Making the Red Mist disappear?
Making the Red Mist disappear?
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Stang

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1,754 posts

237 months

Thursday 2nd October 2008
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What works for you guy's? Currently have it bad right now due to some two timing little scrote who has played with peoples emotions and upset my family at a time they really don't need it, and now I find it hard to sleep without thinking about seriously laying into the scrote and making myself feel better. It's been a few years since I have felt rage like it laugh

My old dear heads in to hospital tomorrow for her first chemo session and I don't need to have these feelings right now and feel stty that I do.

Quick fix anyone??

frown

Nocebo

279 posts

222 months

Thursday 2nd October 2008
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wk yourself into a coma?

Stang

Original Poster:

1,754 posts

237 months

Thursday 2nd October 2008
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Nocebo said:
wk yourself into a coma?
Won't help but ta you made me chuckle. Looks like I will be here for the night laugh

spydersingh

698 posts

245 months

Thursday 2nd October 2008
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This forum is full of friendly advice!

Not sure where you live but go for a walk. It sounds like a gayer thing to do but it helps clear the mind. Better still even try a mild jog. Again, quite good for clearing the mind.

I recently bought Call of Duty 4 on PS3 an when I've had a shi1tty day, nothing beats a bit of shoot em up for de-stress.

HTH

Following on the wk idea tho, you could call one of those ads in the back of the paper for a massage with a happy ending!

Stang

Original Poster:

1,754 posts

237 months

Thursday 2nd October 2008
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spydersingh said:
This forum is full of friendly advice!

Not sure where you live but go for a walk. It sounds like a gayer thing to do but it helps clear the mind. Better still even try a mild jog. Again, quite good for clearing the mind.

I recently bought Call of Duty 4 on PS3 an when I've had a shi1tty day, nothing beats a bit of shoot em up for de-stress.

HTH

Following on the wk idea tho, you could call one of those ads in the back of the paper for a massage with a happy ending!
Erm Scotland. Bloody freezing the now so no walking for me. However I have GRID on the PS3. HHmmm...

Dale19

520 posts

222 months

Thursday 2nd October 2008
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Comedy.

Find some material on youtube of your favorite comedian and see if that cheers you up, get some Frankie Boyle on.

Laughter helped me keep my cool when i was started on last week, laughter is good.

spydersingh

698 posts

245 months

Thursday 2nd October 2008
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Scotland? If you went for a walk, you'd probably freeze your nuts off hence calling off any wking plans!

try tube 8 . com for some material! very NSFW

outlaw biker

2,458 posts

226 months

Thursday 2nd October 2008
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Scottish women hehe Nearly as fearsome as Irish women.

Nobody is worth your anger. Clear your mind. Don't dwell on it. Don't focus your anger. Concentrate on other more important things.

kit80

4,764 posts

217 months

Thursday 2nd October 2008
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Vodka and Coke?

trampagne

1,211 posts

220 months

Thursday 2nd October 2008
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Stang said:
What works for you guy's? Currently have it bad right now due to some two timing little scrote who has played with peoples emotions and upset my family at a time they really don't need it, and now I find it hard to sleep without thinking about seriously laying into the scrote and making myself feel better. It's been a few years since I have felt rage like it laugh

My old dear heads in to hospital tomorrow for her first chemo session and I don't need to have these feelings right now and feel stty that I do.

Quick fix anyone??

frown
Read PH for an hour, push your keyboard into your sphincter and ram your face into the monitor repeatedly as many seem to do, its fun.

Stang

Original Poster:

1,754 posts

237 months

Thursday 2nd October 2008
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spydersingh said:
Scotland? If you went for a walk, you'd probably freeze your nuts off hence calling off any wking plans!

try tube 8 . com for some material! very NSFW
biglaugh

I don't have nuts.

rofl


Rob.

