So what do I do......?????

[beanbag]

Two girls.....both I like.....here's the problem. First girl: Shes my mates housemate. Really nice girl, but been dumped decently by her bloke although she's told me she really likes me and told me this before she was dumped. Not sure whats happening now but it's difficult to be around her as she lives in London and I live about an hour away. The other girl: Is from my last place of work. She is absolutely stunning and I've always like her but she had a 4 year relationship until now.....her bloke dumped her as he "wanted to have more fun as he was young". Went out to lunch with her today and got on really well as usual and I still fancy the heck out of her! She's just so nice! Now the thing is.....they're both coming out with me tomorrow night. It wouldn't have been a problem before as I thought the other girl was still in a relationship....but now they're both single.....i'm stumped! What do I do!!!!!!

[vixpy1]

Threesome

[JagLover]

Its obvious sh*g them both.

[tuscan_thunder]

second one.

[beanbag]

vixpy1 said:

Threesome

Could I expect any less!!!

[beanbag]

tuscan_thunder said:

second one.

Yes but i've got Nice Bloke Disease and I don't want to upset the first girl. Problem is, I've been flirting with her a lot and she's now part of our group......

Why are women so complicated!?

[Witchfinder]

Sleeping with work colleagues usually causes problems. Be cautious.

[Cyberhuss]

If you want a definite answer & have a camera phone, post a couple of pics!

[beanbag]

Well, she's not a work colleague anymore. That was my last job. Here's a pic of the second girl.....taken a while ago:



>> Edited by beanbag on Friday 6th May 15:52

[JagLover]

Second Girl, Second Girl

[parrot of doom]

Personality, not appearance (within reason).

[beanbag]

They're both really nice girls. Really nice girls, although the first one is much dirtier.......lol

However, i will say the second girl is much prettier....

The thing worrying me the most is upsetting one of them. I don't like doing that!

[Cyberhuss]

Without seeing the other girl it's hard to decide

But the second girl seems alright!

[angrys3owner]

sounds like you have more feelings for the second young lady to me, why not try and take things slowish and maybe the first one wont go bunny boiling?

It's obviously such a hard life for some people

[mr_tony]

beanbag said:

The thing worrying me the most is upsetting one of them. I don't like doing that!

First rule of life - you can't make an omlette without breaking eggs.

Make your mind up and take your choice, if one of them is more desirable to you than the other, then going back for second best is never an option - if they're good fun and your mates keep them as mates unless you're 100% sure you're doing the right thing - mates are for life usually - short term girlfirends dissapear without trace....

[Incorrigible]

At least with bikes you get a test ride

[chim_knee]

Which one is least likely, in the long run, to give you grief/try and change you/want to get serious too quickly/nag incessantly etc?

[Plotloss]

Can you not have a relationship with the fit one and nail the dirty one from time to time?

[mechsympathy]

[redacted]

[lanciachris]

Definately 3some time. seriously! if you dont ask, youll always be wondering

I had 2 lovely young ladies with me last weekend. The question was asked, the answer was given and they are no harm done to either friendship. They would have been disappointed if i didnt ask.

They said no but decided to tease me by snogging and ahem. having a playful grope with each other in front of me. Frustrating to be sure, but great entertainment!