Had enough - where to go now?
Had enough - where to go now?
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maxf

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8,443 posts

270 months

Monday 14th March 2005
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I heard some news today which has really finished off the little good-feeling I had towards this horrible pile of festering discent that Great Britain has become. When exactly did the 'Great' get forgotten I wonder?

I have no dependants and no mortgage, am 28 (this week ) and have decided to take my skills elsewhere. My long suffering girlfriend has agreed to make the move as well

So the big question is where to focus our research. Ideally we want to be moved by the end of the summer.

I'm a (soon to be chartered) surveyor (property valuations and taxation) and Claire is an Account Manager at an advertising agency.

My company have an office in Sydney and Melborne, and also associate offices accross the USA and Canada. Claire doesn't have that luxury, but is pretty certain she could work for another non-uk ad agency fairly easily.

How do we go about looking for jobs abroad? I can obviously make quiet enquiries at work, but would like to look at other avenues as well, if possible.

Any comments or suggestions would be very well recieved - also has anyone on here made a major move like this?

Davel

8,982 posts

287 months

Monday 14th March 2005
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Think of the countries that you might like to go to and contact the embassies concerned?

Eric Mc

125,606 posts

294 months

Monday 14th March 2005
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"Great" in "Great Britain" does not mean what most people tend to assume. It just means "Big" (which is the correct meaning of the word "Great"). In that respect, Britain is as "Great" as it ever was.

Is there ANYWHERE in the developed world where you will not find things to annoy you? From what I can see, most countries with a well developed legal system a (relatively) well educated population and an active media will exhibit very similar characteristics. Talk to Americans, Aussies, New Zealanders or anyone from virtually any European country and they will be able to list a pile of things that are wrong with the country they live in.

Don't fall for the "grass is greener" syndrome. It's not always true.

>> Edited by Eric Mc on Monday 14th March 13:56

bor

5,141 posts

284 months

Monday 14th March 2005
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There are about 100 of these "I'm definitely leaving" threads on PH, but only one or two people have ever actually left.

If you were serious about leaving, you wouldn't need to ask.

maxf

Original Poster:

8,443 posts

270 months

Monday 14th March 2005
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Eric Mc said:

Don't fall for the "grass is greener" syndrome. It's not always true.

>> Edited by Eric Mc on Monday 14th March 13:56


I quite agree. However, for me it seems that the list of positives are being overshadowed by the negatives at the moment, with little chance of a rebalance. Without anyone (aside from barclaycard ) depending on us, we decided to see what else is on offer.

I'm not expecting a mythical eutopia - but maybe a bit more house for my money, some land, a bit of sun and most importantly not looking over my shoulder everytime I leave the house for fear of gangs of yobs with no fear of the legal system - or at least the ability to defend myself properly.

max

JagLover

46,734 posts

264 months

Monday 14th March 2005
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[quote=Eric Mc From what I can see, most countries with a well developed legal system a (relatively) well educated population and an active media will exhibit very similar characteristics. Talk to Americans, Aussies, New Zealanders or anyone from virtually any European country and they will be able to list a pile of things that are wrong with the country they live in.

>> Edited by Eric Mc on Monday 14th March 13:56[/quote]

You have a point actually in that people tend to cherry pick what countries they compare the UK too, depending on what they are complaining about.

With France in health
Germany in speed limits
Australia in immigration policy etc

On the other hand the UK has a higher crime rate than most of the developed world-so moving somewhere else you might be able to get away from that at least.

maxf

Original Poster:

8,443 posts

270 months

Monday 14th March 2005
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bor said:

If you were serious about leaving, you wouldn't need to ask.


Nothing wrong with getting opinions is there? We are very flexible in terms of destination so I can't see any harm in asking around and maybe benefitting from somebody elses research - can you?

willmcc

758 posts

268 months

Monday 14th March 2005
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I would sort out your qualifications and work out where you can work without having to requalify and where your skills are in short supply. Then go there for a break and start knocking on doors, there is no substitute for being there and it will give you an idea of the realities of the place.
As for your Girl she will find that advertising is one of the most easily portable occupations, my GF is working for an agency here and we have also worked in 3 other countries. If you start from a centre of excellence like London in advertising, you will always be employable.

greenlandy

1,635 posts

260 months

Monday 14th March 2005
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Take a year off work, travel the world, find a country you like and then find out about working/living there.

maxf

Original Poster:

8,443 posts

270 months

Monday 14th March 2005
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That's fantastic Will - thanks.

We were going to go to Japan on holiday later this year but, if this all takes off, will change and 'go knocking on doors' in our No.1 choice instead.

wedge girl

4,688 posts

268 months

Monday 14th March 2005
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Are you fluent in any other language?

agent006

12,058 posts

293 months

Monday 14th March 2005
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Why not try a different part of the UK. I've never had to look over my shoulder for gangs of yobs in my life. Just because you happen to live in a nasty part of the country doesn't mean that you should give up on everything and leave.

Also, you need to be content with metaphorically sticking two fingers up at your friends, family and anyone who enjoys your company when you do decide to emigrate.

egoboss

838 posts

259 months

Monday 14th March 2005
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greenlandy said:
Take a year off work, travel the world, find a country you like and then find out about working/living there.


by far the best way to approach this.

i loved living in manhattan but my work visa expired, sob.

travel a bit first (maybe you have already?) see some contrasting countries and cultures and see where - to you - offers the best work/life balance.

i don't blame you re: considering leaving the uk (i refuse to call it "gb" - what a nonsense - hubris!) - the uk is great if you are loaded and can insulate yourself from the grottier side of blighty's underclasses and st tony bliar's nannying. otherwise, it's just another place to live/work.





bouffy

1,540 posts

291 months

Monday 14th March 2005
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have heard good things about Canada...

maxf

Original Poster:

8,443 posts

270 months

Monday 14th March 2005
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Well, unfortunately I slept through languages at school so only speak English.

I would dearly love to travel 'backpacker style' but don't think I could warrant anywhere near a year as I would be left behind in terms of career development. Perhaps 3 months though?

Ok. The 'gangs of yobs' statement was very general. I actually work in Mayfair and live in a nicer area of Peterborough (there are some ). However, I've had a few experiences of the lower ebb of UK society - and heard today that a very, very good friend was involved in an unprovoked violent mugging incident which left his housemate dead!

Moving away has been something which Claire and I always had on the cards, to the point where we purposely picked transferable careers. This latest evil, evil crime has caused us to take a step back and do something which we've talked about but haven't done for ages. You never know and all that...



egoboss

838 posts

259 months

Monday 14th March 2005
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bouffy said:
have heard good things about Canada...


toronto is very nice indeed.

Eric Mc

125,606 posts

294 months

Monday 14th March 2005
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The point I was making was that every place has its problems. Sooner or later, if you emigrated elsewhere and had lived there for a number of years you could sink into whinging and moaning about the "problems" of that country.

I speak from experience. I "emigrated" from the Irish Republic nearly 20 years ago and I have to stop myself getting sucked into "Britain is Crap" debates. Britain does have its problems - as does everywhere else.

sparkythecat

8,097 posts

284 months

Monday 14th March 2005
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egoboss said:

bouffy said:
have heard good things about Canada...



toronto is very nice indeed.


My mum re-married and moved to Greater Toronto area in the late 70's.

I've spent quite a bit of time across there, but only on holiday. In the late 80's Mrs Sparky and I seriously toyed with the idea of moving across there.

We had the contacts and sponsors and could have got jobs and homes there no problem. After considerable reflection we decided that the grass wasn't any greener really, even if there was a whole lot more of it.

We've never regretted our decision to stay put.