Advice on "hit and run" by neighbours
Advice on "hit and run" by neighbours
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Stamp

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3,609 posts

267 months

Tuesday 5th August 2008
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Background.
We have a barn conversion with parking in sight but up a short track.
We own the track but have to grant right of way to neighbours. It is a bit bendy and tight for large vehicles. I get a LWB sprinter in just.
The neighbours are moving just around the corner and are using a jeep and horse box.
This morning the front wing on my wifes Audi A3 has been stoved in. (New wing) This obviously occurred when trying to turn the horse box around.
They de nigh any knowledge.
What can we do. We have called her, but she denighs everything, and has in the past apparently.
We said we would involve the police, but that was net by "fine, I am here till 4!"

Swilly

9,699 posts

305 months

Tuesday 5th August 2008
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Involve the police then !!

randlemarcus

13,646 posts

262 months

Tuesday 5th August 2008
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Pop round and get photos of your wifes paint covering the sharp edges of the horsebox, pronto. Not there? Cant see any paint? Then neither will the police, and you'll be a little bit stuffed.

If you're sure it's them, then I'd suggest fencing across the place where they turn round, or using nice big concrete bollards just at axle height.

Stamp

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3,609 posts

267 months

Tuesday 5th August 2008
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But, they probably won't want to know. On our land.
That was a threat to try to get them to back down.

Stamp

Original Poster:

3,609 posts

267 months

Tuesday 5th August 2008
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randlemarcus said:
Pop round and get photos of your wifes paint covering the sharp edges of the horsebox, pronto. Not there?
Trouble is, the box has gone.

bigandclever

14,418 posts

269 months

Tuesday 5th August 2008
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Stamp said:
But, they probably won't want to know. On our land.
That was a threat to try to get them to back down.
Surely criminal damage is criminal damage, wherever it happens?

Maxf

8,444 posts

272 months

Tuesday 5th August 2008
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Order a couple of tons of sand/gravel and block the driveway in such a way that a horsebox can't get down.

V8S

8,582 posts

268 months

Tuesday 5th August 2008
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Stamp said:
This morning the front wing on my wifes Audi A3 has been stoved in. (New wing)
Are you saying they stoved in a new wing on the A3?

So your wife has shown prior navigational problems?

Maybe the cause was closer to home (women drivers, etc). smile

Stamp

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3,609 posts

267 months

Tuesday 5th August 2008
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V8S said:
Stamp said:
This morning the front wing on my wifes Audi A3 has been stoved in. (New wing)
Are you saying they stoved in a new wing on the A3?

So your wife has shown prior navigational problems?

Maybe the cause was closer to home (women drivers, etc). smile
No, sorry, it will need a new wing.
The car os on a 07 plate, and was spotless before this

thewave

14,877 posts

240 months

Tuesday 5th August 2008
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I'd do as above. Check the wing for signs of paint, then trace the horsebox.

If there's a match..Bingo.

Sir Jonny

630 posts

241 months

Tuesday 5th August 2008
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I would take measurements of the horse box and work out exactly how the damage occurred. Then take photos and go onto the small claims court website, fill in the paperwork, state paint samples as evidence, print it then take it round to your good neighbour.

Inform her that you will submit the paperwork if she does not admit responsibility and pay a reasonable repair cost now.

If she still continues to refuse to pay I would be very tempted to signinifanctly damage her car and deny it, tell local gypsies that you have a horse box that you don't want anymore, block her in and hide with a camera to get evidence of the next accident, screw up her house sale by creating an access dispute, report her to the RSPCA for animal cruelty, remove her car wheels and sand them bald before putting back on and report her....

If you are sure it is her and she is that much of a bh then I would go quite a long way to make my point. I think people like her are the scum of the earth.

Hope that helps!

Stamp

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3,609 posts

267 months

Tuesday 5th August 2008
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thewave said:
I'd do as above. Check the wing for signs of paint, then trace the horsebox.

If there's a match..Bingo.
There is a small amount of white paint on the wing, but not much. The rain doesn't help either.

missliv

191 posts

226 months

Tuesday 5th August 2008
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Stamp said:
thewave said:
I'd do as above. Check the wing for signs of paint, then trace the horsebox.

If there's a match..Bingo.
There is a small amount of white paint on the wing, but not much. The rain doesn't help either.
Photos now. And then send some innocent kiddies round to feed the horse a lethal cocktail or ragwort and yew. They'll never need the horsebox again.

Burnham

3,668 posts

290 months

Tuesday 5th August 2008
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Sir Jonny said:
some very good stuff...
Definately block their access though, that ones a no brainer.

Neil_H

15,418 posts

282 months

Tuesday 5th August 2008
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Stamp said:
This obviously occurred when trying to turn the horse box around.
Hang on, how do you know? It's a fairly big assumption to make. Unless you have a witness I'm not sure you can do anything but rely on their honesty, or fall out with them. TBH I'm of the opinion that a happy neighbourhood is more important than a damaged wing.

Stamp said:
de nigh any knowledge.
The word you're looking for is 'deny'.

Thudd

3,100 posts

238 months

Tuesday 5th August 2008
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Neil_H said:
The word you're looking for is 'deny'.
De-neigh?

I second the "call the cops" approach.

blindswelledrat

25,257 posts

263 months

Tuesday 5th August 2008
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Neil_H said:
Stamp said:
This obviously occurred when trying to turn the horse box around.
Hang on, how do you know? It's a fairly big assumption to make. Unless you have a witness I'm not sure you can do anything but rely on their honesty, or fall out with them. TBH I'm of the opinion that a happy neighbourhood is more important than a damaged wing.

Stamp said:
de nigh any knowledge.
The word you're looking for is 'deny'.
My reading of it is that they are the only ones wo come up the track, so while I agree about the 'happy neighborhood' thing, it doesn't wrok if it is a one-way thing.

Also agree on 'de nigh'. Absolutely extraordinary thing to say.

Sir Jonny

630 posts

241 months

Tuesday 5th August 2008
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Neil_H said:
Stamp said:
This obviously occurred when trying to turn the horse box around.
Hang on, how do you know? It's a fairly big assumption to make. Unless you have a witness I'm not sure you can do anything but rely on their honesty, or fall out with them. TBH I'm of the opinion that a happy neighbourhood is more important than a damaged wing.

Stamp said:
de nigh any knowledge.
The word you're looking for is 'deny'.
I don't want to start an huge keyboard war and I do agree with the lack of evidence but to say that a happy neighbour is worth more than a damaged wing makes my blood boil! She obvoiusly does not value neighbourly releations so why should you.

People letting others get away with such stuff just allows them to take the piss! If you let people get away with stuff they will just go further next time and then you end up in a country with no values, honour, rules etc!!!!

I cannot believe that someone would pay many hundreds of pounds to avoid upsetting someone that acts in such a way! I am LIVID!!!!!!

Roo.

11,504 posts

238 months

Tuesday 5th August 2008
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They're moving out.

Call the Police AND do the small claims website stuff as well. They're not going to be your neighbours after 4.00pm.

Just go for it.

V8mate

45,899 posts

220 months

Tuesday 5th August 2008
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blindswelledrat said:
Also agree on 'de nigh'. Absolutely extraordinary thing to say.
Uh oh. De end of da world is nigh smile

Edited by V8mate on Tuesday 5th August 11:43