Do you have any secrets?
Do you have any secrets?
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srebbe64

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13,021 posts

260 months

Friday 28th January 2005
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In my particular job (selling companies, primarily) there is an awful lot of psychology involved, it's probably about 80% psychology and 20% mathematics. One has to gauge how hard to push a buyer without losing them. Accordingly, about once a quarter I invite psychologists to give training to the various negotiators (body language, lie-detection, etc..) Very useful, I’ve found it to be. Apparently, a lot of the principles are successfully employed by the police when interviewing crime suspects.

Anyway, I was having lunch with one particular psychologist recently, who also does personal counselling as a sideline. I was chatting to him about this and he said, in general “a person’s problem is as big as their secret”. Once the secret has been revealed the problem becomes surmountable. Similar to the saying “a problem shared is a problem halved”, I guess.

So here goes: As a service to society, I’m offering the chance for PH’ers to “share their secrets” – all in the name of “self improvement”.

I will watch with interest!

towman

14,938 posts

262 months

Friday 28th January 2005
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Do I have secrets?

Yes.

Doris

TeamD

5,060 posts

255 months

Friday 28th January 2005
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This works of the basic premise that any secret I may have is a problem, which is not necessarily the case. That said, if I revealed anything it would (a) Not be a secret and (b) Could become a problem!

>> Edited by TeamD on Friday 28th January 11:29

Mrs Fish

30,018 posts

281 months

Friday 28th January 2005
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towman said:
Do I have secrets?

Yes.

Doris



The Wiz

5,875 posts

285 months

Friday 28th January 2005
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Yes ... but if I told you I would have to kill you.

v8thunder

27,647 posts

281 months

Friday 28th January 2005
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Yes, but that just makes me a more convincing liar

pug406

3,636 posts

276 months

Friday 28th January 2005
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Yes, it's BlairOut's birthday today

D_Mike

5,301 posts

263 months

Saturday 29th January 2005
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Yes but I'm not allowed to tell anyone (or totally convinced myself yet...) yet.

john75

5,303 posts

270 months

Saturday 29th January 2005
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If i told you my secrets they would not be secrets anymore would they.

anonymous-user

77 months

Saturday 29th January 2005
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I have a few secrets but I'm ready to tell them.

Here goes;

I hate TVR's, especially Speed 6's, I'm very fond of Mungo, and my real name is not Unrepentant.

rich 36

13,739 posts

289 months

Saturday 29th January 2005
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.....I dident push, she fell....

funkihamsta

1,261 posts

286 months

Saturday 29th January 2005
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l'm frightfully good in bed...

I've kept it secret because you end up with men phoning you up at all hours for last ditch relationship saving tips and then there's the women hanging around outside your house...it's hell l tell you.

toppstuff

13,698 posts

270 months

Saturday 29th January 2005
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Yes. Many. Secrets are my best friends. I keep them near me.

big dazza

1,439 posts

259 months

Saturday 29th January 2005
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Anyone got any intimate piercings, tattoos or something? In fact anything at all that they're actually willing to share?

Otherwise the whole thread seems a bit pointless to me

>> Edited by big dazza on Saturday 29th January 14:43

MimiB

365 posts

255 months

Saturday 29th January 2005
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If you were to post your secrets, they wouldn't BE a secret Classic!

love machine

7,609 posts

258 months

Saturday 29th January 2005
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I used to be a woman.

bilko2

1,693 posts

255 months

Saturday 29th January 2005
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Loads of em but i keep them locked up
You won't get anyone spilling the beans on here unless...
Bump this thread up tonight when peeps are drunk.

chim_girl

6,268 posts

282 months

Saturday 29th January 2005
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funkihamsta said:
l'm frightfully good in bed...


As demonstrated in your profile picture...?

mustard

6,992 posts

268 months

Saturday 29th January 2005
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chim_girl said:

funkihamsta said:
l'm frightfully good in bed...



As demonstrated in your profile picture...?


'bout time you spilled your secrets, Jo

funkihamsta

1,261 posts

286 months

Saturday 29th January 2005
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chim_girl said:

funkihamsta said:
l'm frightfully good in bed...



As demonstrated in your profile picture...?


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