Why so angry?
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blindswelledrat

Original Poster:

25,257 posts

263 months

Tuesday 14th February 2006
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An observation on the smoking thread and all previous ones.
The reason I started a new thread is that I am interested in why this issue causes people to ignore other peoples valid arguments and not the arguments themselves.

There are many intelligent people on those threads who feel strongly one way or the other.
Both parties have completely valid arguments.

Non smokers: Why should I inhale your smoke when it kills me/I don't like it?

Smokers: Likelihood of death infinitesimal why pick on smokers when there are far more dangerous things you tolerate without a second thought.

Why do both parties completely ignore and refuse to acknowledge the validity of the other's claim when both arguments are common sense?

Einion Yrth

19,575 posts

275 months

Tuesday 14th February 2006
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To be fair it's only one or two posters who are that blindly dogmatic. It's just they shout loudest.

s2art

18,942 posts

284 months

Tuesday 14th February 2006
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blindswelledrat said:
An observation on the smoking thread and all previous ones.
The reason I started a new thread is that I am interested in why this issue causes people to ignore other peoples valid arguments and not the arguments themselves.

There are many intelligent people on those threads who feel strongly one way or the other.
Both parties have completely valid arguments.

Non smokers: Why should I inhale your smoke when it kills me/I don't like it?

Smokers: Likelihood of death infinitesimal why pick on smokers when there are far more dangerous things you tolerate without a second thought.

Why do both parties completely ignore and refuse to acknowledge the validity of the other's claim when both arguments are common sense?



A damned good question. To which I have no answer other than petty intolerance being displayed. Sad that.

lunarscope

2,901 posts

273 months

Tuesday 14th February 2006
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Because the smokers are the ones who are expected to give up to accomodate the non-smokers.
However, the 'nons' are doing nothing in return.

Tyre Smoke

23,018 posts

292 months

Tuesday 14th February 2006
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More to the point (because I think your comments belong on the smoking thread)why do people get so wound up and resort to personally insulting other posters?

Calling someone a tosser for example. Someone you have never met (and may never do) disagrees with you and takes a view totally at odds with your view and they are a tosser? How do you know?

This, and other sites, are a bit of light hearted relief from the daily grind - or should be. Why do people take themselves so seriously these days?

Is it a stressful lifestyle?

Chill.

TeamD

5,060 posts

263 months

Tuesday 14th February 2006
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I think you'll find that many people are incapable of wording what they are attempting to say correctly. Hence, what they mean and what they say are two entirely different things. This causes confusion because they don't understand why you disagree with what they ahve said because that wasn't what they meant.


I think I meant to say that.

CiderwithCerbie

1,420 posts

298 months

Tuesday 14th February 2006
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I agree about the level of emotional responses, BUT the evidence is that the harm caused by passive smoking is not infinitesimally small!

Sorry.

TeamD

5,060 posts

263 months

Tuesday 14th February 2006
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Tyre Smoke said:
Is it a stressful lifestyle?


Nicotine withdrawal?

Einion Yrth

19,575 posts

275 months

Tuesday 14th February 2006
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CiderwithCerbie said:
I agree about the level of emotional responses, BUT the evidence is that the harm caused by passive smoking is not infinitesimally small!

Sorry.
Just an observation, but I think that post really belongs on the other thread, otherwise we have the very real threat of thread dilution/off topicry.

s2art

18,942 posts

284 months

Tuesday 14th February 2006
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CiderwithCerbie said:
I agree about the level of emotional responses, BUT the evidence is that the harm caused by passive smoking is not infinitesimally small!

Sorry.


Look, if you have evidence (scientific) to this effect then for Gods sake lets see it. Do you have a cite?

Einion Yrth

19,575 posts

275 months

Tuesday 14th February 2006
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s2art said:
CiderwithCerbie said:
I agree about the level of emotional responses, BUT the evidence is that the harm caused by passive smoking is not infinitesimally small!

Sorry.


Look, if you have evidence (scientific) to this effect then for Gods sake lets see it. Do you have a cite?
Please can we NOT duplicate the argument from the other thread.

blindswelledrat

Original Poster:

25,257 posts

263 months

Tuesday 14th February 2006
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CiderwithCerbie said:
I agree about the level of emotional responses, BUT the evidence is that the harm caused by passive smoking is not infinitesimally small!

Sorry.


Depends what you read and who is interpreting the statisitics.
I don't want to argue on this thread and actively avoided the other one for this reason so can we agree to disagree please?

andymadmak

15,726 posts

301 months

Tuesday 14th February 2006
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I suppose that in any debate there is an inherent desire to prove ones point to the other fellow and convince him as to the veracity of the facts you deploy. However, there comes a point in any debate that is based on what I might call human facts (rather than say the laws of physics which are irrefutable and as such absolute fact) where both sets of facts clash from either side of the debate and where neither is disproven.
The normal resolution of any arguement is one side being proved right. In these Human fact cases however the question of right and wrong is sublimated to the individuals notion of "acceptable and non acceptable". As such there is much personal capital in defending or promoting ones own concept of right or wrong.
The result? Thread rage!!

Andy

Parrot of Doom

23,075 posts

265 months

Tuesday 14th February 2006
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I want smoking banned because it fecking stinks, it makes my clothes stink, it makes my eyes water, and my throat itch. I'm sick of seeing cigarette butts everywhere as well. Filthy b4stards should put them in a bin.

Call me biased.

s2art

18,942 posts

284 months

Tuesday 14th February 2006
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Parrot of Doom said:
I want smoking banned because it fecking stinks, it makes my clothes stink, it makes my eyes water, and my throat itch. I'm sick of seeing cigarette butts everywhere as well. Filthy b4stards should put them in a bin.

Call me biased.


Highly relevant contribution to this thread, NOT.

eccles

14,408 posts

253 months

Tuesday 14th February 2006
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it doesn't help when both sides make claims and neither of them back them up with links to proof.

if you ever post on the channel 4 news forum, people over there will seldom believe any claims unless you post a link to the source of your information. this has stopped people just making claims, and not backing them up.

sputnik

268 posts

256 months

Tuesday 14th February 2006
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lunarscope said:
Because the smokers are the ones who are expected to give up to accomodate the non-smokers.
However, the 'nons' are doing nothing in return.


Off topic, but as a non-smoker, I've given up going to the pub because of the smokers.

fulham911club

2,046 posts

273 months

Tuesday 14th February 2006
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lunarscope said:
Because the smokers are the ones who are expected to give up to accomodate the non-smokers.
However, the 'nons' are doing nothing in return.


Yes they are. They are giving up breathing in other people's filthy smoke.

blindswelledrat

Original Poster:

25,257 posts

263 months

Tuesday 14th February 2006
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Good point AndyMadMak.

Tyre Smoke

23,018 posts

292 months

Tuesday 14th February 2006
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Look chaps, this thread is NOT the smoking thread.

Argue the pros and cons on there.

We want a row about thread rage on here you stupid tossers!