Cat Behaviour Help
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84 months

Tuesday 28th October 2008
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I agreed to take on my secretarys' 4 year old female cat about 6 months ago as she was going abroad, i already have an 11 year old male mog.

For a while they used to hiss at each other then after about 3 months, now largely tolerate each other, eat together etc.

Up until last week they both seemed fairly comfortable sleeping on my bed at the same time, yet over the last week or so the female cat won't come into my bedroom and when placed on the bed leaves immediately.

There's no evidence i can find that the male cat has been spraying or anything and she's not scared of him, so i'm quite puzzled?

Any thoughts from the feline experts?


captainzep

13,306 posts

222 months

Tuesday 28th October 2008
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digimeistter said:
Any thoughts from the feline experts?
-Nerp, I hate cats.

Tell me about your secretary though?

Soovy

35,829 posts

301 months

Tuesday 28th October 2008
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Is your seccy fit?

captainzep

13,306 posts

222 months

Tuesday 28th October 2008
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Soovy said:
Is your seccy fit?
Get. In the feckin' queue.

Heskey

4,048 posts

223 months

Tuesday 28th October 2008
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digimeistter said:
There's no evidence i can find that the male cat has been spraying or anything and she's not scared of him, so i'm quite puzzled?

Any thoughts from the feline experts?
Male cat tried to break her back doors in and she didn't like it?

filski666

3,874 posts

222 months

Tuesday 28th October 2008
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captainzep said:
Soovy said:
Is your seccy fit?
Get. In the feckin' queue.
I'm third! - yuck.......porridge stirring! Maybe I'll leave it a couple of days...

Moreymach

1,029 posts

296 months

Tuesday 28th October 2008
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Cats are fickle, or at least ours are. Every whip n while they get a new favourite place. I wouldnt worry.

Anyway.. 'bout that secretary ....

captainzep

13,306 posts

222 months

Tuesday 28th October 2008
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filski666 said:
captainzep said:
Soovy said:
Is your seccy fit?
Get. In the feckin' queue.
I'm third! - yuck.......porridge stirring! Maybe I'll leave it a couple of days...
Fine. Probably for the best.

Leave me a coffee mug or desk tidy or something and I'll keep your place for you.

filski666

3,874 posts

222 months

Tuesday 28th October 2008
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captainzep said:
filski666 said:
captainzep said:
Soovy said:
Is your seccy fit?
Get. In the feckin' queue.
I'm third! - yuck.......porridge stirring! Maybe I'll leave it a couple of days...
Fine. Probably for the best.

Leave me a coffee mug or desk tidy or something and I'll keep your place for you.
give it a quick wash as you leave? - cheers

captainzep

13,306 posts

222 months

Tuesday 28th October 2008
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Moreymach said:
Anyway.. 'bout that secretary ....
[looks around]

Hey.

Take a step back, that's filski's place.

filski666

3,874 posts

222 months

Tuesday 28th October 2008
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captainzep said:
Moreymach said:
Anyway.. 'bout that secretary ....
[looks around]

Hey.

Take a step back, that's filski's place.
if we find out the secretary is called Sebastian - I reserve the right to abandon my third place and run like fk in the other direction..ok?

captainzep

13,306 posts

222 months

Tuesday 28th October 2008
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filski666 said:
captainzep said:
filski666 said:
captainzep said:
Soovy said:
Is your seccy fit?
Get. In the feckin' queue.
I'm third! - yuck.......porridge stirring! Maybe I'll leave it a couple of days...
Fine. Probably for the best.

Leave me a coffee mug or desk tidy or something and I'll keep your place for you.
give it a quick wash as you leave? - cheers
Soovy's before you.

Jesus. We're all British, I shouldn't have to manage a mother-flippin' queue.

filski666

3,874 posts

222 months

Tuesday 28th October 2008
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captainzep said:
filski666 said:
captainzep said:
filski666 said:
captainzep said:
Soovy said:
Is your seccy fit?
Get. In the feckin' queue.
I'm third! - yuck.......porridge stirring! Maybe I'll leave it a couple of days...
Fine. Probably for the best.

Leave me a coffee mug or desk tidy or something and I'll keep your place for you.
give it a quick wash as you leave? - cheers
Soovy's before you.

Jesus. We're all British, I shouldn't have to manage a mother-flippin' queue.
the queue doesn't need managing - just the cleaning - remember to leave it as you would like to find it! - that goes for you too, Soovy!

captainzep

13,306 posts

222 months

Tuesday 28th October 2008
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filski666 said:
captainzep said:
Moreymach said:
Anyway.. 'bout that secretary ....
[looks around]

Hey.

Take a step back, that's filski's place.
if we find out the secretary is called Sebastian - I reserve the right to abandon my third place and run like fk in the other direction..ok?
If that turns out to be the case I'll need your help to viscously beat up the OP. I'm not Jackie Chan you know.

-Where can we get one of those brazier things that postmen stand by when they're on strike? Its nippy today.

filski666

3,874 posts

222 months

Tuesday 28th October 2008
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captainzep said:
filski666 said:
captainzep said:
Moreymach said:
Anyway.. 'bout that secretary ....
[looks around]

Hey.

Take a step back, that's filski's place.
if we find out the secretary is called Sebastian - I reserve the right to abandon my third place and run like fk in the other direction..ok?
If that turns out to be the case I'll need your help to viscously beat up the OP. I'm not Jackie Chan you know.

-Where can we get one of those brazier things that postmen stand by when they're on strike? Its nippy today.
I am sure there are plenty left lying around at Longbridge - I'll have a look next time I am up there

deviant

4,316 posts

240 months

Tuesday 28th October 2008
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Cats do odd things so I wouldnt worry about it to much. It can take them months and months to truly settle down and open up to you.

As long as its not obviously distressed and is eating / drinking fine I wouldnt worry about it.

captainzep

13,306 posts

222 months

Tuesday 28th October 2008
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filski666 said:
the queue doesn't need managing - just the cleaning - remember to leave it as you would like to find it! - that goes for you too, Soovy!
Alright.

There's a Supersoaker(TM) full of watered down TCP next to the old mattress around the corner.

captainzep

13,306 posts

222 months

Tuesday 28th October 2008
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deviant said:
Cats do odd things so I wouldnt worry about it to much. It can take them months and months to truly settle down and open up to you.

As long as its not obviously distressed and is eating / drinking fine I wouldnt worry about it.
Yeah, yeah, cats are mystical. -You in the queue or not?

If not, could you get us all a bacon sandwich?

filski666

3,874 posts

222 months

Tuesday 28th October 2008
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captainzep said:
filski666 said:
the queue doesn't need managing - just the cleaning - remember to leave it as you would like to find it! - that goes for you too, Soovy!
Alright.

There's a Supersoaker(TM) full of watered down TCP next to the old mattress around the corner.
that should do the trick - but why do people keep interrupting with stuff about cats?

captainzep

13,306 posts

222 months

Tuesday 28th October 2008
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filski666 said:
that should do the trick - but why do people keep interrupting with stuff about cats?
Yes, its irritating.

Perhaps the OP could change the thread title?