Lets do a deal, if you go down on the first tap Mrs Ocean will be really impressed! Ill slip you 20squid later! deal?