17,911 posts

248 months

Thursday 2nd October 2008
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This works for me

Edited by Rob. on Thursday 2nd October 00:24

drivin_me_nuts

17,949 posts

241 months

Thursday 2nd October 2008
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Work out why you are pissed off - the real reason why it is that it bugs you and work on that. Be left brained about the whole thing i.e. work on the logic side: what can you do about it? why does it piss you off? what's the worst bit? logic logic logic all the way. Them work on the right side - the worst bit: how does it make you feel? Work on the 'feelings' bit.

Get the two sides to agree on a result that is a win-win and the issue will seem far less bothersome.

Alternative, get pissed and you'll feel a heap load better smile

Your choice

Stang

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1,754 posts

237 months

Thursday 2nd October 2008
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outlaw biker said:
Scottish women hehe Nearly as fearsome as Irish women.

Nobody is worth your anger. Clear your mind. Don't dwell on it. Don't focus your anger. Concentrate on other more important things.
Trying very hard. My focus should be on my mum and what she is going through but goddammit it's not easy.

spydersingh

698 posts

245 months

Thursday 2nd October 2008
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Stang said:
spydersingh said:
Scotland? If you went for a walk, you'd probably freeze your nuts off hence calling off any wking plans!

try tube 8 . com for some material! very NSFW
biglaugh

I don't have nuts.

rofl
ROFL! I now realise looking at your profile, that nuts aren't your thing! Nice car, is it a Rousche (sp?) variety?

BTW Not sure how the wk thing will work for you then, sorry!

Penny-lope

13,645 posts

223 months

Thursday 2nd October 2008
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Stang...are you home, or on the rust bucket?

If home....then alcohol, and lots of it biggrin

Try and forget about the wee ste, your mum's much more important just now. He can get his hiding at a later date hehe

mrsxllifts

2,501 posts

229 months

Thursday 2nd October 2008
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Quick maths equation. Is some useless, worthless piece of scum who you don't even care about worth more than your missus, who you obviously care about otherwise you wouldn't be angry? Is that arse more worthy of your rage than devoting your emotions in to helping your good lady and giving her all the support she needs? No? Then hope he picks on the wrong person one night inthe pub, give your missus a hug and chill. People like that are no worth getting a mist about, there more important and closer things in life to worry about.

HTH

Sorry, re-read original post, I meant your mum.

Edited by mrsxllifts on Thursday 2nd October 00:31

Stang

Original Poster:

1,754 posts

237 months

Thursday 2nd October 2008
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Penny-lope said:
Stang...are you home, or on the rust bucket?

If home....then alcohol, and lots of it biggrin

Try and forget about the wee ste, your mum's much more important just now. He can get his hiding at a later date hehe
At home thank god. I think I would be comitting mass murder if I was out there right now.

I am not a drinker Penny-lope..........

Aaahh nuts that's where I am going wrong laugh

Penny-lope

13,645 posts

223 months

Thursday 2nd October 2008
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Stang said:
Penny-lope said:
Stang...are you home, or on the rust bucket?

If home....then alcohol, and lots of it biggrin

Try and forget about the wee ste, your mum's much more important just now. He can get his hiding at a later date hehe
At home thank god. I think I would be comitting mass murder if I was out there right now.

I am not a drinker Penny-lope..........

Aaahh nuts that's where I am going wrong laugh
You work in the oil industry, and you don't drink yikes

Well in that case, it has to be chocolate, or ice cream biggrin

Stang

Original Poster:

1,754 posts

237 months

Thursday 2nd October 2008
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spydersingh said:
Stang said:
spydersingh said:
Scotland? If you went for a walk, you'd probably freeze your nuts off hence calling off any wking plans!

try tube 8 . com for some material! very NSFW
biglaugh

I don't have nuts.

rofl
ROFL! I now realise looking at your profile, that nuts aren't your thing! Nice car, is it a Rousche (sp?) variety?

BTW Not sure how the wk thing will work for you then, sorry!
Aye you have been no help laugh

Bog standard GT. Nothing fancy I'm afraid.