Am I being unreasonable?
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I have been doing a bit of DIY in the garden today. This involved drilling a few holes in some concrete for about five minutes, and yes, it was noisy, what with hammer action and all that. No sooner had I finished than some neighbour from across the back starts shouting at me to stop, not in a reasoned polite manner, but full volume foul languaged shouting. Not had that around here before, it's a fairly nice area and we don't get this sort of thing. Anyway, I had stopped, so it didn't really matter. Then, a little later, had to jigsaw through a couple of bits of timber, again a bit noisy, but only for a few minutes. More abuse comes from across the back. I had finished anyway, so didn't respond.
Thing is though, I made a bit of noise for less than ten minutes in the middle of the day, to get a few jobs done.
Is that really so unreasonable?
Thing is though, I made a bit of noise for less than ten minutes in the middle of the day, to get a few jobs done.
Is that really so unreasonable?
Balmoral Green said:
I have been doing a bit of DIY in the garden today. This involved drilling a few holes in some concrete for about five minutes, and yes, it was noisy, what with hammer action and all that. No sooner had I finished than some neighbour from across the back starts shouting at me to stop, not in a reasoned polite manner, but full volume foul languaged shouting. Not had that around here before, it's a fairly nice area and we don't get this sort of thing. Anyway, I had stopped, so it didn't really matter. Then, a little later, had to jigsaw through a couple of bits of timber, again a bit noisy, but only for a few minutes. More abuse comes from across the back. I had finished anyway, so didn't respond.
Thing is though, I made a bit of noise for less than ten minutes in the middle of the day, to get a few jobs done.
Is that really so unreasonable?
No - show him what is unreasonable and repeat the process at midnight.....Thing is though, I made a bit of noise for less than ten minutes in the middle of the day, to get a few jobs done.
Is that really so unreasonable?
( poster holds no liability for any outcomes)
Edited by Mr_annie_vxr on Sunday 31st August 13:50
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ks is it. He should wind his neck in. I put up with car alarms, barking dogs, chainsaws, mowers, and all kinds of other noisy s
t and I don't complain. Quid pro quo when I need to tune up a car, I will happily rev the tits off it if necessary for a few minutes without feeling guilty.
ok I felt a little guilty when working on the Trans Am and the TVR
ks is it. He should wind his neck in. I put up with car alarms, barking dogs, chainsaws, mowers, and all kinds of other noisy s
t and I don't complain. Quid pro quo when I need to tune up a car, I will happily rev the tits off it if necessary for a few minutes without feeling guilty.ok I felt a little guilty when working on the Trans Am and the TVR
Mr_annie_vxr said:
Balmoral Green said:
I have been doing a bit of DIY in the garden today. This involved drilling a few holes in some concrete for about five minutes, and yes, it was noisy, what with hammer action and all that. No sooner had I finished than some neighbour from across the back starts shouting at me to stop, not in a reasoned polite manner, but full volume foul languaged shouting. Not had that around here before, it's a fairly nice area and we don't get this sort of thing. Anyway, I had stopped, so it didn't really matter. Then, a little later, had to jigsaw through a couple of bits of timber, again a bit noisy, but only for a few minutes. More abuse comes from across the back. I had finished anyway, so didn't respond.
Thing is though, I made a bit of noise for less than ten minutes in the middle of the day, to get a few jobs done.
Is that really so unreasonable?
No - show him what is unreasonable and repeat the process at midnight.....Thing is though, I made a bit of noise for less than ten minutes in the middle of the day, to get a few jobs done.
Is that really so unreasonable?
( poster holds no liability for any outcomes)
Edited by Mr_annie_vxr on Sunday 31st August 13:50

No, that's just normal activity that any householder may need to do from time to time. Shouting the odds and using obscene language instead of raising any concerns in a civilised way is potentially threatening behaviour however, or behaviour likely to result in a breach of the peace.
Folk are just so bloody intolerant and ignorant these days... I've got one brewing at the moment. Share a communal parking area with three other households and next door has unoffically 'extended' their garden onto what was originally laid out and planned as their allocated parking space. However, instead of accepting that they now have a bigger garden and must park elsewhere (ie on the road where there is not generally a problem), they insist on parking on the manouevering area that allows access to the other spaces, including mine (and my workshop etc). Obviously enough (you would think), this can make it difficult/impossible to gain access but polite requests to move obstructions are now being met with abuse and threats... add this to recent incident where my car has been covered with brick dust from a disc cutter being used next to it, and cement splashes from other building activity and we're heading for a serious fall out. Why is this stuff so difficult for some?
Folk are just so bloody intolerant and ignorant these days... I've got one brewing at the moment. Share a communal parking area with three other households and next door has unoffically 'extended' their garden onto what was originally laid out and planned as their allocated parking space. However, instead of accepting that they now have a bigger garden and must park elsewhere (ie on the road where there is not generally a problem), they insist on parking on the manouevering area that allows access to the other spaces, including mine (and my workshop etc). Obviously enough (you would think), this can make it difficult/impossible to gain access but polite requests to move obstructions are now being met with abuse and threats... add this to recent incident where my car has been covered with brick dust from a disc cutter being used next to it, and cement splashes from other building activity and we're heading for a serious fall out. Why is this stuff so difficult for some?

I avoid power tools on Sundays. If I had to do something very noisy on a Sunday, I would pop round to the neighbors before hand and let them know I was only going to disturb them for ten minutes or so. Most neighbors are grateful for the consideration.
In answer to your original post, yes you were being unreasonable in not warning the neighbors before hand. However, this does not warrant the expletives from your neighbor.
All in my opinion.
pp
In answer to your original post, yes you were being unreasonable in not warning the neighbors before hand. However, this does not warrant the expletives from your neighbor.
All in my opinion.
pp
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