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anonymous-user

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85 months

Sunday 12th February 2006
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Having just returned from the states with my wife and 16 Month old son i'd just like to say what a genuinely friendly and warm lot the Americans we met were.

I've been to America a few times before. This time though, going with my little boy I was really impressed at how complete strangers helped us with a pushchair or opening doors etc just general acts of kindness.

On buses I saw people giving up seats for old folks and other acts that seem sadly lacking here in the U.K.

I've often thought that the Americans were a very insular lot with little awareness of the rest of the world but America is such a large and diverse country I can see why people don't bother going abroad. The weather also makes it easier for them I suppose. The news seems to pay little attention to events overseas, except for Iraq (which is still referred to as 'the war on terror').

"so what's your point"

I think that the kindness I received towards my family in the states has made me want to make more effort towards others back here in the U.K.

I went to the garage today to get some milk and said "Hi, how are you?" to the woman at the till. I was met with stony silence. Now it's started raining. .

At least tonight I can have a decent curry.

john75

5,303 posts

278 months

Sunday 12th February 2006
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Where abouts in the America did you go to ?

When I was in Canada I found a very friendly stripper but thats a whole other story.

hedders

24,460 posts

278 months

Sunday 12th February 2006
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stovey said:


I think that the kindness I received towards my family in the states has made me want to make more effort towards others back here in the U.K.

I went to the garage today to get some milk and said "Hi, how are you?" to the woman at the till. I was met with stony silence. Now it's started raining. .



Nice post

I found excatly the same thing when i got back...

anonymous-user

Original Poster:

85 months

Sunday 12th February 2006
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I've been to few parts really but this time I was in Florida. I even saw Mickey.

Trooper2

6,676 posts

262 months

Sunday 12th February 2006
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I'm glad you enjoyed your visit stovey and thank you for the positive post. It's nice to here something good about your country from time to time.

FunkyNige

9,857 posts

306 months

Sunday 12th February 2006
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I found the same thing in San Francisco - all the natives were very friendly, kinda made me not want to come home really.
If I try being nice to people over here the ladies think I'm coming onto them and the guys just look disgusted

hedders

24,460 posts

278 months

Sunday 12th February 2006
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Yup, i was in SF and the Bay area for five years, fantastic place, and really lovely people for the most part!

vixpy1

42,699 posts

295 months

Sunday 12th February 2006
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Did you know that only 60% of Americans who are eligible to vote do so?



The other 40% can't fit in the polling booths

wowbagger t.i.p

3,693 posts

284 months

Sunday 12th February 2006
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We were in Florida 3 weeks ago with our 3 young children, we found the people to be genuinely friendly and I was amazed how many people came up and said what a beautiful family we have.

likesbikes

1,439 posts

267 months

Sunday 12th February 2006
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FunkyNige said:
I found the same thing in San Francisco - all the natives were very friendly, kinda made me not want to come home really.


You've got to be careful of (men in particular) people being very friendly round there

Trooper2

6,676 posts

262 months

Sunday 12th February 2006
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vixpy1 said:
Did you know that only 60% of Americans who are eligible to vote do so?



The other 40% can't fit in the polling booths



Actually the polling booths are plenty wide, 40% of Americans are tired of having nothing but twts to vote for.

hedders

24,460 posts

278 months

Sunday 12th February 2006
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LOL!

I was quite innocent when i arrived in SF, Had to wise up quick...

But I can remember a couple of occasions where the barman gave me an unexpected drink and said "It's from the lady in the black top ETC" And two occasions where women just walked up and asked if i wanted a drink!

It was the James Bond accent, and Brian May Hair do that did it....



>> Edited by hedders on Sunday 12th February 13:21

CommanderJameson

22,096 posts

257 months

Sunday 12th February 2006
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Go to New York if you want to face sheer unadulterated rudeness, the likes of which we Brits can only dream of inflicting on our fellow man.

Balmoral Green

42,561 posts

279 months

Sunday 12th February 2006
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hedders said:
LOL!

I was quite innocent when i arrived in SF, Had to wise up quick...

So you no longer fart in a high pitch?

Popzak

794 posts

250 months

Sunday 12th February 2006
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hedders said:
LOL!

I was quite innocent when i arrived in SF, Had to wise up quick...

But I can remember a couple of occasions where the barman gave me an unexpected drink and said "It's from the lady in the black top ETC" And two occasions where women just walked up and asked if i wanted a drink!

It was the James Bond accent, and Brian May Hair do that did it....



>> Edited by hedders on Sunday 12th February 13:21


This is True.It seems the American Women love Europeans.And Englishmen are on the top of the list.They say Englishman are Gentleman.I guess they get tired of, "Hey,How You Doin Huh?,or"How The Fk are Ya?

vixpy1

42,699 posts

295 months

Sunday 12th February 2006
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Popzak said:
hedders said:
LOL!

I was quite innocent when i arrived in SF, Had to wise up quick...

But I can remember a couple of occasions where the barman gave me an unexpected drink and said "It's from the lady in the black top ETC" And two occasions where women just walked up and asked if i wanted a drink!

It was the James Bond accent, and Brian May Hair do that did it....



>> Edited by hedders on Sunday 12th February 13:21




This is True.It seems the American Women love Europeans.And Englishmen are on the top of the list.They say Englishman are Gentleman.I guess they get tired of, "Hey,How You Doin Huh?,or"How The Fk are Ya?


I'm moving..

>> Edited by vixpy1 on Sunday 12th February 14:17

Matthew C

4,028 posts

268 months

Sunday 12th February 2006
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Trooper2 said:
vixpy1 said:
Did you know that only 60% of Americans who are eligible to vote do so?



The other 40% can't fit in the polling booths



Actually the polling booths are plenty wide, 40% of Americans are tired of having nothing but twts to vote for.


You're not the only ones.

Fortjefferson

8,237 posts

253 months

Sunday 12th February 2006
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Trooper2 said:
vixpy1 said:
Did you know that only 60% of Americans who are eligible to vote do so?



The other 40% can't fit in the polling booths



Actually the polling booths are plenty wide, 40% of Americans are tired of having nothing but twts to vote for.


I think it was a joke Derric?

I've been to Florida 5 times now, and each time the freindliness never ceases to amaze me. I would advise anyone who go's to do the Orlando thing once, then get out and travel. You get out and meet people who don't see tourists every day and are not payed to smile and be nice to you, but they still are. Great people.

Cotty

42,271 posts

315 months

Sunday 12th February 2006
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Popzak said:
This is True.It seems the American Women love Europeans.And Englishmen are on the top of the list.They say Englishman are Gentleman.I guess they get tired of, "Hey,How You Doin Huh?,or"How The Fk are Ya?


I would love to think that it was like the film Love Actually but I think the reality might be a bit different

tallbloke

10,376 posts

314 months

Sunday 12th February 2006
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Trooper2 said:
vixpy1 said:
Did you know that only 60% of Americans who are eligible to vote do so?



The other 40% can't fit in the polling booths



Actually the polling booths are plenty wide, 40% of Americans are tired of having nothing but twts to vote for.


Something you have in common with the Brits.