gentleman, some advice please

[not sure]

Before anyone asks, yes this is a serious question and a different profile from normal but I would like to try and keep things private or as private as can be by posting this!

I will get straight to the point by saying I am not an ugly man and have many friends but I am thinking of visiting a 'working girl'. I know the majority of you will shout 'you sad b?$!@%d get a girl friend' or one of many other answers I have already thought of myself but at the moment, for me it’s not as simple as that.
Going back a few years I was never short of girl friends, it was more a case of short of time to see them. I know that may sound a bit 'big headed' but with hand on hart I can say that it is true. However after a few difficult years of serious family problems (now I’m very single) and a real health scare myself (spending time in hospital having a lump removed - and thanks god its all ok now) my confidence has taken a real knock and I am looking for what I believe may be a quick fix to some of my problems by visiting a working girl.
I know that you may say something like 'get yourself out and meet new people' or 'it’s not that difficult to get shag’. I know it maybe be but to add to the problem all of my friends are now married or on the way to be so its not as if I have any single mates I can waste weekends with trying to see who can pull first and all the other usual rubbish that go with it.
Now I know that may sound like excuses and in a way i know they may be. So what I am asking for is some (serious) advice from anyone who may be in a similar situation or visited a working girl before and is it a good or bad thing?
Please no p!ss taking as thing as bad enough at the moment without you all joining in.

[ih8thisname]

If you get drunk and spend £2.5K I aint helping pay for it!

[Silent1]

not sure said:

Before anyone asks, yes this is a serious question and a different profile from normal but I would like to try and keep things private or as private as can be by posting this!

I will get straight to the point by saying I am not an ugly man and have many friends but I am thinking of visiting a 'working girl'. I know the majority of you will shout 'you sad b?$!@%d get a girl friend' or one of many other answers I have already thought of myself but at the moment, for me it’s not as simple as that.
Going back a few years I was never short of girl friends, it was more a case of short of time to see them. I know that may sound a bit 'big headed' but with hand on hart I can say that it is true. However after a few difficult years of serious family problems (now I’m very single) and a real health scare myself (spending time in hospital having a lump removed - and thanks god its all ok now) my confidence has taken a real knock and I am looking for what I believe may be a quick fix to some of my problems by visiting a working girl.
I know that you may say something like 'get yourself out and meet new people' or 'it’s not that difficult to get shag’. I know it maybe be but to add to the problem all of my friends are now married or on the way to be so its not as if I have any single mates I can waste weekends with trying to see who can pull first and all the other usual rubbish that go with it.
Now I know that may sound like excuses and in a way i know they may be. So what I am asking for is some (serious) advice from anyone who may be in a similar situation or visited a working girl before and is it a good or bad thing?
Please no p!ss taking as thing as bad enough at the moment without you all joining in.

Don't bother with a slapper, go to a local night club and get pissed, you'll end up with something but it'll be free. FFS.

[chris_w666]

I am sure you could get yourself sorted and back on the market, so to speak, with a little effort.

I am sure that a few people on here are very not against the idea of visiting working girls and though its alien to me I don't think its as seedy as it used to be seen.

Good luck turning things around though, I hope you're looking for a confidence boost rather than an instant solution though.

[Sheets Tabuer]

I think your confidence will be boosted by going out, chatting to and meeting normal women rather than someone you pay

[forsure]

'I believe that sex is one of the most beautiful, natural, wholesome things that money can buy.'

Steve Martin.


'Sex without love is an empty experience, but as empty experiences go, it's one of the best'.

Woody Allen.

[Justayellowbadge]

What solutions to problems do you believe will be solved with a brass?

If you want to EYB you can do it surprisingly easily in many bars/clubs..

It's a shag. It won't necessarily change anything, whether you pay for it or not.

[Mobile Chicane]

Go for it.

If you want to get out of the desert, you'll need to ride a few camels.

[forsure]

Seriously though,

I know several people who have ventured into that area and had a lot of fun.

It's obviously no good if your looking for a relationship, but it does provide guaranteed 'action' with someone experienced and willing.

[dazco]

If it was the kind of thing that you were into

A; you would have done it already
B; you would not be on here asking.

Dont bother. If you are not dieing, pretend you are WTF have you got to lose. Go gettem cowboy, feint heart nevr won fair maiden.

[Digger.]

A working girl will not provide any long term support. Hopefully you have some friends who know about your recent history, and can help get u sorted! Chin Up etc. . .

[Ganglandboss]

Don't do it mate! Visiting a brass is only the answer for full ball sacks - not overcoming insecurities.

However, if you must, this guy knows somewhere that sounds okay: - http://www.pistonheads.com/gassing/topic.asp?h=0&a...

[speedy_thrills]

Firstly I can’t really see a problem with this as long as it really does help you (I personally don’t think it would but I’ll reserve my judgement).

not sure said:

I know it maybe be but to add to the problem all of my friends are now married or on the way to be so its not as if I have any single mates I can waste weekends with trying to see who can pull first and all the other usual rubbish that go with it.

Time to make some new friends IMO. There is no doubt that gaining the approval of a woman (strangely usually by pretending you don't seek it) is an ego boost for a man but it's the thrill of the hunt that really makes us more confident as people.

[outlaw biker]

I have done that once on a very drunk stag do. It was bloody good fun. Based on that, I wouldn't not recommend it. Although very worrying afterwards.

[dazco]

I have had very little experience of hookers but I would suggest in your state they will either make you feel worthless or pretend to like you and strip every asset you have

[The Moose]

Ganglandboss said:

Don't do it mate! Visiting a brass is only the answer for full ball sacks - not overcoming insecurities.

However, if you must, this guy knows somewhere that sounds okay: - http://www.pistonheads.com/gassing/topic.asp?h=0&a...

was wondering how long until these two posts were tied together!!!

The Moose

[outlaw biker]

dazco said:

I have had very little experience of hookers but I would suggest in your state they will either make you feel worthless or pretend to like you and strip every asset you have

I don't agree with that. Its exactly the same as going to a lap dancing club, except there's more on offer. Its not not like they ask you for your life story and try to make you fall in love with them.

[speedy_thrills]

outlaw biker said:

I have done that once on a very drunk stag do. It was bloody good fun. Based on that, I wouldn't not recommend it. Although very worrying afterwards.

[outlaw biker]

speedy_thrills said:

outlaw biker said:

I have done that once on a very drunk stag do. It was bloody good fun. Based on that, I wouldn't not recommend it. Although very worrying afterwards.

Exactly how it was meant to read. It was good fun. I enjoyed it. I couldn't/wouldn't not recommend it. Obviously you'd have to be picky about the service provider.

[SS HSV]

Getting a girl is not hard.

• Women respond to confident males which clearly you are not so this is the first thing you should try and resolve rather than getting a brass. This will make your issues worse IMO

• Speak quietly and take time to listen to them taking over in conversation when they give you an opportunity.

• Re-create yourself Put some spin on your persona and try and be more positive when you are on a date - no one likes to hear tales of woe it's a

• Be cool and relaxed - see if you can find a funny thing that has recently happened to you - if you can make her laugh you are half-way there.

• Can't find a decent place to look for a girl? Try an adult dating site; there are plenty of them. Don't expect just because you find a good looker that she will have any interest in you because internet dating sites don't give you chemistry - you only find out when you meet. It's good fun and more light hearted!