teenagers spends
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jessica

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6,321 posts

281 months

Sunday 16th November 2008
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We currently have a teenager,who is always complaining that his friends get more money than he does.
what is the average weekly spend for going out etc. has to include bus fare as his friends live a bus journey away.
how many phers have 16 year old and on average how much to you give them pocket money each week.

baptistsan

1,918 posts

239 months

Sunday 16th November 2008
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Tell 'em to get a fking job.

Steamer

14,183 posts

242 months

Sunday 16th November 2008
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I was earning my own 'spends' at that age.

Autonotiv

2,673 posts

253 months

Sunday 16th November 2008
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I stopped getting pocket money when i was like 12.

He should get a job. simple as that imho

MentalSarcasm

6,083 posts

240 months

Sunday 16th November 2008
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At 16 I had a job and was getting 10 pounds a month.

My brother gets about 20 quid a month, or did until he wanted a contract phone, so my Mum arranged one that was 20 quid a month and she pays that. He's 17, nearly 18, but was on said 20 quid from 16 onwards. He has also had a job since he was 16.

Blue Meanie

73,668 posts

284 months

Sunday 16th November 2008
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Get a Job... I only had an allowance till I was 12, or so, and it wasn't much at all. Enough for maybe a visit to the piccies every 2 weeks.

Pesty

42,655 posts

285 months

Sunday 16th November 2008
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You should give him £40 a week

snotrag

15,635 posts

240 months

Sunday 16th November 2008
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Steamer said:
I was earning my own 'spends' at that age.
Yup. Can easily get a job at 16, then they can spend as much as they want.

staceyb

7,107 posts

253 months

Sunday 16th November 2008
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Tell him to get a job, I had 2 when I was 16.

rich1231

17,340 posts

289 months

Sunday 16th November 2008
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Dont you have a badge spare for him?

Brown and Boris

11,838 posts

264 months

Sunday 16th November 2008
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It has been a few years since my son was that age but at that time (about 8 years ago) he gor £30 a month, of which £12 was diner money. I am guessing he went hungry and spent the rest on games for his play station.

Neighbours 14 year old get £30 a month, but she pays for all his clothes, trips out etc and that money is his for mags, sweets etc.

Uncle Fester

3,114 posts

237 months

Sunday 16th November 2008
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Meanwhile, his friends are telling their parents the same thing.

I wanted a sailing dinghy when I was about 13. My father advised me to either learn how to live within my means, or learn how to make money.

It took me about 18 months to buy my first boat.

Norbury90

6,919 posts

235 months

Sunday 16th November 2008
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When I was 16 I had 6 pounds a month, which I didn't need to do anything with - I bought a Playstation game twice a year.

She kept hold of £60 per month to buy me clothes etc, and whenever I wanted to go out she would give me however much I wanted, so long as I didn't blow the 60 quid barrier in a month. Any extra from the month was put into a savings thing for me, to help start paying for uni.

bi9_jk

883 posts

294 months

Sunday 16th November 2008
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Tell them to get a job and match what they earn pound for pound.

Olf

11,978 posts

247 months

Sunday 16th November 2008
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When I was 16 I earnt 100 pounds a week in the holidays.

Sent the fecking lot on a Series II landrover.

Mst007

472 posts

251 months

Sunday 16th November 2008
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I didnt get any pocket money when I was 16. This was circa 1984. When I realised I had "important stuff to buy", i spoke to a few dozen neighbours about washing their cars on a regular basis. I undercut the supermarket car washes and was very quickly washing 7 cars every sunday, I`d then have enough cash to buy anything I was after the following saturday. Job done.


SleeperCell

5,591 posts

271 months

Sunday 16th November 2008
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At 16 my parents told me I was now old enough to leave school and so if I wanted to stay on at school I would have to pay a contribution to my school fees. I also had to start paying some rent contribution for living at home as long as I was earning an income (whether government student allowance or from working).

I can't say I was thrilled at the prospect but now I can recognise it probably helped me out a lot in the long term, although I have to say my parents didn't particularly mean it that way, they simply couldn't afford otherwise at the time. Looking at those other kids at school who were more indulged by their parents, they are the same ones now who are up to their necks in epic amounts of debt with no concept of budgeting while myself and a few others who I know also were in similar positions to myself are doing quite well now.

Good luck convincing your teenager it's a good idea though hehe.


Louisa911

649 posts

219 months

Sunday 16th November 2008
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I'm 18 and haven't been getting any money from my parents since I was about 14. I've had a job for 4 years, as the only source of my income. Now I have to pay for petrol, £25 a week ish, to get to my university foundation course every day, they give me a £10 a week drip- just so my WHOLE weekly income doesn't go on petrol.

Tell the lazy bum to get a job and stop whinging smile

tomTVR

6,909 posts

270 months

Sunday 16th November 2008
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Around the age of 15-16 i got £10 weekly pocket money + £15 from a paper round. £25 a week suited me fine.

Wacky Racer

41,336 posts

276 months

Sunday 16th November 2008
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Uncle Fester said:
Meanwhile, his friends are telling their parents the same thing.

I wanted a sailing dinghy when I was about 13. My father advised me to either learn how to live within my means, or learn how to make money.

It took me about 18 months to buy my first boat.


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