How much do you spend on your OH at Xmas?
How much do you spend on your OH at Xmas?
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Scrubs

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1,013 posts

233 months

Tuesday 2nd December 2008
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Is it just me, or the older you get do you seem to end up spending more and more cashola on the other half? She is wanting an Xbox 360 this year, and a few other bits, so pushing towards the 400 quid mark now. Yes, I can afford it, but am I just being a mean spirited by feeling as if it should be something a few hundred poundage cheaper?



Edited by Scrubs on Tuesday 2nd December 09:33

gbbird

5,197 posts

273 months

Tuesday 2nd December 2008
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I think it really depends on what she wants at the time. Some years i have spent upwards of 5 hundred pounds, other years £150 gets her what she really desires.

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superlightr

12,920 posts

292 months

Tuesday 2nd December 2008
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at least your OH tells you what she wants.

Much harder if OH doesnt know herself.

thehawk

9,335 posts

236 months

Tuesday 2nd December 2008
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Usually about £1,000, but she is worth it.

Shar2

2,270 posts

242 months

Tuesday 2nd December 2008
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Blimey, I've been told by my GF not to buy her anything this Christmas as she doesn't need anything. So, since I always do as I'm told, I've bought her a few items of clothing and some perfume. If I spent £400 on her she would kill me.

gti tim

1,633 posts

230 months

Tuesday 2nd December 2008
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We have set a budget of £50 as shes off to the clothes show, and theres nothing we want so would prefer to save the cash for holiday next year. Not alot to spend i know, but if you dont want alot then its fine. Someone i know has a family agreement to spend £2 on each other. Says its a good laugh and makes it fun rather than a chore.

Corpulent Tosser

5,468 posts

274 months

Tuesday 2nd December 2008
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How much varies considerably depending on what she wants, this year around 130 on a main gift plus a few smaller items, other years have been more.

If you can afford it 400 doesn't seem excessive.

pmanson

13,388 posts

282 months

Tuesday 2nd December 2008
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We've set a limit of £20 this year (although i'll probably go slightly over that) as we're planning on getting a new carpet early next year.

As newly weds who are rennovating our fist house this seemed like the most sensible option!

Zod

35,295 posts

287 months

Tuesday 2nd December 2008
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You can't ask your OH to tell you what she wants. Buying presents is supposed to be about showing that you've really thought about what the person would like.

the amount I spend on her varies significantly, but having just spent megabucks on a new bed, she's just getting a new lipstick this year.


drivin_me_nuts

17,949 posts

240 months

Tuesday 2nd December 2008
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0 - don't by presents. It's worked well for the last 20 years.

Scott328i

18,294 posts

230 months

Tuesday 2nd December 2008
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We have a budget this year of £200

But she had her 21st last week and got around £600 worth of stuff

R5GTTGaz

7,897 posts

249 months

Tuesday 2nd December 2008
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She wants a Macbook Air - £1200 and a Mulberry handbag - £800.

Feck...

Neil_H

15,418 posts

280 months

Tuesday 2nd December 2008
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Last year £150. I already spend a fortune on her as she's a poor student so that is more than enough. We have a £50 limit with the rest of the family otherwise it can get silly, and none of us really 'need' anything.

If you think it's too much then say so, although to be fair if my GF asked for an Xbox 360 I'd be very happy!

ETA: I agree with Zod though, I never request anything and neither does she.

Edited by Neil_H on Tuesday 2nd December 09:40

tonyvid

9,889 posts

272 months

Tuesday 2nd December 2008
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pmanson said:
As newly weds who are rennovating our fist house this seemed like the most sensible option!
Too good to not quote wink

Nothing this year as I have no other half.... except the MG which might get a sports exhaust if she behaves.

pmanson

13,388 posts

282 months

Tuesday 2nd December 2008
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tonyvid said:
pmanson said:
As newly weds who are rennovating our fist house this seemed like the most sensible option!
Too good to not quote wink

Nothing this year as I have no other half.... except the MG which might get a sports exhaust if she behaves.
hehe Damn keyboard.

Emmapuma

513 posts

228 months

Tuesday 2nd December 2008
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so far ive spent £280 on mine but will probs get him something else aswell. he is getting me a 32 inch tv and possibly some lowering springs for my car biggrin

bigTee

5,546 posts

250 months

Tuesday 2nd December 2008
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we popped 'up town' on Sunday for Mrs Tee to choose some boots for Christmas.

Half an hour and £700 later we left!!


I do hate River Island being next door to Ernest Jones!!


aussiebruce

452 posts

219 months

Tuesday 2nd December 2008
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£1,309 but that's it!!!!!!!!!!!

Mr E

23,055 posts

288 months

Tuesday 2nd December 2008
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R5GTTGaz said:
She wants a Macbook Air - £1200 and a Mulberry handbag - £800.

Feck...
Bloody hell.

Sarah, all is forgiven love.

mechsympathy

58,650 posts

284 months

Tuesday 2nd December 2008
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Lots of people said:
£100s
How much? Bloody hellfire! I would appear to be considerably tighter than yow[/brummie accent]