Leading on from confidence with girls thread....

[AlecG]

Whats your approach to ladies?

I live and go out drinking with two girls, one of which gets hit on a lot, and the blokes all fail miserably, from chat up lines, to offers to buy her a drink they all fail...

So, whats the best approach on a girl in a bar?! I mean is it really just a case of going over and talking?

[Einion Yrth]

AlecG said:

I mean is it really just a case of going over and talking?

As opposed to what? Juggling? Lighting your farts?

[threesixty]

why dont you ask her?

[andy400]

They ALL fail!?!?

What's her problem?

[digger_R]

worst I fancy my lesbo mate thread ever ....

[Adenauer]

andy400 said:

They ALL fail!?!?

What's her problem?

Rugmuncher

[captainzep]

A mate of mine who worked in double glazing telesales said his colleagues would approach pulling the same as their work.

-Don't be fazed by rejection, just move on to the next potential lucky customer. He said these chaps rarely left the pub/club alone.

[Mc Lovin]

before i met the wife i'd avoid women like that, i hate stuck up bhes.

[CJ24]

AlecG said:

Whats your approach to ladies?

I live and go out drinking with two girls, one of which gets hit on a lot, and the blokes all fail miserably, from chat up lines, to offers to buy her a drink they all fail...

So, whats the best approach on a girl in a bar?! I mean is it really just a case of going over and talking?

How I break it down..

Going over to them - thats the hard part for you. Do nothing, gain nothing. Do you care?

Talking to them - you dont really talk, you just ask questions that give you more answers from them..

Looking interested, she'll tell you more and feel you're not just after her.. maybe you are and maybe you're not...and who know's you might make a good friend.. or get laid,.. worst case, you're 1 of the other 30 blokes that have crashed and burned.. least you wont be alone

[Monki]

chloroform

[AlecG]

Not trying to get into her knickers no!

I've not done any approaching in the past as I've been in long term relationships since a long time ago, but single now, so looking for inspiration!

[mercemployee]

You "just" have to assume that all the women in a particular bar want to sleep with you.

Then you'll automatically go round smiling at them all.


THEN it's just a case of waiting for one to smile back


I've been waiting years

[The Curn]

Mc Lovin said:

before i met the wife i'd avoid women like that, i hate stuck up bhes.

How has your success been with them since meeting the wife?

[Mc Lovin]

AlecG said:

Not trying to get into her knickers no!

I've not done any approaching in the past as I've been in long term relationships since a long time ago, but single now, so looking for inspiration!

you wont find it on here mate

[SirTainly]

Chloroform them when they aren't looking and then drag them off by the hair to my cave


Hitting them with a club first is soooo passe

[Neil_H]

I find a large net is very effective.

[Mc Lovin]

The Curn said:

Mc Lovin said:

before i met the wife i'd avoid women like that, i hate stuck up bhes.

How has your success been with them since meeting the wife?

unfortunatly very good, guess its sods law? It also may have something to do with the fact i know im married so i dont bother?

[The Curn]

Mc Lovin said:

The Curn said:

Mc Lovin said:

before i met the wife i'd avoid women like that, i hate stuck up bhes.

How has your success been with them since meeting the wife?

unfortunatly very good, guess its sods law? It also may have something to do with the fact i know im married so i dont bother?

I'll agree with that. They seem far more interested when you show no interest in them. Quite perverse really!

[carter711]

I see a gorgeous girl everyday on the train to London and i'd really like to speak to her, but i'm really not sure how to go about it.
Im sure she has noticed me before and we seem to race each other to the underground.
Any ideas? (apart from chloroform, rohypnol etc!)

[Mc Lovin]

The Curn said:

Mc Lovin said:

The Curn said:

Mc Lovin said:

before i met the wife i'd avoid women like that, i hate stuck up bhes.

How has your success been with them since meeting the wife?

unfortunatly very good, guess its sods law? It also may have something to do with the fact i know im married so i dont bother?

I'll agree with that. They seem far more interested when you show no interest in them. Quite perverse really!

thats women for you, then when you marry them "why dont you show an interest in me?" then when you do "oh im sorry i've been shagging the milkman, your too clingy"