PH relationship advice needed

[White_van_Man]

Last night a had a bit of a "moment" with my best mates sister, ok thats bad enough but just to add to the chaos she has a kid, boyfriend who she is moving in with soon and a husband shes trying to divorse:yikes:
We both wanted this to happen. But she has said she wants to stay with her boyfriend. what do i do now:confused:

[Chim Girl]

Put it down to experience and walk away.

[shadytree]

Hope your best mate doesn't read Pistoheads?

[ApexClipper]

Walk away dude, just walk away and don't look back

[Pies]

ApexClipper said:

Walk away dude, just walk away and don't look back

ditto

[AlexH]

Pies said:

ApexClipper said: Walk away dude, just walk away and don't look back ditto

ditto again

[seasider]

shadytree said:

Hope your best mate doesn't read Pistoheads?

[mutt k]

ApexClipper said:

Walk away dude, just walk away and don't look back

Walk? Walk? Run like f**k man!

[wolves_wanderer]

AlexH said:

Pies said: ApexClipper said: Walk away dude, just walk away and don't look back ditto ditto again

Treble ditto. Could you have found a woman in a worse situation if you'd tried?

I love these threads, they always make my own problems seem insignificant!

[Hughesie2]

mutt k said:

ApexClipper said: Walk away dude, just walk away and don't look back Walk? Walk? Run like f**k man!

Before you do, how good a shag was she ??

[lazyitus]

Try creating a really bad atmosphere by continuing to pine for her. Pester her and let her boyfriend know what is going on.

Take her and the kid for days out and really play with their minds. Make the kid think its got a new father figure, then do one.

Just an alternative to the normal 'walk away' advice that you're receiving.

[apache]

AlexH said:

Pies said: ApexClipper said: Walk away dude, just walk away and don't look back ditto ditto again

dotto (ditto cubed)

[shadytree]

See her again and video it this time ?

[lazyitus]

shadytree said:

See her again and video it this time ?

[L100NYY]

lazyitus said:

Try creating a really bad atmosphere by continuing to pine for her. Pester her and let her boyfriend know what is going on. Take her and the kid for days out and really play with their minds. Make the kid think its got a new father figure, then do one. Just an alternative to the normal 'walk away' advice that you're receiving.

I did try and give a sensible reasoning to his problem but yours was sooooo much more entertaining!

[PetrolTed]

[Davel]

If you would like it to go further, then simply tell her how you feel and that you're there for her if she changes her mind.

You haven't said how you feel about things......

It can just be that, since she's gone so far down the line of moving in with her boyfriend, it's easier to go down that route than change her plans.

If you are serious and she knows how you really feel, then it's up to her.

Just be really sure that it's what you want - or, as said by others, walk away and let her concentrate on her existing relationship.

[timmy30]

White_van_Man said:

We both wanted this to happen. But she has said she wants to stay with her boyfriend. what do i do now

So hang on, she wanted you to shag her but she also wants to stay with her boyfriend right?

So maybe she just wanted to sample your salami and it's no harm done. Do you want to get together with her?

Because otherwise all that's happened is you've had a no strings attached jump on your mates sister. Hey it happens. You don't really need to do anything.

[L81]

White_van_Man said:

Last night a had a bit of a "moment" with my best mates sister, ok thats bad enough but just to add to the chaos she has a kid, boyfriend who she is moving in with soon and a husband shes trying to divorse

'kin 'ell You risked all that potential trouble for "a moment". Couldn't you have made it last a bit longer?