Would you have shaken his hand?

[RsSpyder]

I was in the pub this evening with a few mates, when one announced he had invited a bloke who had bullied me for around three years at school/6th form - physical and verbal abuse which pretty much made my life a misery. Anyway, he turns up and i ignore him all night. He had been going on about how he was on trial for GBH next week and will be going to prison for the next 5 to 7 years. Basically he is a total idiot. Then when it comes to him leaving, he goes round shaking everyones hand, and then comes to mine. I point blank refuse, and just said 'i wont shake your hand but see you later' or something along those lines. Afterwards my mates were giving it 'you're playing a dangerous game' etc. What are your opinions on how i acted? Was that a stupid thing to do or would you have done the same in my position?

Mike.

[Nightmare]

congrats - you actually have a spine. why on earth are your friends interested in seeing this w*nkmonkey?

[NiceCupOfTea]

At least you can look yourself in the mirror. Good on you.

[i want an aero]

good for you, the guy a complete twit.

[stigmundfreud]

tbh from the sounds of it your mates are cocks and need to be replaced

[Lil' Joe]

Well done mate! Good for you, got no time for bullies.

Ps How did he take it?

[The Moose]

Good man

(you, not him obviously!!)

Maybe if he gets 5-7 all the st he gave you he will get back.

There are not many people who would do that (me thinks)

Cheers

The Moose

[tinman0]

Good on you!

[John D.]

I would'nt of either. Been in similar situations in the past.

[RsSpyder]

Lil' Joe said:

Well done mate! Good for you, got no time for bullies.

Ps How did he take it?

He cracked some joke about 'does my hand smell that bad?' or similar, and then just walked off. I just hope it doesn't come back and bite me in the arse. Thanks for the supportive comments though guys, makes me realise how ste my mates can be really!

[Pesty]

Well done.

Too many spinless or two faced people would have shaken his hand.

The bigger question is why are you rmates inviting dicks like that for a drink?

[Ordinary Bloke]

Well done +1

You need some new friends...

[alfabadass]

fk him. he Prick sounds like one of those guys that thinks everyone likes him etc.

Just make sure you're friends got yo' back son, cos you gonna be his 3rd strike.

[tinman0]

RsSpyder said:

He cracked some joke about 'does my hand smell that bad?' or similar, and then just walked off. I just hope it doesn't come back and bite me in the arse. Thanks for the supportive comments though guys, makes me realise how ste my mates can be really!

I'll bet you that he'll spend more time in prison wondering why you didn't shake his hand than remembering the people who did.

Yeah, and your mates are wkers.

[Grant76]

Good on you mate!

Sounds like a complete toss pot, if any of your "friends" have any issues then you know it's time to move on.

Again, well done

[EDLT]

Keep the momentum going and get some proper mates too.

[okgo]

Your mates are full chat helmets FYI

[Graham E]

Sounds like an utter twunt.

well played.

[Daston]

Good on ya mate,

A real good friend of mine turned to drugs when we left school. He ended up smacking my girlfriend (who I am still with after 7 years) so told him he had better stay the F**k away havent talked to him since. Some of my friends understood some thought I was being harsh

[Dale19]

That must have taken a lot of bottle to do bud, well done.

Must have been horrible to be around him in the first place.

Your mates saying your playing a dangerous game highlights what a tt this bloke must be.

He should get shown whos boss if he does some time anyway.