What age should kids have B/F & G/F...
What age should kids have B/F & G/F...
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srebbe64

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13,021 posts

266 months

Monday 4th April 2005
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..and how’s it best to manage this?

My eldest lad has got himself a girlfriend – he’s 14 and she’s 13. It’s the first time any of my kids have developed such an interest and I’m sure will present a whole host challenges to myself and my missus. In fact, we’ve got four kids and I’m guessing that the next 25 years will be interspersed with many G/F and B/F issues – as such, this is a new parenting chapter we’re entering. Oh bliss!

Anyway, we know the parents of the girl and they’re good people, so we’ve jointly laid down some “ground rules”.

Anyway, any experienced parents out there got any advice. I’m all ears!

Plotloss

67,280 posts

299 months

Monday 4th April 2005
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Mrs Fish

30,018 posts

287 months

Monday 4th April 2005
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Plotloss said:
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srebbe64

Original Poster:

13,021 posts

266 months

Monday 4th April 2005
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Plotloss said:
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Oh I wish!

birdbrain

1,564 posts

268 months

Monday 4th April 2005
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Isn't Vixpy still looking for one?

JagLover

46,737 posts

264 months

Monday 4th April 2005
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Boys when they are ready

Girls 21

mechsympathy

58,546 posts

284 months

Monday 4th April 2005
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Plotloss said:
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But only your child. Anyone elses, :shrugs: whatever

vixpy1

42,699 posts

293 months

Monday 4th April 2005
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birdbrain said:
Isn't Vixpy still looking for one?


Oi!

wedge girl

4,688 posts

268 months

Monday 4th April 2005
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My Daughter is 10, she has a boyfriend, this relationship consists of dancing together at the school disco and nothing more.

I had my first serious boyfriend at 14.

It is very important that this relationship is allowed to follow it's natural path, and that it's a mutually considerate one, I believe that our teen experiences in relationships equip us for later on.

vixpy1

42,699 posts

293 months

Monday 4th April 2005
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I did'nt even get a snog till 17..

Boys Boarding schools

docevi1

10,430 posts

277 months

Monday 4th April 2005
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wedge girl said:
It is very important that this relationship is allowed to follow it's natural path, and that it's a mutually considerate one, I believe that our teen experiences in relationships equip us for later on.
Yep, they can make you cynical, depressed & happy to be single for the rest of your life

cosmoschick

7,977 posts

278 months

Monday 4th April 2005
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JagLover said:
Boys when they are ready

Girls 21


So, the boys will have to wait until all the girls reach at least 21 years of age?

At least it'll keep the 'cradle' robbers at bay!

Plotloss

67,280 posts

299 months

Monday 4th April 2005
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vixpy1 said:
I did'nt even get a snog till 17..

Boys Boarding schools


I'd have thought such an establishment would have guaranteed a bit of action from a young age.

Not neccesarily female but hey, beggars/choosers and all that..

crazydave

2,253 posts

261 months

Monday 4th April 2005
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cosmoschick said:

JagLover said:
Boys when they are ready

Girls 21



So, the boys will have to wait until all the girls reach at least 21 years of age?

At least it'll keep the 'cradle' robbers at bay!


Boys when they're ready

Girls when they look 21

pzero64

2,145 posts

270 months

Monday 4th April 2005
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vixpy1 said:
I did'nt even get a snog till 17..

Boys Boarding schools

With one of the other boys?

Lois

14,706 posts

281 months

Monday 4th April 2005
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Depends on the individual and what they "do" as BF and GF.

lotuslad

5,253 posts

283 months

Monday 4th April 2005
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vixpy1 said:
I did'nt even get a snog till 17..

Then I went to a Boys Boarding school

vixpy1

42,699 posts

293 months

Monday 4th April 2005
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pzero64 said:

vixpy1 said:
I did'nt even get a snog till 17..

Boys Boarding schools


With one of the other boys?


We only had girls in the sixth form...

come to think of it, we had them good and proper..

JagLover

46,737 posts

264 months

Monday 4th April 2005
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cosmoschick said:

JagLover said:
Boys when they are ready

Girls 21



So, the boys will have to wait until all the girls reach at least 21 years of age?

At least it'll keep the 'cradle' robbers at bay!


err no-thats for your own children

titiany

2,122 posts

261 months

Monday 4th April 2005
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depends on the kid, really.

I had a boyfriend when I was ten, but holding hands was as exciting as it got.

First proper boyfriend (i.e. snogging and 'going out' even though you never actually 'go out') maybe 14. That was the age for me and no one seemed to have a problem with it - especially me!