Does being mental and violent run in the family?!
Does being mental and violent run in the family?!
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Emeye

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9,781 posts

254 months

Thursday 14th August 2008
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I know a guy whose dad was always beating the kids, one brother murdered a family member and the other one has been in prison for GBH.

He has now started acting weird - is there a chance he could be dangerous?

Cheers.

Edited by Emeye on Thursday 14th August 22:52

schmalex

13,616 posts

237 months

Thursday 14th August 2008
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yes Mud blood is in the genes unfortunately.

TheCarpetCleaner

7,294 posts

233 months

Thursday 14th August 2008
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The chav family that made my old streets life hell a few years back certainly fit that description.

Horrible parents, horrible feral children.

Snake the Sniper

2,544 posts

232 months

Friday 15th August 2008
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It may just be a case of being raised in a funny family. It could be a wonky gene that makes me people all bleary eyed and have a penchant for doing odd things. A friends Aunt always went a bit funny around full moon.....

RobM77

35,349 posts

265 months

Friday 15th August 2008
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The scientific answer to that is that most traits can be genetic, yes. Nurture also plays a big part, and there's a good chance that someone brought up in a violent family will be violent as well.

Notice the use of the words "can" and "good chance" there - nothing's certain, but sadly it does make it more likely, yes.

LukeBird

17,170 posts

240 months

Friday 15th August 2008
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Run like the wind!!
He'll no doubt follow on like daddy! frown

collateral

7,238 posts

249 months

Friday 15th August 2008
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An interesting question of nature vs nurture.

shout Paging Dr Sick Rebuker Man!!

drivin_me_nuts

17,949 posts

242 months

Friday 15th August 2008
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Depends - sometimes the subconscious mind will follow the route of the parent... daddy was violent therefore to be a 'real man' I must also be violent (by way of a very very simple example) or alternatively the other path may be followed in which case he could completely reject his upbringing and follow a completely different path. Nothing is for certain, nothing is sure and if a person is willing to change very often they can.

Shay HTFC

3,588 posts

220 months

Friday 15th August 2008
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I would say it is the upbringing.

One of my good friends was adopted at a very early age into quite a middle class family (both parents teachers).
He's finished uni and is doing very well for himself, but I know that his birth father at least did jail time for violent behaviour. My friend shows nothing of the sort and I can't imagine him 'turning that way'.

I would say it's just picking up traits as a kid. When you are young and impresionable and see your father acting in a certain way, it's going to rub off and you and possibly make you act in a certain way later in life.

jeff m

4,066 posts

289 months

Friday 15th August 2008
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My Father wasn't smile

JazD

284 posts

219 months

Friday 15th August 2008
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Emeye said:
I know a guy whose dad was always beating the kids, one brother murdered a family member and the other one has been in prison for GBH.

He has now started acting weird - is there a chance he could be dangerous?

Cheers.

Edited by Emeye on Thursday 14th August 22:52
There is some evidence linking genetics and mental disorders (eg psychotic disorders such as schizophrenia) but its an ongoing debate. Its possible that antisocial or other personality disorder runs through the family and primary and secondary diagnoses can occur concurrently. Depends on what acting weird means?

Heskey

4,048 posts

224 months

Friday 15th August 2008
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It's mostly psychological and true that kids generally follow their parent's example; no matter what that was.

Despite experiencing the horror of being sexually abused as a child themselves, most domestic sexual abuse cases are people who were abused themselves.

You would think it would be the other way round wouldn't you? But in some instances the saying 'monkey see money do' is true.