Holidays in South Africa - 3yr old + Pregnant Wife!
Holidays in South Africa - 3yr old + Pregnant Wife!
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levron73

Original Poster:

211 posts

245 months

Monday 29th December 2008
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Need some help from the collective PH's

We are going to a wedding next May in a place called Magasliesburg, which apparently is about 60km from Johannesburg.

Really struggling to work out what to do as my wife will be 6 months pregnant and our daughter will be nearly 3; here are my thoughts;

1. I go on my own - not really an option as they are very close friends
2. Take the missus and leave our daughter with grand parents and we go for a long weekend. Seems a bit extravegant!
3. Take the entire family and treat it as a family holiday.

Question is - what would people suggest / or have done for a weeks holiday around Johannesburg with a pregnant wife and a 3yr old? The obvious one is a child friendly safari - but I reckon our daughter would last about 30 minutes!

Other option is a resort holtel - any suggestions in that area?

I've also got to think about my wifes comfort - 6 months pregnant, 12 hour flight in economy and yes she has just asked if we can go business!

All advice greatly accepted!!!!!

V8mate

45,899 posts

218 months

Monday 29th December 2008
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Take the youngster with you. I'll gladly take care of a pregnant lady wink

lick

levron73

Original Poster:

211 posts

245 months

Monday 29th December 2008
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V8mate said:
Take the youngster with you. I'll gladly take care of a pregnant lady wink

lick
are you qualified? - in fact don't answer that!

Piglet

6,250 posts

284 months

Monday 29th December 2008
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What about option 4, don't go, your wife doesn't have to be uncomfortable, you don't shell out a fortune on someone else's wedding and you get to look at the photo's later?

Slagathore

6,224 posts

221 months

Monday 29th December 2008
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Go on your own!

There's nothing worse than fat people and crying kids on a plane journey tongue out

On a serious note, my mate went last year! He enjoyed it. Was kept busy going safari type excursions, and said there were some decent food about aswell.

He didn't have a kid with him, but I'm sure it wouldn't have made much of a difference.

Edited by sgathore on Monday 29th December 20:52

lenandsons

1,325 posts

262 months

Monday 29th December 2008
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Base yourself at Sun City for the week, awesome resort hotel with entertainment for all and not to long a drive to Magaliesburg and back, about an hour each way

Si 330

1,306 posts

238 months

Monday 29th December 2008
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I had similar situation this year wedding in Dubai, wife pregnant and we have 2 young boys.
I left them at home and went by myself.

jimmyb

12,254 posts

245 months

Monday 29th December 2008
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Umm kinda tricky but would suggest if possible premium economy if business is too much on virgin atlantic. Always had good service with them.

HRG

72,863 posts

268 months

Monday 29th December 2008
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Jo'burg? For me personally I wouldn't take a young family there. Just too risky IMO.

uk_vette

3,336 posts

233 months

Monday 29th December 2008
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HRG said:
Jo'burg? For me personally I wouldn't take a young family there. Just too risky IMO.
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Me too,



Now if you said Cape Town, then thats different.
To me, just my opinion, Jo'burg doesn't have ANY atttraction, not as safe as one would like it to be.

Why do all the Jo'burgers etc, come to Cape Town for the holidays.

anonymous-user

83 months

Monday 29th December 2008
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What does your missus think? She's the one going to be carting around a baby inside her.

Unless it's really important, I probably wouldn't go at all.

I'd check that the airline you want to use will even let someone 6 months preggers fly at all. All airlines have different limits for long and short haul. I think some are 28 weeks with notes from midwives and all sorts of nonsense.

Edited by el stovey on Monday 29th December 21:55

Bec

194 posts

227 months

Monday 29th December 2008
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Have you thought about all the injections etc that may be required, and whether your wife cold have them as she is pregnant? I've never been there, so don't know what the requirements are, but could be worth investigating before you start making decisions?

uk_vette

3,336 posts

233 months

Monday 29th December 2008
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Bec said:
Have you thought about all the injections etc that may be required, and whether your wife cold have them as she is pregnant? I've never been there, so don't know what the requirements are, but could be worth investigating before you start making decisions?
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No injections required

Salgar

3,285 posts

213 months

Monday 29th December 2008
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HRG said:
Jo'burg? For me personally I wouldn't take a young family there. Just too risky IMO.
He's not going to jo'burg, he's going 60km away from it, its not some kind of death radiating cesspit.

But yeah I'd choose option 4 too.

Webber3

1,228 posts

248 months

Monday 29th December 2008
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uk_vette said:
HRG said:
Jo'burg? For me personally I wouldn't take a young family there. Just too risky IMO.
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Me too,



Now if you said Cape Town, then thats different.
To me, just my opinion, Jo'burg doesn't have ANY atttraction, not as safe as one would like it to be.

Why do all the Jo'burgers etc, come to Cape Town for the holidays.
I went to Jo'burg on business about 7 years ago and it was a scary place. Armed guards with automatic weapons at the hotel, electric fences like jurassic park around everything. The paper was filled with stories about rape and murder every single day I was there! Things might have changed, they couldn't have got much worse.

If you're just passing through though, make sure you have a lift sorted out from the airport.

Edited by Webber3 on Monday 29th December 22:03

HRG

72,863 posts

268 months

Monday 29th December 2008
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Salgar said:
HRG said:
Jo'burg? For me personally I wouldn't take a young family there. Just too risky IMO.
He's not going to jo'burg, he's going 60km away from it, its not some kind of death radiating cesspit.

But yeah I'd choose option 4 too.
From someone who used to live there it is apparently. Not the sort of place I'd take a young family.

jimmyb

12,254 posts

245 months

Monday 29th December 2008
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Just had a look BA 500 quid premium economy to jhb in may

funk odyssey

1,983 posts

258 months

Monday 29th December 2008
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Piglet said:
What about option 4, don't go, your wife doesn't have to be uncomfortable, you don't shell out a fortune on someone else's wedding and you get to look at the photo's later?
agree with this


plus --- it's JO' burg FFS

uk_vette

3,336 posts

233 months

Monday 29th December 2008
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funk odyssey said:
Piglet said:
What about option 4, don't go, your wife doesn't have to be uncomfortable, you don't shell out a fortune on someone else's wedding and you get to look at the photo's later?
agree with this


plus --- it's JO' burg FFS
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Yup, sack Jo'burg

Now for Cape Town she could make the effort.

V8mate

45,899 posts

218 months

Monday 29th December 2008
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uk_vette said:
funk odyssey said:
Piglet said:
What about option 4, don't go, your wife doesn't have to be uncomfortable, you don't shell out a fortune on someone else's wedding and you get to look at the photo's later?
agree with this


plus --- it's JO' burg FFS
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Yup, sack Jo'burg

Now for Cape Town she could make the effort.
Hang on. I thought that the OP had already agreed to leave her in my dastardly professional hands?