Ladies, some advice please
Discussion
I have long hair, WAIT DON'T RUN OFF!
Thanks
Right iv'e been growing my hair for about 2 years now. Don't ask me why apart from it seemed like a good idea at the time. Now it's wavy, not curly and about to the bottom of my neck at the back and down to my chin at the front.
I know i know, utterly hideous but that's nothe best part. Up untill a week ago i had been grownig a kindof beard...FOR THE LAST YEAR!
Seriously, people at work were either calling me Jesus or asking if i was going to become a muslim.
Now then, there is this nice, petite, pretty, Italian girl at work ( god i don't know why i'm laughing ) and she showed an interest in me. I know, i don't think she's mad and no she isn't blind but anyway she said " so how long are you going to let that beard grow?". I muttered something about seeing how it looked after a while and left it at that.
We both had annual leave at the same time and she made a joke along the lines of going out with me if i shaved and cut my hair. Of course i thought she was sort of kinda maybe a little bit... well lets say i read inbetween the bits inbetween the lines and thought she might be serious. Kindof!
So i went home that night and wittled it down ( my beard ) through about 5 different styles untill it was gone!
Now before i go any further i should point out i am a bit shy and also i don't think dating a person at work would work. So why shave it off then??. Well, the truth is that after A FAIRLY LONG TIME i now want to find another woman. My manager said " did i miss the extra income from begging?" and "was i still living under a bridge now i have lost the beard " just to show you how bad it was
There is this other woman, well girl realy at 21 that i think is one of the most attractive..., no; Beautiful women i have ever seen. She works somewhere that i frequent A LOT
OMG this isn't going well. Anyway i have talked to her on occassion and we seem to get on. Now whilst i pluck up the courage to ask her out i thought, well no, i would like to do something with my hair first. At the moment i look like dougal from magic roundabout on a bad day and some mental rocker ( with glasses ) on a good day.
I realy need to keep the hair at a good lenght though. I just look better with it and 6 months worth of growth ago i was getting compliments and looks galore!. Besides, it hides my ears
So my question is ( after i hope everyone has had a good laugh, i don't mind
)
What long hair styles on men do you like?
PHEEEWWW!
I think i need to take about 4 inches or maybe 3 off.
I was thinking along the lines of this
Now while all you lot are sending google into overdrive with your search for 'crusty the clown' i would appreciate some semi seriouse answers from the ladies.
Gawd, what have i let myself in for?
NO, you can't see a picture ( basically as my pbase account needs paying up ) but if i choose one of your pant wetting selections i will post a pic.
>> Edited by bilko2 on Saturday 18th February 01:49
Thanks
Right iv'e been growing my hair for about 2 years now. Don't ask me why apart from it seemed like a good idea at the time. Now it's wavy, not curly and about to the bottom of my neck at the back and down to my chin at the front.
I know i know, utterly hideous but that's nothe best part
. Up untill a week ago i had been grownig a kindof beard...FOR THE LAST YEAR! Seriously, people at work were either calling me Jesus or asking if i was going to become a muslim.
Now then, there is this nice, petite, pretty, Italian girl at work
( god i don't know why i'm laughing ) and she showed an interest in me. I know, i don't think she's mad and no she isn't blind but anyway she said " so how long are you going to let that beard grow?". I muttered something about seeing how it looked after a while and left it at that. We both had annual leave at the same time and she made a joke along the lines of going out with me if i shaved and cut my hair. Of course i thought she was sort of kinda maybe a little bit... well lets say i read inbetween the bits inbetween the lines and thought she might be serious. Kindof!
So i went home that night and wittled it down ( my beard ) through about 5 different styles untill it was gone!
Now before i go any further i should point out i am a bit shy and also i don't think dating a person at work would work. So why shave it off then??. Well, the truth is that after A FAIRLY LONG TIME
i now want to find another woman. My manager said " did i miss the extra income from begging?" and "was i still living under a bridge now i have lost the beard " just to show you how bad it was There is this other woman, well girl realy at 21 that i think is one of the most attractive..., no; Beautiful women i have ever seen. She works somewhere that i frequent A LOT
OMG this isn't going well. Anyway i have talked to her on occassion and we seem to get on. Now whilst i pluck up the courage to ask her out i thought, well no, i would like to do something with my hair first. At the moment i look like dougal from magic roundabout on a bad day and some mental rocker ( with glasses ) on a good day. I realy need to keep the hair at a good lenght though. I just look better with it and 6 months worth of growth ago
i was getting compliments and looks galore!. Besides, it hides my ears So my question is ( after i hope everyone has had a good laugh
, i don't mind) What long hair styles on men do you like?
PHEEEWWW!
I think i need to take about 4 inches or maybe 3 off.
I was thinking along the lines of this
Now while all you lot are sending google into overdrive with your search for 'crusty the clown' i would appreciate some semi seriouse answers from the ladies.
Gawd, what have i let myself in for?
NO, you can't see a picture ( basically as my pbase account needs paying up
) but if i choose one of your pant wetting selections i will post a pic. >> Edited by bilko2 on Saturday 18th February 01:49
Ok serious reply!
The style needs to suit you so pluck up the courage to go to a proper hairdressers (find a bloke if that's easier for you - they aren't all gay!). Get a style that suits you and then look after it and get it trimmed reguarly.
IMO what us girlies hate most is unkempt men who look like they don't care for themselves. Uncared for hair will make you look scruffy and worse - dirty and no girlie is looking for that in a new bloke!
It sounds like your personality is winning through in that she's able to tell you to get your hair cut so go for it and spruce yourself up.
It'll also do wonders for your confidence!
Good luck!
The style needs to suit you so pluck up the courage to go to a proper hairdressers (find a bloke if that's easier for you - they aren't all gay!). Get a style that suits you and then look after it and get it trimmed reguarly.
IMO what us girlies hate most is unkempt men who look like they don't care for themselves. Uncared for hair will make you look scruffy and worse - dirty and no girlie is looking for that in a new bloke!
It sounds like your personality is winning through in that she's able to tell you to get your hair cut so go for it and spruce yourself up.
It'll also do wonders for your confidence!
Good luck!
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