Engagement - would you ?
Engagement - would you ?
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TDTH1975

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631 posts

273 months

Friday 4th February 2005
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Personally, I thought proposing to your future wife was supposed to be a highly personal and romantic moment between the two of you - but on national television, on question time

http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/uk/4234907.stm

jacobyte

4,767 posts

265 months

Friday 4th February 2005
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Not really the done thing, but ten out of ten for bravery.

cotty

41,898 posts

307 months

Friday 4th February 2005
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I wish she had said no, might stop these people from ramming their proposal down your throat.

v8thunder

27,647 posts

281 months

Friday 4th February 2005
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I can't understand that approach either - it embarrasses the person into giving an answer. I'd make a proposal as discreet and personal as possible.

shadowninja

79,333 posts

305 months

Friday 4th February 2005
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oh dear

cotty said:
I wish she had said no, might stop these people from ramming their proposal down your throat.


Plotloss

67,280 posts

293 months

Friday 4th February 2005
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I simply dont understand.

I also dont understand people who do it at football matches just to get their names on the Jumbotron.

A mate did it on the Millenium Eye. He bought 26 tickets to get a pod for just the two of them and asked the chap where it could be done so that no other pod could see them.

He got down on bended knee and they moved the pod when they werent supposed to so everyone on the wheel saw what was going on.

He got a round of applause when he got off

tonyhetherington

32,091 posts

273 months

Friday 4th February 2005
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He could have at least got down on one knee when he did it!!

Now, check this out....THIS is romantic...

bbc site said:
The long-running political debate show has indirectly played a part in one previous engagement. An enterprising would-be bridegroom from Hull last year proposed to his girlfiend via the programme's interactive service - available by pressing the red button or on Ceefax page 155 - and she accepted.

DanH

12,287 posts

283 months

Friday 4th February 2005
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NAFF.

Apparently its not uncommon for the girl to then change her mind once the cameras are off!

tonyhetherington

32,091 posts

273 months

Friday 4th February 2005
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DanH said:
girl to then change her mind


I've always wondered that! I've never seen something like that where they've said NO!?

EmmaP

11,758 posts

262 months

Friday 4th February 2005
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I'd have said, "No!" just to embarrass him.

tonyhetherington

32,091 posts

273 months

Friday 4th February 2005
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pah, I'm never asking you to marry me, Emma!

cotty

41,898 posts

307 months

Friday 4th February 2005
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tonyhetherington said:

DanH said:
girl to then change her mind



I've always wondered that! I've never seen something like that where they've said NO!?


I saw one a few years ago when the girl refused to answer the question, the guy did not know what to do

EmmaP

11,758 posts

262 months

Friday 4th February 2005
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tonyhetherington said:
pah, I'm never asking you to marry me, Emma!

Coco H

4,237 posts

260 months

Friday 4th February 2005
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revolting - whey do you need to get engaged in public?

minimax

11,985 posts

279 months

Friday 4th February 2005
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Coco H said:
revolting - whey do you need to get engaged in public?


no sense of decency - what's all that about?

wedge girl

4,688 posts

262 months

Friday 4th February 2005
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Surely a proposal of marriage should be a romantic and intimate moment.

munter

31,330 posts

264 months

Friday 4th February 2005
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wedge girl said:
Surely a proposal of marriage should be a pure financial arrangement.


wedge girl

4,688 posts

262 months

Friday 4th February 2005
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munter said:

wedge girl said:
Surely a proposal of marriage should be a pure financial arrangement.







Must remember to marry for money and not love in future.

Witchfinder

6,371 posts

275 months

Friday 4th February 2005
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A friend of mine proposed to his girlfriend in public. He knew she was going on a day trip to York, so he hired a suit of armour and loitered about outside York minster under the cover of handing out leaflets for the medieval market.

When his girlfriend arrived to tour the church, he surprised her and popped the question in front of a huge crowd. Really cool, but I think it cost him a fortune (and is going to carry on costing him a fortune )

jvaughan

6,025 posts

306 months

Friday 4th February 2005
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When I proposed, we were in Paris, with the Eiffel Tower in the back ground, and Albanian immergrunts trying to sell us tower cigarette lighters were all around us..

I first told Kerry-Ann that all the money was safe, and I had our passports.

Then I popped the question

I only gave her her passport back once she had said yes

12 months later, I reminded her of the same the night before our wedding in Cyprus