explaining the birds and the bees
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Right, the boys are at the age now when i realy need to tell them all about sex.
Can anyone reccomend any books or videos
siutable for visual aids 
God this isn't comming out right.
Look, i can't bung them a copyt of hustle and say get on with it. I want them to know what everything means and an outline of different things and
HELP!!!!
Can anyone reccomend any books or videos
siutable for visual aids God this isn't comming out right. Look, i can't bung them a copyt of hustle and say get on with it. I want them to know what everything means and an outline of different things and
HELP!!!!
Mikey G said:
i can't bung them a copy of hustle and say get on with it.
I prefer Escort
How old are they? probably know more than you think
Youngest is 10 and goes to a boarding school for people with behavioural difficulties in september so i need to give him some guidelines so he doesn't get the piss taken basically.
Eldest is 13 and at a school for learning dissabilities. they both have adhd along with a few more complications and although they are by no means thick, they are slightly more imature than normal kids of their age.
I have tried before explaining things but they get embarrassed with dad sliding a condom onto 2 fingers
I don't need to tell them how to perform cunnilingus or other more exotic sex acts but i want them to know about the basic stuff.
The eldest has a girlfriend of 14! (i only found this out today when i picked them up ) He is as tall as me and active with football etc. He will have no problems with getting girls in his life but he needs to be aware of aall of it realy.
In that case, show him bank statements for the last 13 years and tell him if he doesnt use the little sleeping bag this is how much its gonna cost him for the next 18 years
Point to make regarding his age, i feel that telling him its illegal to start with wont help but respect how he feels for this girl and inform him its not the done thing but if things happen make sure he's using something, He'll probably respect you more for it. My father was more like a brother in this situation and treated me as a more mature person than i was in the subjects of sex and drugs.
Dont be shy about it but dont push the subject onto him also.
Try to learn how much he already knows, its not difficult, the basics being he squirts and she grows a little one
Point to make regarding his age, i feel that telling him its illegal to start with wont help but respect how he feels for this girl and inform him its not the done thing but if things happen make sure he's using something, He'll probably respect you more for it. My father was more like a brother in this situation and treated me as a more mature person than i was in the subjects of sex and drugs.
Dont be shy about it but dont push the subject onto him also.
Try to learn how much he already knows, its not difficult, the basics being he squirts and she grows a little one
I never got told about the birds and the bees by parents. I found out, when I was about 10 going on 11, all by myself using a little thing called the "internet" Even though I thought at the time, porn was spelt P A W N 
Still came up with plenty of the rude stuff, suprisingly!
Have to say I didnt find it to my, um, liking, which I think is why I'm now officially a PHP (Pistonheads Poofta
) LOL
Mayb ween them onto the ladies by letting them read a Max Power or Redline mag - you can initially pass it off as part of their automotive upbringing
Darren
Even though I thought at the time, porn was spelt P A W N Still came up with plenty of the rude stuff, suprisingly! Have to say I didnt find it to my, um, liking, which I think is why I'm now officially a PHP (Pistonheads Poofta
) LOL Mayb ween them onto the ladies by letting them read a Max Power or Redline mag - you can initially pass it off as part of their automotive upbringing
Darren
I work in a school for children with moderate/severe learning difficulties, and we've used a book called 'Mummy Laid an Egg' by Babette Cole.
I think it may be a little young for your kids, but it was quite an easy introduction to how babies are made. (The pages on how mummies and daddies fit togther was bloody hilarious!!)
Good luck!
The other programme we use for our older kids is called 'Topps Sex' (Topps means something educational, they've produced packs to teach dance, PE & Sex Ed). Have had a quick look on google, but 'Topps Sex Education Resources' probably isnt the most sensible thing to be searching for!!
>> Edited by mrs vodkakid on Saturday 11th February 21:05
I think it may be a little young for your kids, but it was quite an easy introduction to how babies are made. (The pages on how mummies and daddies fit togther was bloody hilarious!!)
Good luck!
The other programme we use for our older kids is called 'Topps Sex' (Topps means something educational, they've produced packs to teach dance, PE & Sex Ed). Have had a quick look on google, but 'Topps Sex Education Resources' probably isnt the most sensible thing to be searching for!!
>> Edited by mrs vodkakid on Saturday 11th February 21:05
well, having just recently got out of the whole 'School sex edutation' thing, i can safley say that its a waste of time. if you are going to talk to him about sex then tell him/them things they can use. it will be alot more help to them, as these are the sorta things kids (well me) worry about. and explain to them how to actually love a woman and how to treat her.
Much more important than 'Whats the right age' and all that school non-sense
Much more important than 'Whats the right age' and all that school non-sense
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